What's the most you would ever pay...?
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Not sure .. it real depends on how much i want to see some one ..
Now i know i have payed 10 of thousand to be in a "relationship " with no sex .. so if that tell me some thing then . i could pay 1000s if I had it and i had to see her that badly..
What would be expected .. every thing that was reasonable to ask . the full unrestricted GFE/PSE and a few hours of time together ..
But I am not looking for any one right now I seem to be stuck between the escorts friends , and friend relationships and maybe settling for a normal/ open relationship
Now i know i have payed 10 of thousand to be in a "relationship " with no sex .. so if that tell me some thing then . i could pay 1000s if I had it and i had to see her that badly..
What would be expected .. every thing that was reasonable to ask . the full unrestricted GFE/PSE and a few hours of time together ..
But I am not looking for any one right now I seem to be stuck between the escorts friends , and friend relationships and maybe settling for a normal/ open relationship
Depends if you are just talking about the SP or the whole experience ie flights hotels etc. I am kinda embarrassed to say. But what the hell. I know some will think I am nuts.
I normally will pay about a $1000 a day but I cover all expenses including flights, hotel, limos, shopping, meals, entertainment, day at the spa. I only do this with ladies I have real connections with. Some will do it for $500 a day. They will come with a carry on and leave with a few suit cases. I expect them to be my wife or GF or Personal assistant. They usually attend functions with me. I will have my personal assistant in Germany arrange for flights, a stylest to help picking out outfits for the lady and organize events for us. Sex is really only a small part. I do expect for her to seduce me and pretend to be in love with me. So CFS is on the table. Maybe once or twice a day. Morning and or night. It is mostly to hang out with me and take my mind off of work. I guess I can drop $10,000 to $20,000 on the event. But like in the commercials BJ $100, FS $250, Two days with a beautiful lady, Priceless.
If you are asking what is the most I have paid for a escort I would say $4000.00 in Dubai last year. She was not even that good. FS for a few hours. In the old days we paid less and got more. I was just told the reason Sandi Laine was pissed at me was I asked her to do a meet and greet with a friend no sex just have drinks for an hour and she wanted $400.00. I said maybe 250 but she felt I was haggeling over her rate. So now she does not want to talk to me again. Go figure.
I will pay $1000 to $1200 to go out for dinner and spend the night. I did spend a $1000 for dinner 4 hours just last week. I get lonely guys and I do not want to have dinner with a client, investor, customer or employee. It is only money. I really have not done the one hour thing any more. Very rare. I guess I am getting old.
I hope that answers that question.
Not crazy at all. Good friend just dropped 15k on a week in Hawaii. And he had to spend that time with his wife!
Personally I would never take an SP on vacation. Simulated intimacy does little for me, and a fair wage for her means it is going to be in the thousands of dollars. Then I ask myself, I am paying you thousands of dollars to pretend you like me a lot, and if I didn't, you wouldn't be there - especially on a trip where the girl is captive. Wouldn't she be thinking of her freedom and a hundred other places she'd rather be once the novelty of the new place has worn off? That would be in the back of my mind the whole time, so for me paying an SP for a vacation is a negative.
As for regular SP activity, in my experience paying more doesn't get you a better experience, sometimes actually worse. I've paid $400 and $500 rates and I've never had a better experience than a $250 rate. In fact, the best sessions I've had were SPs who advertise around $200 to $300. Kim Capri, JXXX, Kristi, Sandi Laine, and others in that price range come to mind - top notch providers at the market rate.
For most of us, there is not a never ending supply of money even though many SPs treat us like there is. Only the considerate ones understand. Money spent on one thing is money not spent on another (or saved). Paying an SP $400 is about $200 overspent that could have gone toward a car payment, a new cell phone, or another session with another SP. This is my opinion, whatever someone does with their money is their business. But I know some guys use parts of a loan or a line of credit or a second mortgage to have this kind of fun - they view it as a luxury like any other, like getting a line of credit to buy an expensive luxury car. It seems shocking and senseless to me. Were the SP to know that is how the client afforded that $10,000 vacation to Hawaii with her, I'm sure it would not reflect positively on him unless she's a shitty person anyways. Maybe its right for him, it's his money. We're here on earth only a short time, might as well live. I wish I could think that way and have no guilt.
