When you read "CBJ" you....

[vancity_cowboy]

In fact, what I said was in reference to the fact that I am sure there are just as many folks (men and women) who prefer CBJ as there are those who prefer BBBJ. In fact, check out the poll results, and this is rapidly appearing to be the case.

actually the numbers are, and have been, maintaining approximately the same ratio since the beginning

and those numbers, as of 9am feb 6, are as follows:

stop reading = 23 (33.33%)
keep reading but lost interest = 20 (28.99%)
keep reading and retain interest = 26 (37.68%)

the poll has divided its responses into two categories that require bbbj to retain interest in seeing a woman; the first two

so the numbers actually total as follows:

require bbbj = 43 (62.32%)
do not require bbbj = 26 (37.68%)

just keeping the arithmetic real, alex

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Good point, vcc! :nod:

 

[jesuschrist]

Good point, vcc! :nod:

well it's the obvious point, and sometimes the obvious has to be made.

Now, the implications is what is interesting and I'm sure the SP's have thought about it and might even have something to say, if they dared to.

 

[DiscreetOG]

Being in the market, to me BBBJ vs. CBJ is like investing in stocks...what is your tolerance for risk? I'm generally a CBJ guy. However, I'm more into the overall experience as opposed to the one act. I've never discounted an SP one way or the other....nothing ventured nothing gained! Sometimes, at least for me, I'm happy with a little touchy-feely and cuddle, and the sex is secondary...

 

[jesuschrist]

Being in the market, to me BBBJ vs. CBJ is like investing in stocks...what is your tolerance for risk? I'm generally a CBJ guy. However, I'm more into the overall experience as opposed to the one act. I've never discounted an SP one way or the other....nothing ventured nothing gained! Sometimes, at least for me, I'm happy with a little touchy-feely and cuddle, and the sex is secondary...

Spoken like a guy who hasn't been pooning too long. Maybe I'm wrong, but that's what it sounds like.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Being in the market, to me BBBJ vs. CBJ is like investing in stocks...what is your tolerance for risk? I'm generally a CBJ guy. However, I'm more into the overall experience as opposed to the one act. I've never discounted an SP one way or the other....nothing ventured nothing gained! Sometimes, at least for me, I'm happy with a little touchy-feely and cuddle, and the sex is secondary...

Another entry for the Gentleman category... :nod:

 

[DiscreetOG]

note following...

 

[DiscreetOG]

JC, i debated with myself with respect to how to respond to your post. Write a few lines, someone reads those lines and immediately has you pegged?
i've been pooning off and on for 40 years. Frow SW's to high end call girls. Over that period i've had enjoyable experiences with SP's when neither a CBJ's or BBBJ's was on the menu.
When I was younger I'd get plastered with the guys on cheap beer (I can remember when you could put a duece on the table at the Blackstone and leave pissed..but I digress).
Now though I enjoy savoring a bottle of Shiraz in the company of a lady, while having a stimulating conversation. My tastes have changed over the years.
I'm no longer interested in a "quicky" or a blow n'go....
I like to book longer sessions and have them slowly build to a climax... How does that some go.."I want a man with a slow hand, not one that comes and goes in a heated rush"? As I stated, I look for the total experience, not just the one act.
I generally don't shop around. I've been seeing one SP for the past 15 years, and prior to that, one for about 8 years. When my regular is not available, I see ladies who advertise on this site. Sometimes they become a semi-regular for me. But have never had more than two or three ladies on my dance card at one time...
So, again, speaking for my preferences, when I choose to see an SP, I don't make that choice by whether or not she gives BBBJ's or CBJ's

 

[Dgodus]

JC, i debated with myself with respect to how to respond to your post. Write a few lines, someone reads those lines and immediately has you pegged?
i've been pooning off and on for 40 years. Frow SW's to high end call girls. Over that period i've had enjoyable experiences with SP's when neither a CBJ's or BBBJ's was on the menu.
When I was younger I'd get plastered with the guys on cheap beer (I can remember when you could put a duece on the table at the Blackstone and leave pissed..but I digress).
Now though I enjoy savoring a bottle of Shiraz in the company of a lady, while having a stimulating conversation. My tastes have changed over the years.
I'm no longer interested in a "quicky" or a blow n'go....
I like to book longer sessions and have them slowly build to a climax... How does that some go.."I want a man with a slow hand, not one that comes and goes in a heated rush"? As I stated, I look for the total experience, not just the one act.
I generally don't shop around. I've been seeing one SP for the past 15 years, and prior to that, one for about 8 years. When my regular is not available, I see ladies who advertise on this site. Sometimes they become a semi-regular for me. But have never had more than two or three ladies on my dance card at one time...
So, again, speaking for my preferences, when I choose to see an SP, I don't make that choice by whether or not she gives BBBJ's or CBJ's

I'm always looking for the overall experience as well, as well dont do blow n go (fuck I just take too long to finish) I like 3 and 4 hours with someone now a days (2 if I'm not too sure about them). However part of that overall experience involves sexual activities (I do get a kick out of the "paying for time" fellows, wonder how quick their tune would change should they have a regular 2 or 3 hour date with a provider but suddenly find out that they aren't going to get laid - in fact I know the response when on another board the topic of multi day vacation bookings and price was discussed, and they did quickly change their tune) and my absolute favorite, it isn't even close in fact, sexual activities are blowjobs and daty. The only thing a cbj offers me is the original "holy heck that's a hot image".....10 seconds later, I'm pretty bored. A hj is better than a cbj, and I'm not trying to be a jerk here, but most women do not know how to stroke a cock beyond trying to get someone to pop (which generally doesn't work too well on me at all). 3 times I've tried to see someone that only offers cbj and nope, nothing.

So out of one year of seeing escorts I've learned, there are enough women that offer a bbbj to not even bother with the ones who dont, I wont ask them, I wont go see them in hopes I can hint at it or any bs like that, and I bear them no grudge (their choice on what they offer, my choice to find what I like) I just move on. The only exception is someone I've seen a bunch who offered bbbj, but I've noticed now that she really only does spotty bits of working she is now only offering cbj, I'll see her because she's always been fantastic, and I've trained her to give me a real proper hj lol.

Only reason to keep looking at an ad or website for someone who doesn't offer bbbj is the pictures, and fuck, porn/erotic art is better for that purpose.