I’m still a virgin ( have had 1 blow before tho) but still very inexperienced. Who is the best provider I should go for who doesn’t break my bank
Who is the best person to get as a first?
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It really depends, how old are you? What kind of woman are you interested in? There are lots of choices 🤟🏼
Honestly, it seems like you might not be entirely truthful—your post mentions being inexperienced, but your “reviews” suggest you’ve used services before. Are you new to this or you want someone who’s new??
good luck 🍀
True I have some post but all of them are questions about the providers as I was looking one like right now. I have not been fully invested in the idea of paying for my first time yk but this time I just want to get it over with and have fun.
Best advice I could give is find a well reviewed provider, be open about your situation keep you expectations low be nice and go with the flow you’ll be fine.
I’d also suggest starting with short time to see if you click, I think Vibes are import.
I’d also suggest starting with short time to see if you click, I think Vibes are import.
I’ll give a little perspective. My first time was “To Sir with Love escorts” that I picked from the yellow pages. I’m old. No reviews, no advice, just 18 and impulsive. As I look back now as an old guy I wish that wasn’t my first time. I don’t regret it, but shortly after I did meet someone special and I wish I had waited. Thats me though getting emotional over being a stupid 18 year old. And having seen providers over the years I haven’t had the same emotional connection as I’ve had with a partner in a relationship. But I totally understand the need to just bang the heck out of someone. Anyways a big decision but don’t go cheap. A massage table is not what you want. A bed at an agency or get a hotel room and there are so many girls to choose from here that you will easily find one that you like! Good luck and all the best!
I would agree, I would also not recommend fucking an escort for your first time. My first was with a girl I was dating, but we ended up only having sex once, and then it ended shortly after because she ended up going back to her ex. After that I met me second gf. Then after her, I had way to long of a dry spell and this is when I had my first escort (ended up being my first two actually as it was a threesome)
How old are you? If your still young, I'd recommend to find a real connection with someone for your first time. You may later regret it if you don't. But I suppose, if your like 30 or something, yeah, maybe go find a nice escort to get it over with.
Just to ad a counter-point, my 1st time was with an independent escort and I neither regret it, nor would I say I've ever wished I'd waited. 🤷♂️
Just roll the dice at one of the spas and cry in the car on the drive home
I know you're not asking for (this kind of) advice and I don't know what your situation is (maybe you have an impediment or a disability), but I'm with Tt69 and LovesThePussy: if you can avoid it, your first time shouldn't be with a sex worker. It's good to feel all the awkwardness and butterflies of doing it for the first time with a person just like you. It'll be a valuable exercise moving forward. You want to be able to do that in the future without paying. This could be a paramount moment in your sex life, one that informs the rest of it, and you want it to be as real as possible.
My two cents.
My two cents.
If you’re an adult virgin, it’s important to know you’re not alone, you’re actually part of a much larger group than you might think. Some people choose to take control of losing their virginity by seeing an escort rather than waiting for the “perfect” scenario to appear. Losing your virginity to a reputable professional who is empathetic and can help you build confidence and create a solid sexual foundation for your future.
Working with a professional can offer a different kind of experience, one that emphasizes communication and understanding. Many people who lose their virginity in more traditional circumstances can feel unprepared/unsatisfied, but it doesn’t have to be that way. With the right approach, it can be a meaningful and empowering step forward with a professional escort who knows what they are doing.
Working with a professional can offer a different kind of experience, one that emphasizes communication and understanding. Many people who lose their virginity in more traditional circumstances can feel unprepared/unsatisfied, but it doesn’t have to be that way. With the right approach, it can be a meaningful and empowering step forward with a professional escort who knows what they are doing.
Those of us who are north of 30, and some of us are north of 50, can look back and remember a different time growing up. Learning about sex and dating was more organic back then. Like a lot of people, I learned about sex from my uncle’s Playboy stash, about my developing body from Judy Bloom and shared a first kiss under a harvest moon camping.