As for regular SP activity, in my experience paying more doesn't get you a better experience, sometimes actually worse. I've paid $400 and $500 rates and I've never had a better experience than a $250 rate. In fact, the best sessions I've had were SPs who advertise around $200 to $300. Kim Capri, JXXX, Kristi, Sandi Laine, and others in that price range come to mind - top notch providers at the market rate.
For most of us, there is not a never ending supply of money even though many SPs treat us like there is. Only the considerate ones understand. Money spent on one thing is money not spent on another (or saved). Paying an SP $400 is about $200 overspent that could have gone toward a car payment, a new cell phone, or another session with another SP. This is my opinion, whatever someone does with their money is their business. But I know some guys use parts of a loan or a line of credit or a second mortgage to have this kind of fun - they view it as a luxury like any other, like getting a line of credit to buy an expensive luxury car. It seems shocking and senseless to me. Were the SP to know that is how the client afforded that $10,000 vacation to Hawaii with her, I'm sure it would not reflect positively on him unless she's a shitty person anyways. Maybe its right for him, it's his money. We're here on earth only a short time, might as well live. I wish I could think that way and have no guilt.
There is a thread in the general discussion section where a pooner laments that he is almost 6 figures in debt (as I recall) and nothing to show for it. A large part of that was money spent on escorts. I might spend money a bit more recklessly on a woman I was trying to impress but not on an escort. Why would any sane person spend money they do not have on an escort? Women must think we are pretty silly for the sort of money we spend.
Silly? Silly would be an appropriate reaction to tripping over door step. Ironically I think you get less real respect from the SP the more willing you are to throw money her way at any expense.
I originally had "complete morons" in the place of "silly" but decided to water it down.
i kind of agree,
escorts must be just laughing at us. for what we pay.
i guess what i would pay is
depends how horny i was and i guess, at times i was so horny i would have paid well my whole bank account or my visa limit
which maybe is a good thing, because when i was younger, well i was horny but was flat broke
now im older, not quite so horny, and i see guys saying they are or have paid like lots for a weekend or a week or so, or even thousands for a few hours.
not a big deal i mean i would if i was single and had the money to throw around, and i think its well not necessary sex its company companionship or lonliness that guys spend that kind of money, or just plain ego. and i was there, i spent alot of money on escorts, considering my income, but then i don't own a car and my house and vacation home are paid for..
dont know i regularly see some one for a supper date, and guys have sort of poked me for it supper like what are you doing and supper and drinks etc, it gets expensive, it gets up there, im embarresed to say, but its alot, but i enjoy it,
i have talked about vacation with her, and she asked me on one once, but im married and family spend lots of time with them its not like i can get away
i think this hobby is alot about ego and lonliness, and sex is some where down there, but at the bottom some where,
andy way the older i get the less i need to stroke my ego, and well im surrounded by people so im not lonely, so im done with this hobby.
i see a lady now, but she is like a friend, i pay her, but i can see the end on the calender somewhere not sure when, put im done.
don't get me wrong sex is fantasitc, i love these girls.
but i think like i said paying for sex. is more about ego and lonliness,
and these girls are just hysterical all the way to the bank, on us.
escorts must be just laughing at us. for what we pay.
i guess what i would pay is
depends how horny i was and i guess, at times i was so horny i would have paid well my whole bank account or my visa limit
which maybe is a good thing, because when i was younger, well i was horny but was flat broke
now im older, not quite so horny, and i see guys saying they are or have paid like lots for a weekend or a week or so, or even thousands for a few hours.
not a big deal i mean i would if i was single and had the money to throw around, and i think its well not necessary sex its company companionship or lonliness that guys spend that kind of money, or just plain ego. and i was there, i spent alot of money on escorts, considering my income, but then i don't own a car and my house and vacation home are paid for..
