What Would You Do?

[Cock Throppled]

Book with an SP for an afternoon encounter the next day. Time is agreed upon. I ask, and receive a very general location.

Next day, text in morning to confirm all is a go.

One hour before agreed upon time, I text to say I am on my way, she asks my ETA, and all is a go, and I get a slightly more defined location.

Get to nearby location, text I am there, and get no response. My spidey senses start to tingle. After about 5 minutes, I get a lone text asking me to give her 2 minutes. Five more minutes go by, and I text saying I have lost my small window, and we have to make the session shorter.

Five more minutes, and she texts exact address.

I arrive 3-4 minutes later, pleasantries are exchanged, but she then searches, and says she has no condoms. That's pretty much like a drummer having the drums, but no sticks.

At this point, I decide to call things off. Gave her $20 for MY inconvenience, and left. When there is that much communication, and co-ordination, and still not be ready is inexcusable, unprofessional and just stupid. In the past, I would have persevered, but whenever things like this happened, it has always been disappointing, so no more flakes.

 

[Theguyfromvictoria]

Yeah, brutal.
Unless it’s a reputable agency, who tend to be very good with their appointment times, I always look for spontaneous encounters to avoid what you just went through -

 

[Number17]

That’s terrible and a big WOT. You have done nothing wrong. In fact, your patience is above and beyond anyone’s expectations. You’re such a nice guy to leave her some money. It’s totally unprofessional on her part. I hope your next appointment will be your best one to make up for it.

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

That one hour before agreed upon time I would have asked for exact address.
If not supplied I would have politely said thank you and cancelled.
Your time CT is just as valuable as theirs. No disrespect intended man but at least
that would have kept your window well open to find another encounter if your
time slot was not expandable. And same would go for theirs as that is plenty of
time to fill that cancelled time slot for them.

Been through to many of those flakey outfits to put up with crap like that anymore.
Hope you get a better rendevous bro next time out.




..........................QM'r

 

[VanessainVictoria]

Ladies can get free bulk condoms and lube from Peers Victoria in Esquimalt. My driver used to say an escort has two jobs. To show up with a smile and a condom. Saying that you have no condoms is extremely unprofessional. imo

I do not give my address out until the client is in the neighbourhood. Too much can happen in an hour.

https://www.safersexwork.ca/

 

[maxic]

Next time bring your own rubbers only you know what fits best

 

[PierreCoeur]

At this point, I decide to call things off. Gave her $20 for MY inconvenience, and left. When there is that much communication, and co-ordination, and still not be ready is inexcusable, unprofessional and just stupid.

I am not sure I would have been so generous. The most I would have done is offer her a lift to Shoppers Drugmart.

 

[Stamkos]

Unexpected last minute shit happens for SP’s as well but I would have packed it in after the second time extension given you had limited time for the session as it was. Even if you went through with the session you would have been pissed and would just make for a shitty session. Not worth the aggravation...

 

[blakealridge]

Everyone has bad days/bad things happen. From an SP's perspective, I would have offered another date with a free hh extension if this happened to me SOMEHOW (maybe it would have when I was newer). This sounds annoying though. At least you saved some money I guess!

 

[Man in Submission]

Everyone has bad days/bad things happen. From an SP's perspective, I would have offered another date with a free hh extension if this happened to me SOMEHOW (maybe it would have when I was newer). This sounds annoying though. At least you saved some money I guess!

I have to confess, whenever I read one of your posts I always expand the signature.

 

[steverino]

I am not sensing anything malicious in her intentions, just some combination of either being disorganized or maybe she had personal issues arise that day. Being out of condoms is another possible sign of being disorganized. It makes me feel more confident in my decision to use well respected agencies and indies.

 

[grizzly]

Not being ready on time is unprofessional, but it is commonplace in this industry unfortunately. That seems to be the most common text I receive after I announce my arrival. "2 more minutes please". Over the years I've adopted a 30 minute allowance for her tardiness. As for the condom thing, I would've said, "well I guess we'll have to go au naturale" just to see her reaction, and maybe scare her into not making this mistake again. This would never be a problem for me as I always bring my own balloon to the party just in case.