Who should I lose my virginity to? I'm 18

[vancitysir]

Can't believe this thread still has traction...but THIS.

Because when the question from your future gf or wife questions about how your first time was, will you be comfortable in telling them that you lost it to an escort. Or will you weave an intricate lie that you'll keep up for the rest of your living existence.

This hobby should be a supplementary guilty pleasure to your existing normal life. You don't want this hobby to be your existing life.

I can’t agree more with this.

 

[Kingpin29]

^ Above post here is key fact to remember with this hobbying. You DEFINITELY do not want this hobby to be your existing life. It's fun and definitely worth to experience when it adds spice to your life. Unless you have tons of cash to burn then yes you can make it your existing life. But it will jade your experience with sex and women, where now sex is seen as something to be easily paid for. Have fun with an escort for the first time, or better yet go for a regular first then try escorts. But don't make it the main source for engagements with women. It will slowly tear you apart mentally, and financially.

Too much of anything is bad for you. Key is moderation.

 

[lukom]

There is a lot of wisdom here for sure; however, some guys just can't get laid because of a lack of confidence, and a really good, patient provider could help with that.

There must be enough ladies on here that read these posts who could quietly pm the OP (assuming they haven't) and help him out with a magical first time. Might be just the spark he needs to both approach and hook his future girls.

I'd suggest trying several body types, nationalities, etc. alongside regular relationships so you get to know what you are really attracted to, and then focus on meeting someone like that in "real life". I knew I loved asian women at a young age but didn't end up with one. Silly me, from a sex point of view at least. If I'd known what an escort was then, I'd have banged more Asians, and who knows you might fluke out and even meet one you end up in a real relationship with.

You'll might spend 10x more on dates hoping to get laid unless things are a whole lot looser now than when I was your age. Playing with a few escorts along the way might appease your lust a bit so you're not impatient in real life. Love usually finds you, not the other way around, so getting laid every so often might give you the patience to wait.

Best advice I can provide is find a bi mate, and then you can enjoy some variety with her your whole life!

I'm fully in agreement with this one, in addition try Sp's of different age groups. Don't just go for young cute pretty girls, go for milfs and cougars, and even try a gilf if you can get yourself there. Almost everyone regrets their first time, and it's not just because of the person, but also because neither had any idea what they were doing. I would book a couple of hours even with the SP, try and even make it a "date" for a day with them, before going back to her incall and doing the deed. Explain that you want the session to be one that involves some level of instruction on their end. Nothing wrong with having a woman explain to you where her clit is the first time you go down on one, and how to feel for her G-spot for example. You may want to stretch out an arrangement where you see the SP for multiple sessions in that same month.