whole lot of questions

[anewgirl]

First, please accept my apologies if this post is in anyway inappropriate. I've been lurking for a while, and this seems to be a good group of helpful and experienced people

I would like to enter this business on a very part-time basis, potentially offering outcall services only say one evening per week, hopefully establishing a small & regular clientele. Presently I am employed full-time, and am a part-time exotic dancer, so I am looking to supplement my income and have some fun at the same time. To this point my experience has been limited to a few chance engagements.
Unfortunately I am not able to advertise with pictures, phone numbers, etc. due to conflicts with my other work, so how would I go about getting business? If I was to make some contacts, say online, how to protect my personal safety & avoid ending up in a harmful situation? Is it realistic for me to try to do this independently, or should I start with an agency or massage parlour until I have more experience?

Also, I've noticed that many clients enjoy activities like daty and bbbj, is there not health concerns if a sp is offering these services to multiple clients? Are there tricks to reducing risk in these scenarios?

Is it common for a client to have a regular arrangement with a certain girl, or would that be the exception?

Any and all feedback would be appreciated - thanks so much!

 

[Massagegirl]

One day a week it might be hard to get regulars, but being an exotic dancer should get you enough new people every week and those that like you will wait to see you. Fido pre-paid is a good idea, but you get a free phone with a 3 month contract, then you can switch to minutes. If you advertise here you will get booted unless you make some arrangement with Fred zed to pay after you make a little cash? I don't know if he'll go for it though.

 

[eclipca]

hey how r u? I saw your posting and just wanted to comment. There are lots of guys that have regular sps. I'm one of them though i am currently looking for a new " regular". I believe having a regular sp makes it more comfortable for both parties after a few visits. It can be more fun because each will learn what the other partner likes and also avoid situations that are not as comfortable. And definitely, one night a week will be enough to start out, if you are as honest and sweet and catering as you should be, you will build a regular client list very quickly. Good luck with it all! Check your PM!!

 

[vicgfelover]

It's not that unusual for a gal to get into the biz on a part time basis. If you don't want to post a pic, having a description would be a good start, as well as how much a 1/2hr or 1 hr session would cost. Indicating if you are offering incall/outcall would also be useful.

It's not a requirement to offer BBBJ or DATY, some guys enjoy that, the best thing to do is just put out what you are honestly comfortable doing. Perhaps you can set up one of those free websites (or a yahoo profile page) that has this type of info and then put it up on the ad section of this website.
I'd recommend chatting with some of the gals like Victoria-Lee or Paige Adams about how they book appointments and protect their safety, etc.
It may be a lot of work to do start off getting set up on your own.
Sometimes just signing up with an agency that'll accept you coming on shift when it fits your schedule is the easiest thing to do to see how you like working in the industry may be a first step?
Good luck!
PS - Some of us like having a weekly or every other week appointment with a great gal!

 

[anewgirl]

Thanks everyone for your repsonses, post in this thread, and pms. Lots of helpful info so far!

Sorry to say, I don't think I'll go the free sessions route, Mike..LOL!

I'm thinking my action plan thus far will be to:
- talk to some of the girls
- get a pager
- do up a quick informative website (possibly with some pics, less identifying info/features)

I'm looking forward to this...

 

[RedSquare]

Hmm... New to the boards myself sounds like an interesting endeavor.

Go ahead and get some pics BUT just smudge out the face. No picture makes it a bit more difficult for people to come to you.

Most guys will overpay once but ... You can shear a sheep numerous times but you can only skin him once.

 

[WhiteRabbit]

Speaking from a guy's point of view, Victoria-Lee gets top honors for explaining how this business works IMHO. You'll probably want to get some pictures available online as that will really help. Get an email address along with that pager too and check it often.

Everyone has limits which is fine, but guys might like to know them before an appointment (reviews help here). You can always expand your menu with a well stocked toy bag.

On the safety bit, start with condoms. See your doctor about vaccinations on Hep A & B. Every once and a while there is a STD thread on the boards with good info, but they tend to get flamed or deleted unfortunately.

On the other safety bit, it sounds like a lot of the girls are into some form of martial arts. It might not be a bad thing. Staying in shape can help in more than ways than one.

Post on the board so people can get to know you too.

Good luck with it.

 

[SwedishBrijitte]

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