When it ends

[whitemoustache]

Let me go out on a limb here with a post about the elephant in the room. So many of the ladies we see, lust after, and post about, have lives outside of work. Face it, gents, we are the work. As an immature pensioner, I have always felt that most of the ladies would sooner we just gave them the money and went away. This isn't because I have been calling on actresses all these years, but because there comes a point where the Sweet Young Thing can no longer control her revulsion, and the mask slips.
Many of us are married, and sought something exciting, outside the vows, that wasn't being met at home. When it ends, it mostly ends badly, especially when a young lady begins to feel that her need for extra cash is turned against her, or exploited. At this point the older man is seen as the exploiter, and there just is not enough cash in the world to overcome the revulsion the girl feels. An intelligent pooner will know when to make himself scarce, and trust that he has behaved well enough to linger as a pleasant memory. Few of our gender are smart enough to make a graceful exit, and this makes us free advertising for Sir Galahad. Unfortunately, he is otherwise occupied, or may not exist outside the covers of romantic novels.
I shall be forever grateful to the ladies who took a chance on an older man, and who brightened up his senior years with their youth and beauty.

 

[six1961xis]

Gather ye rosebuds while ye may...

 

[CCRyder]

well said White!

 

[xo Heidi Hayes xo]

Beautifully written

I have much to say in response - but I need to get my booty back in red first!
Please stand-by..
Xoxo

 

[whitemoustache]

Uh, oh! Heidi is articulate, and will find the exceptions that test my generalizations above. Not all providers detest the clients, and many enjoy the sex part. The 'it' I refer to is the fantasy. When the fantasy ends, and the elderly client and the sweet young thing look at their relationship with cold logic, the affair can go a number of directions. Seldom does the older gent find himself free to do right by the young lady, offer his name and fortune, and 'take her away from all this.' Even less often does the young provider accept. The most fascinating courtesans I have met are authentic, well-balanced women who are not supporting a drug addiction. Some are supporting whole families, and thus cannot accept the offer. << click>> Shields up. Seatbelt fastened. Prepare for incoming.

 

[haakon]

It sounds like you had a bad experience with an SP, that made you feel bad or dirty about the whole thing. If that's the case, and you really enjoy pooning, I sincerely hope that it doesn't drive you into permanent pooner retirement. Im sure there are a lot of providers out there who would still enjoy your company.

 

[Ms.Fiona]

Been a long time but I hope everythings good and nothing bad happened. XO

Let me go out on a limb here with a post about the elephant in the room. So many of the ladies we see, lust after, and post about, have lives outside of work. Face it, gents, we are the work. As an immature pensioner, I have always felt that most of the ladies would sooner we just gave them the money and went away. This isn't because I have been calling on actresses all these years, but because there comes a point where the Sweet Young Thing can no longer control her revulsion, and the mask slips.
Many of us are married, and sought something exciting, outside the vows, that wasn't being met at home. When it ends, it mostly ends badly, especially when a young lady begins to feel that her need for extra cash is turned against her, or exploited. At this point the older man is seen as the exploiter, and there just is not enough cash in the world to overcome the revulsion the girl feels. An intelligent pooner will know when to make himself scarce, and trust that he has behaved well enough to linger as a pleasant memory. Few of our gender are smart enough to make a graceful exit, and this makes us free advertising for Sir Galahad. Unfortunately, he is otherwise occupied, or may not exist outside the covers of romantic novels.
I shall be forever grateful to the ladies who took a chance on an older man, and who brightened up his senior years with their youth and beauty.

 

[Ms.Fiona]

Miss you too If I may be honest, I was in a heated situation last week with quite a senior gentlemen (older than you ) and I think after it was over I looked at him and said ... "Wow, you are quite something, I couldn't imagine you back in the day"..................

As those words came out of my mouth I realized that it wasn't coming out as I meant, I think us ladies are honestly blown away by the skill of some of you gentlemen and when your heads spinning from the "moment" we all know we sometimes aren't as eloquent as we mean to be...lol.. with knowing you WWW I'm sure she meant it in the best way possible. It's always amazing how age can make no difference at all when you click.

Well written and right on point. I was thinking the other day about something a younger provider said to me a few years ago.........she said in the middle of a heated session "you must have been a real hottie when you were young"

I haven't seen a young girl since. I tend to see Sienna, Nicole and Leanne more often than not. I used to see Fiona alot but have not seen her since her return. Miss you Baby.

I will never give up this hobby. It's a beautiful feeling and a beautiful respect we have for each other.

 

[betazero]

I always think age is actually a state of mind..calender years are a guage someone made up to measure body not the mind. With that said I too would have to put myself into the up there category but never have I slowed down. Actually have a few regulars i see that find myself more interesting than the younger ones they see who just want to blow a load and go. Do hope that does not offend anyone. Over the years I hve found that yes sometimes one gets close to the one that we see and can get complicated. We all have our fantasies but reality kicks in and all shuts down and we feel shity bout it. Its hard but sometimes we have to step back and do a reality check and go on with our lives no matter how mundane it is. Yes it has happened to me a few times(sometimes really not good) but when I step back for a bit and both of us have our space for a time we realize how good we had it and are more than happy to go back to where we left off. On a side note.. I have seen one special one for over 6 years now and have had numerous conflicts from time to time to the point vowing to never to return but for some reason we always seem to hook up again being a 2 month to 6 month break and it gets better every time

 

[Ms.Fiona]

We are all human, with emotions... Yes it's sex for money at first but it's the chemistry and passion that comes with years of playing, in no way is it rare to get attached or emotional. I honestly think that's why with some it gets better and better over the years, trust.

