I was wondering at what point in a relationship with a girlfriend you tell her that you've pooned in the past. Would you mention it on a first date? Or would you wait until you're six months into the relationship? It seems it would be wise to tell her before an engagement. But why not keep it a total secret. Does it matter that she knows? I suspect many girlfriends would frown down on men with a lengthy pooning history. Or does she even care? (Likely it depends on how open-minded the woman is.) I'm completely unattached at the moment. But what if I decided to jump back into the fray? Damn! I knew I never should have gotten into this hobby in the first place!
Are you nuts? You say NOTHING about seeing SPs ever. It will not be taken well. If you think you can somehow absolve yourself by being open with your girl by admitting that you pay other women for sex you are sadly mistaken.
I am very open minded (obviously) and have no problem with the person I am dating telling me about their past. I guess it really depends how sexually open she is. If she is into open relationships, kink, fetish, etc etc she is more likely to accept you for it. It also depends if it is something you want to be able to share with your partner, if it is then you should search for someone open minded enough to accept it, IMO.
There really is no right or wrong answer because it depends on each person's preferences and values.
That's the thing...with women that if you tell them the truth, being all white knight, trusting that she'd understand you. Don't tell them anything when they go digging. Put up that wall nice and high, and don't try to be witty, or fire out a glib answer....that's just cracking under pressure. Take it to the grave.
I like the one with whipping out the calculator....smart. Chicks don't like reason and logic.
