What's wrong with me? Gun shy and intimidated.

[PierreCoeur]

I seem to have developed a fear of beautiful younger white service Providers and ebony providers for separate and distinctive reasons. For younger white ladies, it is specific my age.
It is about being ashamed of being an old guy and being attracted to women under 40. Why would any young woman want to have sex with a grand father. They couldn't ever really want to do that. With ebony women, it has been a different reason why I have not been with one in three years.

I am really attracted to them immensely. I love exotic and I actually like them big and busty, whereas I don't like bigger assed white women, they just look fat to me. The reason why I have stopped seeing black women is because the last three I booked scammed me and ripped me off.

I know that it is not a great reason, in fact it is shameful that I am being prejudiced and assuming that all will do the same. In fact that wasn't the case when I started seeing them. Just the last three years.

So for the last year and a half I have only been seeing Asian women as I feel more comfortable with them, that they won't judge my age or rip me off.

I think I need to see a psychiatrist about this. I really want to start booking the gorgeous white and black women without being afraid or intimidated.

Any suggestions are appreciated.

 

[jgg]

 

[ReluctantPooner]

On the ebony side, I would try to find one that has been well reviewed here. Once you have got one under your belt, find another that has been well reviewed here. A couple of good experiences should help.

 

[OneLuckyGuy]

Do you ever go to Nanaimo? Lady Vanessa is located there and will more than fit the bill. Best you have someone to drive after as youll be lucky to be able to walk On top of that she had a BlackWomanFriday special yesterdy. Unfortunately I'm out of the country and couldn't participate. Have fun!

 

[SkinnyJohn]

I can see myself thinking the way you do OP as more time passes by. Cannot imagine any grand daughter wanting to DFK grandpa. Not in the grandfather stage yet but dreading as I get older every year the mileage for young girls will become more infrequent and restrictive. Age will force me to quit, not the expense.

 

[maxic]

Should try Thailand I am here in Pattaya City now age is no factor here if your ok to travel and your personal circumstances slow this this is another good option .

 

[wetnose]

Since you like em dark, try Dominican Republic - Santo Domingo is a good start. Bonus: you get in a vacation too.

 

[theimp]

Ridiculous, I have been exploring since I was very young and, in my experience, the best age is between 50 and 60 as women of all ages seem attracted. I have had women of all ages express interest and never has it been so easy to arrange a tryst, so I can't imagine that it would be any different with a professional. Just be comfortable and confident with who you are and honest about your desires. I am now at the tail end of the aforementioned age spread and cannot wait to see what happens next. I should point out that I am not tall, dark and handsome, nor am I rich, nor hung like a porn star. In fact, I think the proper term to describe me may be "little old man".

 

[Lady Vanessa]

I think ReluctantPooner's suggestion is good advice. If this lifestyle is where you seek sex, intimacy and companionship, find escorts with the most reliable, trustworthy and professionalism to leave you happy you spent your money.
It's terrible that you've had to experience being ripped off. Multiple times even!
One shouldn't live feeling intimidated, or in fear. G'won Mr. Couer.....go out on a limb. That's where you find the best fruit.

(Thanks for the kind words OLG *muah*)

Happy holidays to all.

 

[SeekSteadyRegSP]

I seem to have developed a fear of beautiful younger white service Providers and ebony providers for separate and distinctive reasons. For younger white ladies, it is specific my age.
It is about being ashamed of being an old guy and being attracted to women under 40. Why would any young woman want to have sex with a grand father. They couldn't ever really want to do that. With ebony women, it has been a different reason why I have not been with one in three years.

I am really attracted to them immensely. I love exotic and I actually like them big and busty, whereas I don't like bigger assed white women, they just look fat to me. The reason why I have stopped seeing black women is because the last three I booked scammed me and ripped me off.

I know that it is not a great reason, in fact it is shameful that I am being prejudiced and assuming that all will do the same. In fact that wasn't the case when I started seeing them. Just the last three years.

So for the last year and a half I have only been seeing Asian women as I feel more comfortable with them, that they won't judge my age or rip me off.

I think I need to see a psychiatrist about this. I really want to start booking the gorgeous white and black women without being afraid or intimidated.

Any suggestions are appreciated.

This is so interesting to me. I don't even know how to comment on it.

I couldn't even figure out why I (feel like I) relate well, or well-enough, to young adult SP's or SW's.


Additionally, by sheer numbers, the younger set are who is most available and willing in this arena.


At what age will I attain a point where I look back... down there... and feel at all awkward or hesitant about intimacy with young adult women?



I wish we could factor-out some of the unfortunate elements which sit below the surface of many participants in this industry and ever learn definitively whether to interact with men/clients all across the age spectrum eventually enhances the outlook/fairness of many/most SP's, perhaps for use in later life.

Additionally, with some, it is unfortunately a reenactment of some elements of the past, and despite what one might first assume, human psychology is more likely to leave them open to thoughts of physical intimacy with much older males than to rule it out after similar situations.


As to the ebony providers... that part of your post does seem unfair (though far more even to you, than to the ebony providers ).


I think you should seek the company of established and seemingly stable ebony providers just to enjoy what intrigues you.

It is far more the function of economics, than of color, that you were ripped-off by 3 in a row.


The first such upcoming experience with an ebony woman will reignite your excitement and move you past your fears. So just do it... find her!