Who do you attract the most?

white Ninja

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Great thread .

When I was a polite & considerate nice guy ( most of my life ) I tended to attract a lot of bad girls / party girls, as well as, by societal standards “hot” girls who had issues around emotional intimacy ( counter dependents ) .

After this being the situation most of my life eventuality I decided as a conscious decision to start mimicking the personality traits of a bad boy / narcissist, and low and behold tons of nice girls ( the ones I always wanted ) started literally throwing themselves at me .
 
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white Ninja

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You have a lot of inquiries, 10 is a lot!! You are really doing something right if as an Asian you are attracting Asians. Most Asian women want white guys.
A lot but not all . Some actually say on their profile the only wanna date asian guys .
Depends on the girl
 
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It's a bit tricky for me to answer this because I hardly ever get approached by women who are complete strangers in a sober environment. It's usually girls I already know or friends of friends, or girls at places I frequent who make the first move. I do get approached by woman I dont know when I'm out at a bar or something, but a lot of times they'll just hang around in my vicinity and make eye contact with a smile to indicate I should make the first move.

When it comes to dating apps, I come across all kinds of girls. But on the apps where I can customize my settings, I tend to match with girls who fall within those parameters I've set, which usually means they're more my type. I'm still hoping for a weight or body type filter one day though lol .

I've noticed that older women are usually more straightforward about wanting sex, which is why I don't usually bother with seeing escorts who are 30 and older (I do break this rule on occasion). There are plenty of opportunities for free easy sex with attractive women in that age group.
 

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A lot but not all . Some actually say on their profile the only wanna date asian guys .
Depends on the girl
Same In the SP world. There are Asian SPs that just want Asian client Maybe size matters?
I don’t think I have seen the same restriction from white SP who screens only for white clients.
I seen the No black gents. But that is for another thread discussion.
 

white Ninja

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Same In the SP world. There are Asian SPs that just want Asian client Maybe size matters?
I don’t think I have seen the same restriction from white SP who screens only for white clients.
I seen the No black gents. But that is for another thread discussion.
I would guess it’s a cultural thing .
 

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ha! generous to think that woman approach most men 😂
I read something about how women approaching men isn't what they think it is. It's usually really obvious signs about their availability, not direct "hey you want to go out". Ultimately, it's still up to the guy to initiate.

I would have way fewer regrets if they had just told me they wanted to bang.
 

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After decades of research, Punty-Wunty has come to the data-driven conclusion that he/she/it attracts:

1) Scorpios
2) Saggittarians
3) the equivalent of economic immigrants with big boobies
3) Random linked-In reach-outs that don’t don’t do reach-arounds
4) ‘Content’fucktards
5) Girls that want to fuck me within 15km of my ISP address.
 

white Ninja

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I read something about how women approaching men isn't what they think it is. It's usually really obvious signs about their availability, not direct "hey you want to go out". Ultimately, it's still up to the guy to initiate.

I would have way fewer regrets if they had just told me they wanted to bang.
It’s very subtle ,
But to women it seems obvious .
Guys simply aren’t that intuitive about this stuff so a lot of it ends up going right over their head .
 

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I would say ladies who are around 5 feet to 5 foot 5, brunettes, better then average looking. I had two ladies that were over six feet. I'm not that tall. I've caught a few ladies at work looking at my junk. Sorry, I do not go there at the workplace.

Had a share of gay guys that were quite obvious in looking at me. Sorry...
 
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I think most men are fairly clueless when a female is hitting on them. I know I am too.

If a beautiful woman comes out of nowhere and starts talking to me I get suspicious.

I think “Hey, woman aren’t attracted to me. What the hell does she want ?” :unsure:

Same here. I either miss it, or get suspicious that this is some joke being played at my expense.

Ladies, just tell us if you want us. Get us alone, get close. Make is crystal clear, not subtle. You may have to aim right at us and charge in like a torpedo, because head games only work if we have something inside ours.
 
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Same here. I either miss it, or get suspicious that this is some joke being played at my expense.

Ladies, just tell us if you want us. Get us alone. Make is crystal clear, not subtle. You may have to aim right at us and charge in like a torpedo, because head games only work if we have something inside ours.
Since the ladies love to be seduced to get their hormones going , it would be preferable that you and all of us get on the same page and get better at observing the signs of attraction.

I don't think we will get much sympathy from women playing the attraction games. And certainly no short cuts ....it's the price to pay
 
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Ladies, just tell us if you want us, because head games only work if we have something inside ours.
Post of the day!
 

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I think some of my MILFy friends respond to smiles, light physical touches, and eye contact, especially if their partners are in the vicinity. Nothing ever culminates, but that’s the attraction of flirtIng.
 

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I am so many different kinds of energies depending on the day but in this business I love the gents I attract & maintain a arrangement with .

Smart men , kind men , a lot of British men & carpenters for some reason .
Sports playing , physical men 🤪 and Married men mostly , between 40-67 are the majority.
Which I adore , Men who appear to be very conservative by day but turn into intense sex monsters in private.
luckily I repell most ego inflated misogynistic with my personality so it works well to 😘👍🏻
 
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