I'm curious what you guys say when you show up for your date and the SP is not the same in the ad and you find them unattractive? I had a massage appointment a few months ago and it happened to me. Turned out to be an older lady, maybe 50. She had a belly that made her look pregnant. I was too nice to walk out so I stayed. Massage was actually amazing. The finish however, I couldn't even get it up and I told her I was just tired/stressed. Maybe next time will be better and I left. What would you do? I just hate being rude lol.
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I know it is awkward, but please, next time just tell her that she does not look like her photos and go back home.
It might motivate her to post more accurate photos. It might get me in trouble but, I spend a lot of time and energy making sure my photos are always up to date and always reflect what I look like in person.
It sucks that clients are rewarding those who do not take this job seriously by staying and paying their full rate even though they have inaccurate photos.
It might motivate her to post more accurate photos. It might get me in trouble but, I spend a lot of time and energy making sure my photos are always up to date and always reflect what I look like in person.
It sucks that clients are rewarding those who do not take this job seriously by staying and paying their full rate even though they have inaccurate photos.
I've always just said sorry,this isn't going to work,turn around and head back to my truck..
it depends. its been a long time since I have shown up and its just an entirely different girls from the photos, that moreso happened when I was a newb at this . unless you count massage parlours but I always assume the pics are fake cause they usually are, but if Im really horny and need a massage, sometimes ill still go for it unless she is very unattractive, if they give a good massage with lots of teasing you just use your imagination and think about a hotter girl haha. massage parlours and places with lineups etc are alot easier to walk away from, its really just being overly horny that makes one stay when they shouldnt .
But if its an independent girl and its a clear bait and switch , or a girl who is so unattractive where you cant even think about having sex with her, either politely tell her she doesnt look like her photos and that you dont feel comfortable going through with it , or go the less awkward route and say you forgot the donation in your car and text her that once you have left the building. yes, they sometimes will send you texts calling you an asshole or threatening you, saying they have you on camera and know who you are etc, dont argue back, just block them and move on. hopefully you were using a burner or a texting app. its been a while since ive been in that situation but nothing bads ever come from it haha.
Now inaccurate photos are a different story, those are so common these days that its almost to be expected that the girl will look worse than her photos like 75%+ of the time. sure, you usually have no idea what the face will look like, but if she has an unattractive face but a nice body, that can be worked with. Inaccurate photos are usually to do with the body though, also age. photoshop /facetune or whatever app girls are using these days is prevalent, they can use it to make them look skinnier, tighter, bigger rounder ass, younger, unbelievable hip to waist ratio, look like a fitness model. this is common, not just with escorts, but also with girls you see on instagram and dating apps aswell, theres even ai apps that can edit their bodies in video. I think alot of the older guys on here should be more aware of this. theres also just using photos that are old, I see plenty of girls on tryst who are using the same photos they were using 5+ years ago, alot can change in 5 years, sometimes alot can change in 6 months haha. age is another, its been discussed many of times on this forum, but add 5-10 years minimum to the listed age, sometimes more. When it comes to inaccurate and edited photos, it depends how bad it is for me to need to walk, and sometimes your horniness just takes over. if its really deceptive, I want to say i'll walk , but I dont walk as much as I wish I did later, and I wouldnt consider myself a pushover haha. theres also the fact that sometimes the lighting is dim (which makes them look better) and sometimes they are wearing some sort of lingerie or a robe that covers the parts of their body were the flaws are. Im not gonna walk if the donation is already handed over and they are naked infront of me, so in those cases you just gotta stick it out. im also more likely to walk if its an independent girl vs. an agency, as much as I have seen agencies on here say they are fine with guys walking, theres agencies who are known to black ball and ban you for this (I wont name names)
But if its an independent girl and its a clear bait and switch , or a girl who is so unattractive where you cant even think about having sex with her, either politely tell her she doesnt look like her photos and that you dont feel comfortable going through with it , or go the less awkward route and say you forgot the donation in your car and text her that once you have left the building. yes, they sometimes will send you texts calling you an asshole or threatening you, saying they have you on camera and know who you are etc, dont argue back, just block them and move on. hopefully you were using a burner or a texting app. its been a while since ive been in that situation but nothing bads ever come from it haha.