I always think age is actually a state of mind..calender years are a guage someone made up to measure body not the mind. With that said I too would have to put myself into the up there category but never have I slowed down. Actually have a few regulars i see that find myself more interesting than the younger ones they see who just want to blow a load and go. Do hope that does not offend anyone. Over the years I hve found that yes sometimes one gets close to the one that we see and can get complicated. We all have our fantasies but reality kicks in and all shuts down and we feel shity bout it. Its hard but sometimes we have to step back and do a reality check and go on with our lives no matter how mundane it is. Yes it has happened to me a few times(sometimes really not good) but when I step back for a bit and both of us have our space for a time we realize how good we had it and are more than happy to go back to where we left off. On a side note.. I have seen one special one for over 6 years now and have had numerous conflicts from time to time to the point vowing to never to return but for some reason we always seem to hook up again being a 2 month to 6 month break and it gets better every time

 

[Nicole40DDD]

Always love seeing you too Winkie.

 

[Nicole40DDD]

I love senior men and would love to see you anytime whitemoustache. None of us are perfect after a certain age. I wouldn't worry for a second, if I was you. There are lots of ladies who would enjoy your company. For me it is more important how nice the gentleman is to how the session goes.

 

[whitemoustache]

Ah, well! It was not to be. The Sweet Young lady in question will not pick up when she sees my number on call display . . . emails might as well be daisies dropped down a well, even snailmail is ignored. I'm on Injured Reserve anyway, as my treatment enters Phase 2, so for now I'll content myself with the spectacular memories of happier times.

 

[Hobby]

Ah, well! It was not to be. The Sweet Young lady in question will not pick up when she sees my number on call display . . . emails might as well be daisies dropped down a well, even snailmail is ignored. I'm on Injured Reserve anyway, as my treatment enters Phase 2, so for now I'll content myself with the spectacular memories of happier times.

I feel your pain all too well WM. I have been going through pretty much the same thing since Spring...It hurts when there is no explanation, all of your previous sessions were fantastic, and you know she still sees anyone else with enough money. My last session ended with the mention that I would see her next week, she agreed, kissed me goodbye and I have never been able to contact her again. I have no way of contacting her as well, it might as well be as if I didn't exist to her anymore. I didn't even get a to say a final goodbye, because when I said goodbye for the last time I assumed I would see her again. Our relationship was I thought quite good, I saw this SP for the better part of a year, and she would accommodate any and all of my requests, we got along great and I enjoyed her company. It would be fine if it was an ex girlfriend, because you know that she has standards and won't sleep with just ANYBODY. An ex girlfriend will CHOOSE someone to sleep with that they are attracted to as well. I am well aware that an SP is not my GF but when they function in that role for so long, listening to you, and giving you intimacy, it is hard to have that shut out of your life just like that. I have spent thousands of dollars since then trying to find a girl to replace or even fill a part of the void she has left in me, but to no avail. The worst part about it is, walking down the street you see the fattest, oldest, most disgusting looking guy, and you know HE gets to have sex with your favorite SP any time he has enough money, but not you. That part sickens me. I didn't mind that part at all when I got to be one of those guys, and I'm not even fat or old, and I don't think I'm disgusting either. Just an average dude, better than some, worse than others. I couldn't care less who else she banged for money, because I was one of the lucky ones too. The thoughts still bother me from time to time, because she is just such a genuinely nice, kind person, that you still can't believe that she could be so cruel as to treat you like that without an explanation.

That is the nature of this business though. They are much more anonymous than civilians - you have no Facebook to lament over, and no updates from their life. If they no longer want to see one of us sleazy, disgusting "clients" again, that is their prerogative. We are nothing but a pay cheque to them, and when you have many men vying for your attention, you can pick and choose your payday. They work hard to try to convince you to come back and spend hundreds of dollars, and it works. The touch, the kiss, the emotional reinforcement. It is surprising the connection you can build with an SP, and even more surprising when you find that connection was her submission to the Academy, and that she was nominated in the Best Actress category.

 

[Austinpowersmojo]

This is a sad a thread as clearly some get way too attached to the girls and read way more into the actual relations. This is a business for these girls and they are not your gf's. They never were but somehow the lines got blurred. Like a hot young girl would ever date guys old enough to be their grandpa. A good provider is one who can act well enough to make you feel like you are the only guy in your life. As soon as you are out the door she needs to get ready to act for the next guy. You are soon forgotten even though you may cherish the experience for a significant time after. My suggestion is go for the pse as it is purely a physical fantasy. If you want an emotional connection then find a real partner.

 

[Quiet man]

I'm only speaking for myself. But this hobby is to fill a void. It's not always because I'm horny. I'm a loner and a lonely guy, due too many bad relationships I choose not to date. I make a point of not seeing the same lady to many times. We all have our reasons for going. And I think as long as we are gentleman and remember these lady's have a life of their own. All is good

 

[quickie guy]

Ah, well! It was not to be. The Sweet Young lady in question will not pick up when she sees my number on call display . . . emails might as well be daisies dropped down a well, even snailmail is ignored. I'm on Injured Reserve anyway, as my treatment enters Phase 2, so for now I'll content myself with the spectacular memories of happier times.

Where you sitting outside her apartment stalking? More than obvious you were getting too attached and she realized this and cut you off.

 

[Quiet man]

Where you sitting outside her apartment stalking? More than obvious you were getting too attached and she realized this and cut you off.

That's a shitty thing to say to whitemoustache. You always kick a man when he's down??? The man is having serious medical issues!

 

[whitemoustache]

Quite alright, QM. Silly boys put the boot in on a prostrate form, unaware that there are defenses. QG and I have discussed his need to score points in a public forum, and I hope he will take the high road and desist. As for me, I have other things to occupy me right now, such as getting out of this predicament intact.