what's the first thing a female notices on a guy?
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the eyes have it....
mick is correct as far as i'm concerned...some men just have these "melt me into a puddle" eyes...combine that with a great sense of humour and pleasant smell and i'm all over that!
I have a bit of a shoe thing going on lately and I am amazed at how many women (even the ones I have never met) comment on my shoes!!!!
But........
When I was bodybuilding (yes steroid induced blah blah blah) most women didn't care if I was barefoot in a snowstorm they just wanted to get naked with me.
Moral of the story
If you want to attract someone for a relationship wear nice shoes
If you want to get laid wear nice muscles
The sad thing is at least men are honest about what they want.
Women seem to think their fooling men when they say; a great sense of humour, intelligence, a nice smile etc...
Sure those things are important.
But if the guy isn't wearing nice clothes, doesn't have a nice car, doesn't have nice shoes, all that means squat.
As far as men go we could care less about what kind of car she drives, how tall she is, how much she makes, whether she's wearing a black plastic bag or armani, makes you wonder who really is the more "shallow" gender.
Women seem to think their fooling men when they say; a great sense of humour, intelligence, a nice smile etc...
Sure those things are important.
But if the guy isn't wearing nice clothes, doesn't have a nice car, doesn't have nice shoes, all that means squat.
As far as men go we could care less about what kind of car she drives, how tall she is, how much she makes, whether she's wearing a black plastic bag or armani, makes you wonder who really is the more "shallow" gender.
Mannnn ! I quickly rolled down to this post to REALLY find out want a woman like Tianna would look for................and you would certainly know that
I guess I'll never know............
now what would that look like??? Can we send you a pic of our eyes and see if they make the cut???mick is correct as far as i'm concerned...some men just have these "melt me into a puddle" eyes...combine that with a great sense of humour and pleasant smell and i'm all over that!
Or is it deeper, like what the eyes are saying (possibly can't be captured by a photo..or can it??)
I would imagine it really depends on distance from each other.
From a distance, a girl can check out the guys clothing and shoes (yes, I hear shoes is a big thing) and physical build. So, with that in mind, they can decide whether they approach any closer.
Once closer, then they can check out the eyes, the smile and perhaps the smell.
So, basically, good first impressions are probably best accomplished by wearing nice clothing, shoes and having a decent build...in my mind at least. I do the same to women.
From a distance, a girl can check out the guys clothing and shoes (yes, I hear shoes is a big thing) and physical build. So, with that in mind, they can decide whether they approach any closer.
Once closer, then they can check out the eyes, the smile and perhaps the smell.
So, basically, good first impressions are probably best accomplished by wearing nice clothing, shoes and having a decent build...in my mind at least. I do the same to women.
Body language is far more important. Women are deeper than men will ever understand. How a man acts and what she is looking for is a feeling of attraction. A girl can't explain it either, it is an intuitive thing. If she over-rides this intuitive feeling with thoughts of money or possessions or whatever, she runs the risk of making a bad choice. For her.
Chew on that 4 a while guys (and girls)...
Chew on that 4 a while guys (and girls)...
Well, I think that that's absolutely true. Personality is a big thing...people notice that I'm always quick to smile and tend to put people at ease, etc...
I do think, though, that this thread was about the "first thing a woman notices". Sometimes attitude is not something that can be deciphered in a glance...
Face to Face... Eyes, hands down...no matter the color... sexy eyes will get me everytime
Body... Great Arms
The overall package... for sure it is that "attraction" that you can't describe, and seldom happens but when it does
that's not hard to make the cut...handsome.. scruffy manly man... hung and hung like a horse lol with a good sense of humour and lots of patience
I check for teeth..how white they are..how straight they are....I guess Im an oral kinda girl.. I prefer a nice clean mouth
next I'd say I check the eyes. I love brown eyes
next I'd say I check the eyes. I love brown eyes
I think the question is not really relevant to how women think. We are like a smart rational & ultra demanding shoppers when we peruse the goods unlike men who are like irrational addicts. Sorta like how i felt today when i was hypnotized by a pair of Miu Miu boots..i was helpless at the site of them & felt orgasmic when i tried them on. It was a Cinderella moment, they were the only pair the store brought in and they fit me, sweet destiny! By the time we got home, was feeling major post coital yumminess. Ah, Prada is my porn. Oops forgot..this was about..um, men?
