why are most incall bedrooms so dim? Are there any SPs who prefer more lighting?

[Chessmen]

In almost all my experiences, the incall bedrooms are quite dim with nightlights. I liked the time when the window was open for natural daylight and don't mind to have a desk light on.

Why are most incall places so dark? Do you prefer dark, natural lighting, or lights on?

 

[mrman848]

I prefer dim. But not 1 nightlight dim level. ....more like a lamp with a shade.
Of course my eyes are young and can see quite well in low light.
And dim lighting is typically regarded as relaxing and romantic.

You can probably request more lighting, I'm sure they would be happy to provide more light.

 

[thodisipagal]

I prefer more light. I have had no issue with room lighting with when visiting most women. On some occasions when I found the room light a little too dim for my liking, I politely requested more light (please) and my request was granted. There was this one woman, though (many years ago), who turned all lights off and only kept her old CRT TV with blue screen light on. The TV light gave me headache but the lady didn't want to turn it off or turn any other lights on -- not the best experience I've had (even though the lady was otherwise nice).

 

[lenny]

It's considered romantic, especially by the ladies. Guys are turned on by sight, so like to see everything clearly, hence full light. An exception would be when everyone looks better in the dark. Females may also be shy.

 

[jgg]

An exception would be when everyone looks better in the dark.

Hence...went home with a 10, woke up with a 2?

 

[Ray]

Dim lights, don't see stretchmarks and imperfections. Women are really self conscious.

 

[take8easy]

Dim lights, don't see stretchmarks and imperfections. Women are really self conscious.

.............and so are some guys........ I mean the mid section doesn't exactly look great after 50 yrs of age.

I am ok with medium dim light. Too dim is too dim. There is this place that I went to and it had a window to the east and I almost always had a morning session there. Honestly, too much brightness is not really sexy, not to me anyways.