I have friends,relatives etc who try and sell me the idea of why i should get married. What cracks me up is some of these peop who try to sell me on this stuff have the worst relationships. They'd usually are the most unhappy people i've met.
What's the big deal with marriage?
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A wise man once said marriage is for poor people.
For me I really do enjoy having an "emotional and physical" connection with just one person, too bad most women make the price of admission so high.
Who wants to deal with :
high maintainance
emotional drama
opinionated biatches
hot / cold depending on their mood
their feelings of entitlement
nagging
low self esteem issues
materialism
and if it doesn't work out they get the kids and half of your money/stuff.
the list goes on.
My last serious g/f was a train wreck...
It's very hard finding a good woman and men have too much to lose in getting married.
For me I really do enjoy having an "emotional and physical" connection with just one person, too bad most women make the price of admission so high.
Who wants to deal with :
high maintainance
emotional drama
opinionated biatches
hot / cold depending on their mood
their feelings of entitlement
nagging
low self esteem issues
materialism
and if it doesn't work out they get the kids and half of your money/stuff.
the list goes on.
My last serious g/f was a train wreck...
It's very hard finding a good woman and men have too much to lose in getting married.
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I am sure it's hard to find a woman who doesn't mind your male superiority complex....
The husbands did look unhappy at the xmas party I just went too. I am the only one single out of my group of friends and it seems I am the only one happy.
They have lost their spark and it seems they beg for sex.
Their wives don't look very attractive.
What the hell happened? The children get the attention but you just know things would be so much better even for the children if the physical attraction was still there.
It is obvious there is a emotional attraction etc.
I have had a few good long term relationships though so I am confused. Most of the girls want to travel that I date for some reason and take off traveling for a few years.
I want a relationship to have kids after that I am not so sure if it is worth it.
However a relationship where they are swaping partners do seem to be very happy and trying their best to stay sexy.
I just worry about the 10 commandments and no adultry etc. Maybe I can get forgiveness?
They have lost their spark and it seems they beg for sex.
Their wives don't look very attractive.
What the hell happened? The children get the attention but you just know things would be so much better even for the children if the physical attraction was still there.
It is obvious there is a emotional attraction etc.
I have had a few good long term relationships though so I am confused. Most of the girls want to travel that I date for some reason and take off traveling for a few years.
I want a relationship to have kids after that I am not so sure if it is worth it.
However a relationship where they are swaping partners do seem to be very happy and trying their best to stay sexy.
I just worry about the 10 commandments and no adultry etc. Maybe I can get forgiveness?
Forget about adultery...
Happily married and happily swapping, swinging, playing together, apart, and everything in between for 18 years...oh and PartyBoyToy, just be honest with yourself and your partner from the get go and no forgiveness will be needed
Hey I am not 100% Catholic but I do believe in the 10 commandments. It just seems pretty logical.Happily married and happily swapping, swinging, playing together, apart, and everything in between for 18 years...oh and PartyBoyToy, just be honest with yourself and your partner from the get go and no forgiveness will be needed
I have met a few girls that loved that lifestyle. I don't get jealous unless it is an emotional, mental, and spiritual connection she is having with another man.
Actually I shouldn't say jealous more like concerned.
If I could just break that religious barrier I would be ok. I mean what the def on adultery anyways?
My friends and family who are married with kids are constantly worried about money and pleasing the spouse. They have to put away money for their kids college etc and constantly worry about nagging. As a pooner i live very care free lifestyle and have sex with a super young hottie anytime.
You don't need a contract to show someone you love them...if you find a good woman spend time with her...but don't sign a contract...it's like making a long term promise on short term feelings...never make a promise to a woman you can't keep and you'll both be happier for it.
I agree with most what was said regarding marriage earlier: misery loves company, someone to grow old with, balls and chains, men are not favoured, etc.
My take on why people get married:
-society, family, & friends expect it
-for any combination of wealth, status, & power
-it's what 'everybody' does
-need biological offsprings to continue the bloodlines or to transfer assets to.
There are more unconventional reasons, but I'll just leave it at that.
Has anyone here ever heard of polyamory or is a polyamorist? It's not for everyone, but it surely makes more sense to me than monogamy. I am in principle a poly but happily single. No kids or family or 'partners' to worry about which saves a lot of time and energy.
But when people around me repeat the mantras:
-go get a girlfriend (for sex alone? No, thanks. To share things with? I have friends. Even if I did want girlfriends, it would be in plurals)
-why don't you get married (if you have time to lecture me, you'd do better saving your own)
-are you going to grow old alone (really, either you'll die before I and it won't matter to you; or I'll die before you and I don't give a damn; in short, none of your goddamn biz)
... it becomes annoying! Add to that most people have their minds set in the 'mono' mode and look at poly people as though they just want to have sex with as many people as possible. Well, fuck their restricted minds. I am not judging that they are having sex with one person for the rest of their lives (or so they think). Little did they know about PERB. I wouldn't even bother trying to tell these narrow-minded people about PERB and the world of SPs.
My take on why people get married:
-society, family, & friends expect it
-for any combination of wealth, status, & power
-it's what 'everybody' does
-need biological offsprings to continue the bloodlines or to transfer assets to.
There are more unconventional reasons, but I'll just leave it at that.
Has anyone here ever heard of polyamory or is a polyamorist? It's not for everyone, but it surely makes more sense to me than monogamy. I am in principle a poly but happily single. No kids or family or 'partners' to worry about which saves a lot of time and energy.
But when people around me repeat the mantras:
-go get a girlfriend (for sex alone? No, thanks. To share things with? I have friends. Even if I did want girlfriends, it would be in plurals)
-why don't you get married (if you have time to lecture me, you'd do better saving your own)
-are you going to grow old alone (really, either you'll die before I and it won't matter to you; or I'll die before you and I don't give a damn; in short, none of your goddamn biz)
... it becomes annoying! Add to that most people have their minds set in the 'mono' mode and look at poly people as though they just want to have sex with as many people as possible. Well, fuck their restricted minds. I am not judging that they are having sex with one person for the rest of their lives (or so they think
). Little did they know about PERB. I wouldn't even bother trying to tell these narrow-minded people about PERB and the world of SPs.Pretty much. Fuck marriage, it's stupid. Go talk to any divorced dad for 5 minutes and see what he thinks.
The funny thing is he only had one pussy for so long and is probably broke because of her.
I actually see a lot of SP's and I still have more cash then any of my friends.
Same reason as people who constantly go to jail for stupid shit.
Mine have been married >25 years.
lol im the same i've seen tons of sp and have more $ in the bank than my married friends.
Marriage is for saps!
I can tell any guy that wants to get married and is single...they are all really sappy and wimpy when it comes to women. As for the ladies, ...well they are sold the idea that marriage brings happiness and the dream of that wonderful wedding day!
After that day, life is one big happy dream...*cough*!
I can tell any guy that wants to get married and is single...they are all really sappy and wimpy when it comes to women. As for the ladies, ...well they are sold the idea that marriage brings happiness and the dream of that wonderful wedding day!
After that day, life is one big happy dream...*cough*!