dont know i regularly see some one for a supper date, and guys have sort of poked me for it supper like what are you doing and supper and drinks etc, it gets expensive, it gets up there, im embarresed to say, but its alot, but i enjoy it,
i have talked about vacation with her, and she asked me on one once, but im married and family spend lots of time with them its not like i can get away
i think this hobby is alot about ego and lonliness, and sex is some where down there, but at the bottom some where,
andy way the older i get the less i need to stroke my ego, and well im surrounded by people so im not lonely, so im done with this hobby.
i see a lady now, but she is like a friend, i pay her, but i can see the end on the calender somewhere not sure when, put im done.
don't get me wrong sex is fantasitc, i love these girls.
but i think like i said paying for sex. is more about ego and lonliness,
and these girls are just hysterical all the way to the bank, on us.
Meh, my physiotherapist still costs me way more money.
I bet she's laughing, as I could just wait in line, get slightly worse care and get it for free at the hospital.
I hope your physiotherapist does greek because I don't know any physiotherapist charging 200-300 per hour.
I look at it as a hobby like some guys would look at golf. I don't do anything other than work and this is my only form of recreation. Pretty sad. I do not think I would spend money I did not have.
amazed at anyone paying so much in Dubai when some fantastic women will take $300 for the night. and anyway you want it. just visit the hotel at end of Mankool street where you see all the gals going in. From some of the things noted above a week in Dubai would be cheap. i have played Dickson's game for ten years and taken gals away for $500 to $1000 a night. but often find the cheaper dates are better because they need the money more, bid lower and do more to keep the business. looks and high prices do not a better night make. right now i have one older gal willing to travel for $200 a night simply because she likes me and nothing else to do. so why put out these dollars? you are absolutely correct in that these gals laugh all the way to the bank. so do i.
Haha she must think she farts clouds of gold and her vaj flows more oil than Saudi Arabia. Glad I never found her attractive.
What kind of girls would you find in dubai for 300$ a night? Russians and mainlanders?
well, in my experience, that's sandi. she doesn't care if she's fucking your brains out or sipping the drinks you paid for, it's all the same to her. you're a john, she's an escort, an hour has sixty minutes, and it's $400 an hour... period. so you see, dickson WAS haggling over her rates, and to her way of thinking he is no longer her client for that reason
to answer the op's question, there are a whole lot of young, pretty and high mileage (meaning good service) girls in the 180 to 250 range - more than i have the budget to sample as there are always more new ones showing up. i won't pay more than that and i definitely will NOT put up with clock watching from them either. i know how to give a lot of pleasure and i enjoy doing so, so i expect and get extra time for my efforts. i won't pay more except on the rare occasion when an excellent opportunity presents itself and i will go up to the 300's. paying 400-500/h is, in the words of elmore, just ego driven 'completely moronic', when so much quality tail is available for the lower numbers
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Great to see you it was far too long...............
Dear Dickson........... Thank you so much again for more memories. Seeing you is like seeing an old boyfriend, yes I had a great time! I promise to get the garter as my stocking just do not do it! I need to replace what I forgot I did like it...opps so bad. Sweet Dreams Honey. Jordan
Dear Dickson........... Thank you so much again for more memories. Seeing you is like seeing an old boyfriend, yes I had a great time! I promise to get the garter as my stocking just do not do it! I need to replace what I forgot I did like it...opps so bad. Sweet Dreams Honey. Jordan
I have a personal cut off at $350 but, for me, my biggest concern is the quality of the experience not the cost. I don't feel better about having a great time with someone at $250 compared to having just as great a time with someone that charges more. I also don't see how the amount you choose to pay and an escort's respect for you have any connection - I realize some escorts don't "respect" their clients, but do you really think that lack of respect increases with the amount you pay? Actually, I would say that most escorts do respect their clients based on the character of the client and the respect returned to them.
I have a very specific duo fantasy that I want to play out so that will cost me the price of two escorts......
I have a very specific duo fantasy that I want to play out so that will cost me the price of two escorts......