Now inaccurate photos are a different story, those are so common these days that its almost to be expected that the girl will look worse than her photos like 75%+ of the time. sure, you usually have no idea what the face will look like, but if she has an unattractive face but a nice body, that can be worked with. Inaccurate photos are usually to do with the body though, also age. photoshop /facetune or whatever app girls are using these days is prevalent, they can use it to make them look skinnier, tighter, bigger rounder ass, younger, unbelievable hip to waist ratio, look like a fitness model. this is common, not just with escorts, but also with girls you see on instagram and dating apps aswell, theres even ai apps that can edit their bodies in video. I think alot of the older guys on here should be more aware of this. theres also just using photos that are old, I see plenty of girls on tryst who are using the same photos they were using 5+ years ago, alot can change in 5 years, sometimes alot can change in 6 months haha. age is another, its been discussed many of times on this forum, but add 5-10 years minimum to the listed age, sometimes more. When it comes to inaccurate and edited photos, it depends how bad it is for me to need to walk, and sometimes your horniness just takes over. if its really deceptive, I want to say i'll walk , but I dont walk as much as I wish I did later, and I wouldnt consider myself a pushover haha. theres also the fact that sometimes the lighting is dim (which makes them look better) and sometimes they are wearing some sort of lingerie or a robe that covers the parts of their body were the flaws are. Im not gonna walk if the donation is already handed over and they are naked infront of me, so in those cases you just gotta stick it out. im also more likely to walk if its an independent girl vs. an agency, as much as I have seen agencies on here say they are fine with guys walking, theres agencies who are known to black ball and ban you for this (I wont name names)
easier said than done, experienced pooners arent really running into blatant bait and switch. its moreso inaccurate/edited photos, sometimes you arent aware of how much you are being deceived until the donation has already been paid and they are naked infront of you.
I appreciate that you keep your photo up to date and accurate. but from posts I have seen from you, you seem much more empathetic and kinder than alot of other SP's on this forum and twitter
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In my 40+ years in this hobby, I've only walked a couple of times. Now if we're talking how many times that I wish that I had walked?
Yeah I cant remember the last time I walked tbh. unless you count going into an mp without an appointment booked, seeing the lineup and walking, but I dont think that counts really, and even then sometimes i dont walk when I should have.
But plenty of times in the past couple of years that I wish I had walked, even with highly reviewed and reputable providers.
I have walked many times when the lady who opens the door is 360degrees from the pic in the ad.
I put a photo of the ad in my phone and say "this is who I want to see"
Often..the girl hasn't posted the photo it's the shop.
Either way..I'm not rude just say there's a mix-up and leave.
If we stay we ENABLE the B.S.
I put a photo of the ad in my phone and say "this is who I want to see"
Often..the girl hasn't posted the photo it's the shop.
Either way..I'm not rude just say there's a mix-up and leave.
If we stay we ENABLE the B.S.
An agency in my city stole my photos and when I confronted them about it on Twitter, they blocked me.
Flattering in a way but very frustrating on the other hand.
Flattering in a way but very frustrating on the other hand.
Walk away.
Don’t argue or apologize.
You don’t owe anything to someone who is scamming you.
Don’t argue or apologize.
You don’t owe anything to someone who is scamming you.
But don't you ever get those second thoughts? Like" Maybe I am missing out on something.....I wonder what her asshole looks like?"
Well, he's probably hiding in the bathroom waiting to pounce.(snip).....I wonder what her asshole looks like?"
Guess it depends on how much you value a hundred bucks or so , or if you value avoiding a quick awkward moment more than your money .
just like when you show up for an online date and you know within 2 minutes that you’re not attracted or you don’t vibe . But you usually have to stay a certain amount of time because they also made the trip out .
Only in this case you don’t have to stay out of politeness .
It took me a while to learn this , now I just walk, it’s easy .
just like when you show up for an online date and you know within 2 minutes that you’re not attracted or you don’t vibe . But you usually have to stay a certain amount of time because they also made the trip out .
Only in this case you don’t have to stay out of politeness .
It took me a while to learn this , now I just walk, it’s easy .
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I would goto massage places and used to just take whoever was given to me. Even if I’m not attracted to the masseuse, I would just stay to be polite. Sometimes I still do that as I like the unknown and make it a surprise.
However, these days I would have no problem in asking to see who is available and if I don’t see anyone I’m interested in, I just say I’m ok and leave.
I don’t partake in FS but I still want a hot girl rubbing me. I have had at Asian places where the manager lady would be rude if I’m not interested, even as far as yelling don’t come back as I’m leaving. I would actually stop and talk and not run out and just say I’m not interested in anyone here. Guess I developed the mindset where it’s my money and I’ll spend it if I want to.
However, these days I would have no problem in asking to see who is available and if I don’t see anyone I’m interested in, I just say I’m ok and leave.
I don’t partake in FS but I still want a hot girl rubbing me. I have had at Asian places where the manager lady would be rude if I’m not interested, even as far as yelling don’t come back as I’m leaving. I would actually stop and talk and not run out and just say I’m not interested in anyone here. Guess I developed the mindset where it’s my money and I’ll spend it if I want to.
Of course, but you'd be a lot sexier to many people if you were mathematically correct.
I'm more offended when it is the girl in the pictures, but her attitude is poor and distant, and oh-so unpleasant, and she doesn't deliver anything even approaching the stellar experience she promises in the ad.
For me, that's $350 and a blue pill down the shitter.
Give me a dowdy chick with smile who wants to have a fun time any day.
For me, that's $350 and a blue pill down the shitter.
Give me a dowdy chick with smile who wants to have a fun time any day.