Things are just different today. Kids know about anal gaping from the dark web by 10 and now we’re fucking robots. I try to put myself in the shoes of young people dealing with the stress of social isolation, having grown up through a global pandemic and dealing with a dating minefield where they also have to understand how to navigate sophisticated concepts of boundaries and consent before even asking someone for coffee.
We also have a large displaced group of young men in Canada here as international students who are not allowed to casually date for sex, that’s reserved for a marriage prospect and they may already be promised back home. Meanwhile they’re thrust into adulthood expected to succeed and come back home as men leading a family with little to no sexual or intimate experience. These men do not have the freedom that many naturalized Canadians enjoy and even less free time working 12-16hr days.
Whenever I see these posts on review forums guys show up with the advice to wait for a girlfriend and I know you mean well, it’s from your lived experience growing up. Sex workers see a much bigger frame. Try to remember not all men experience growing up the same as you did. For some young men today a safe encounter with a confident woman who can teach them how to share intimacy, navigate boundaries and touch a woman’s body in a way she likes (rather than what porn shows) is a healthy and wonderful transition into becoming a confident man and a forever memory.
Things are just different today. Kids know about anal gaping from the dark web by 10 and now we’re fucking robots. I try to put myself in the shoes of young people dealing with the stress of social isolation, having grown up through a global pandemic and dealing with a dating minefield where they also have to understand how to navigate sophisticated concepts of boundaries and consent before even asking someone for coffee.
We also have a large displaced group of young men in Canada here as international students who are not allowed to casually date for sex, that’s reserved for a marriage prospect and they may already be promised back home. Meanwhile they’re thrust into adulthood expected to succeed and come back home as men leading a family with little to no sexual or intimate experience. These men do not have the freedom that many naturalized Canadians enjoy and even less free time working 12-16hr days.
Whenever I see these posts on review forums guys show up with the advice to wait for a girlfriend and I know you mean well, it’s from your lived experience growing up. Sex workers see a much bigger frame. Try to remember not all men experience growing up the same as you did. For some young men today a safe encounter with a confident woman who can teach them how to share intimacy, navigate boundaries and touch a woman’s body in a way she likes (rather than what porn shows) is a healthy and wonderful transition into becoming a confident man and a forever memory.
While I was many years removed from virginity my first Vic SW was Alex Fjord and she was and remains lovely. She is in her 30s, beautiful, patient, and will put you at ease. She advertises her Vic dates on Leolist and has a webpage in her name. If you want younger, ie early 20s , Vienna Banks on tryst is a spitfire. I think she would gladly mentor you though and once you’re off to the races with her, standby. In summary, both are great contenders and will leave you feeling confident and satisfied. Go get em tiger.
I would suggest a massage with a happy ending first. This gets you in the door, so to speak, getting use to seeing an SP ...
Next time if you are up to it, get a massage with a blowjob....
Make sure you can speak english with the SP.
If you do option for FS, your not a bull in a china shop; communicate with the SP and let the SP guide your through it.
Before seeing anyone, check here on PERB for cleanliness and how to groom before going to see a SP.
Agency vs Independent... depends if you need a reference, the simple answer to this is if an independent needs a reference, its easier to see an agency.
check for reviews on the Sp (what you are checking for is service, money amount, scammers, if pics are recent etc) That means learn to use the search Function here on PERB.... usually top right hand corner of page.
Next time if you are up to it, get a massage with a blowjob....
Make sure you can speak english with the SP.
If you do option for FS, your not a bull in a china shop; communicate with the SP and let the SP guide your through it.
Before seeing anyone, check here on PERB for cleanliness and how to groom before going to see a SP.
Agency vs Independent... depends if you need a reference, the simple answer to this is if an independent needs a reference, its easier to see an agency.
check for reviews on the Sp (what you are checking for is service, money amount, scammers, if pics are recent etc) That means learn to use the search Function here on PERB.... usually top right hand corner of page.
