Where's Ashley from Tiger? Taking a break because a client freaked her out

[VinVan]

Not sure where this post should go so I put it here. Mods, correct me if I'm wrong.

Some of you may know Ashley from Tiger. Great gal. Great service. One of my ATF and I’m sure for others too. Well, she's taking a break because of an incident that freaked her out.

She and I get along pretty well - enough so that she contacted me after the incident and wanted to convey to me what had happened.

She was getting ready to host a client when she noticed something odd about how his phone was placed. She asked if he was filming her. He said “no,” but she was suspicious at this point and walked over to check the phone. And sure enough, he was secretly filming the session. Ashley freaked. Got him to delete the file and went apeshit on him as well she should have. When I finally connected with her a day later she was still very shaken by the violation.

I’m not sure where this ranks on the list of no-no’s, but it’s up there.

Ashley asked me to post this to let others who may be seeking her out know that she is us on hiatus. Maybe she'll be back and maybe she'll retire because of this incident. It shook her that much.

Like every other SP, she has a life outside of work and the last thing she needs is the stress of facing the possibility that some asshole will post the video online. I can't imagine the stress she has gone through since the incident.

So thanks dude who did this. In one fell swoop you caused an incredible amount of grief, stress and anger to a sweet, gracious person; violated her privacy; and may have forced her out of the game.

I'm a bit pissed for all kinds of reasons - how about you?

 

[Poon Raider]

Damn man, that's pretty low...like seriously, if u wanna make your private porn vid, there are plenty of SPs that offer that service.
Don't try to sneak it in, like wow.

Hopefully there were some repercussions thrown down by Sara (or whoever was manning the frontdesk) to this sap.

I've never met Ashley nor frequent Tiger often, but this situation bugs me for sure.

 

[golferjohn]

what a douche! Ashley is Feral, but if you can get her to purr you'll reap the rewards. Unfortunately, someone decided to affirm to her that we're pigs and as a result we probably lost a gem. VV, pass-along a sincerest apology from me if you get the chance

 

[Newb808]

Ladies need to be so vigilant these days. All the new phone technology. It is just too easy to record things now. One lady I know was saying a customer said he was checking his messages and he was secretly snapping a picture of the provider. Unfortunately, there are people with less character that will take advantage others that are too trusting. Pretty ugly things.

Being cognizant of this, I make a point to use my phone as little as possible and pointed down while at an incall. I don’t have a smart watch but those can record record A/V too. If I were an SP, I’d ask clients to put any device in a box or something to also prevent audio recordings.

 

[ediug]

this is disgusting and this kinda shit makes the rest of us pay for it, losing such a great talent. personally I think this is why so many have already lost faith in humanity...

 

[Fooker]

That horrible, poor girl. I hope that guy gets what’s coming to him. I’d be happy to beat the shit out of him myself to teach him a lesson in violating a nice lady in that way.

 

[willybigz]

Just don't do this! If you feel the need to film...get consent before lining up a session.

I'm assuming from the "no cellphones" sign along with a warning of no filming at Great Pharoah something similar happened.
Photographing/Video-ing someone without their consent is really not good. And it can come back to you in multiple bad ways.
For example "Fooker" has some beats for you and he's far from her circle of her friends/family or Tiger's management.

That horrible, poor girl. I hope that guy gets what’s coming to him. I’d be happy to beat the shit out of him myself to teach him a lesson in violating a nice lady in that way.

 

[NEbaD]

Crummy deal. This happened to a girl I see frequently as well, but fortunately the place she worked took steps where possible to fix things, and she didn't feel inclined to leave. If she had... tbh I'd have been very upset, as I like the girl probably too much, so I get where you're coming from.

Everyone should be careful; there are plenty of scumbags on both sides of the fence. I know of creepy things involving discreet recording at one incall in particular I'd been visiting, and I recall easily the sick feeling in my stomach as I tried to imagine how I'd deal with it if any video with me in it "got out." Luckily, it's been a couple years and nothing, but this hobby we all partake in has risks.