What's your New Year's Resolution (Inspired by newatit)

[CLUB78]

Cool. All boobs are good. Even mufffins. Maybe muffins are better? I'll have to think about it ... ... ... well, maybe not better but probably pretty darn good.

It's cool, they're cute and I have a great ass and legs. They were bigger when I was bigger. Every boob is beautiful in it's own way

 

[peter putter]

.... they're cute and I have a great ass and legs.... Every boob is beautiful in it's own way

I will have to agree with this. :thumb:

 

[uncleg]

Punt doesn't make resolutions or set goals, yet I have found success in life. Honestly, in the corporate world and in the world of personal growth and development, I often find good, well meaning people making resolutions and setting personal goals, but they unfortunately usually fail, or fall back after having achieved some gains. Sustainment is often the hardest thing, so I recommend making life-long decisions. There are all kinds of losers out there "trying". Those that succeed with purely individual time-based goals are often unbalanced in career and life, and perceived by their peers as nasty and inconsistent. Team goals and personal commitment are more effective in life, love, spirit, and vocational excellence. There is freedom in decisions. As Yoda said, "there is no try, just do". To truly change, you must get deep clarity on what YOU WILL DO and what YOU WON'T DO, and WHY. The WHY needs to have a greater good in mind. Then do it (or don't do it if it's a "stop-it" thing). Anything in between is for losers. It is not about luck or circumstances. Like Minnesota Fats said, "luck is for suckers". If you want to accomplish anything seriosly in life, stop trying and start making committted decisions. Decisions that you will check yourself on and stick to. Or else don't bother. Seriously, you are better off deferring lame attempts until you are ready to make a life-long decision.

For 2014, I WILL re-connect genuinely with a perticular long-lost friend, complete two courses in fields of science or sociology that are new to me, maintain my current body weight while improving my dietary consciousness and standardizing my workout routine, and save $25K that I would likely otherwise squander. These are decisions I have made. They will be successful. I have no doubt about it. There will be no reasons or excuses. It will simply be me and the mirror. I am beyond accountability. I am truly committed. There will be no obstacles I can not overcome. I have decided.

Punt.

........and I will finally see them naked..........




..................................................there has to be a program and I will find it.







Actually, nice piece of writing there Punt......words to live by.

 

[CLUB78]

I will have to agree with this. :thumb:

Well thank you very very much!!!! I know we'll see you soon...lol...:thumb:

 

[PuntMeister]

That was awesome, Punt. The next time I need advice I am going to you. (Or just reading that!).

Thanks for saying so. (tips hat, sly little nod, partial wink)

 

[TenderLover]

I will have more sex and spend more time on Perb connecting with women right here instead of going elswhere.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

This isn't so much a resolution as a goal. I will improve my ability on the computer.

I see some awesome skills displayed here...Miss Bijou, Miss Erica, Miss Vanessa White, and many others...I just love what y'all can do with this tool (no pun here, I mean the computer, really)! I'm gonna keep working on my talents in this area!

 

[87112]

Stop cussing. Its actually working a bit ever since I got laid off from my job and not having to see some of the slezebags there.

 

[Man in Submission]

To find a better balance between my vanilla friendships/relationships and kink pursuits. Not easy when consumed (and very much enjoying) the latter. But for any one of many reasons, it will ultimately be necessary... at some point.
Best of luck to everyone with their dreams and aspirations in 2014.

 

[VanessaofBC]

 

[tantalizeme]

Well, for all it's worth—here are my resolutions for 2014:

1. Stay positive, whatever the adversity.

2. Be endlessly patient with people that cross my path.

3. Have the courage to speak my truth and to walk my talk.

4. Do regular exercise and practice proper nutrition.

5. DO NOT STIFLE MY EROTIC YEARNINGS.

 

[VanessaofBC]

5. DO NOT STIFLE MY EROTIC YEARNINGS.

aka. Let the testosterone flow. Nice.

They were all very nice, actually.

4) Start my Blog finally on ERS

Now that will be an AWESOME blog. Looking forward to that!!

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Lofty Goals...do you even bother?

snip...For 2014, I WILL re-connect genuinely with a perticular long-lost friend, complete two courses in fields of science or sociology that are new to me, maintain my current body weight while improving my dietary consciousness and standardizing my workout routine, and save $25K that I would likely otherwise squander. These are decisions I have made. They will be successful. I have no doubt about it. There will be no reasons or excuses. It will simply be me and the mirror. I am beyond accountability. I am truly committed. There will be no obstacles I can not overcome. I have decided.

Punt.

Well, it's January 2nd and we're all busy, working away at the goals and resolutions that we set for ourselves. The PuntMeister's words (above) have stayed with me and given me some pause for thought.

Some suggest that we should make our goals smaller, so that they're achievable and they give us that sense of accomplishment when we get 'em done.

Others suggest that we make goals that are quite a stretch, such that we truly grow during the effort that is required to achieve them, whether we do achieve them or not (which apparently isn't the intended outcome, but rather it's the inherent personal growth).

And then there are those who state that, once an idea has been given birth, the means with which to fulfill it will follow.

Anyways, I don't know the PuntMeister and, perhaps for him, saving 25K in a year is no biggie. I daresay that would be quite a stretch for most of us simple mortals.

So what say you, community? How do you know if your goals are too large? Does that make you a dreamer? Or should goals be large enough to completely kick your ass in the attempt to achieve them?