What was your first industry experience like? What were your reasons for seeking out a provider? Let's get some good stories going here[/QUOTE my first exerperience with you was amazing thankyou❤❤
What was your first experience like?
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Our "911" is "999" in England if not the rest of Europe.
omgmy first exerperience with you was amazing thankyou❤❤What was your first industry experience like? What were your reasons for seeking out a provider? Let's get some good stories going here
It would be ~ 15 or 16 years ago.
I was a year separated form my ex-wife and a single dad to a 5 year old daughter. Busy with my career and being a Dad. No time for anyone or anything else.
One day my Mom and sister came to me and told me I needed a night off and I should go out and blow off some steam.
They came over and basically kicked me out of my own home. LOL!
I tried calling a couple of buddies but they couldn't get away on short notice.
Not knowing what to do or where to go I dropped in to a local bar/lounge. After a couple of drinks and watching whatever sporting event was on the TV, I decided to play some VLT's. I never gamble so this shows you how bored and a "fish out of water" I was.
I struck up a conversation with this pretty woman sitting 2 seats over. Maybe I cried in my beer too much that night but when she went to leave later on, she leaned in gave me a hug and kiss on the cheek and passed me her number with her name. She mentioned that next time I felt like some company to give her a call. I can't exactly recall the conversation but it was implied this would be a "pay for play" get together.
I didn't call her for almost 2 months. I will admit to being hung up about seeing a prostitute. Hookers were for losers and ugly guys who have to pay for it.
I don't know why but I did hang onto her number and one day I did call her. She remembered me and was so sweet on the phone.
She invited me over and must have sensed my nervous apprehension because she was even kind enough to tell me if I got there and decided not to stay she wouldn't charge me.
I can still remember sitting nervously on the couch at her in call while she poured us a glass of wine and made me feel at ease.
She turned out to be one of my ATF's (top 3 of all time) and I saw her regularly for many years until she moved/retired many years ago.
I will always remember her fondly.
Cheers
J
I was a year separated form my ex-wife and a single dad to a 5 year old daughter. Busy with my career and being a Dad. No time for anyone or anything else.
One day my Mom and sister came to me and told me I needed a night off and I should go out and blow off some steam.
They came over and basically kicked me out of my own home. LOL!
I tried calling a couple of buddies but they couldn't get away on short notice.
Not knowing what to do or where to go I dropped in to a local bar/lounge. After a couple of drinks and watching whatever sporting event was on the TV, I decided to play some VLT's. I never gamble so this shows you how bored and a "fish out of water" I was.
I struck up a conversation with this pretty woman sitting 2 seats over. Maybe I cried in my beer too much that night but when she went to leave later on, she leaned in gave me a hug and kiss on the cheek and passed me her number with her name. She mentioned that next time I felt like some company to give her a call. I can't exactly recall the conversation but it was implied this would be a "pay for play" get together.
I didn't call her for almost 2 months. I will admit to being hung up about seeing a prostitute. Hookers were for losers and ugly guys who have to pay for it.
I don't know why but I did hang onto her number and one day I did call her. She remembered me and was so sweet on the phone.
She invited me over and must have sensed my nervous apprehension because she was even kind enough to tell me if I got there and decided not to stay she wouldn't charge me.
I can still remember sitting nervously on the couch at her in call while she poured us a glass of wine and made me feel at ease.
She turned out to be one of my ATF's (top 3 of all time) and I saw her regularly for many years until she moved/retired many years ago.
I will always remember her fondly.
Cheers
J
I started this recently, so my story is pretty new, but I find the stories from others here so interesting. This has become quite the time capsule for how this experience has evolved over time and depending on location.
I'll start by saying that my first time with an escort was my first time ever. I had never had a girlfriend due to various things including my inability to connect with people on deeper non-superficial levels, and my overall introverted, loner tendencies. I wanted to connect with someone, but every time I tried I was denied. It got to the point where I was so discouraged that I thought sex, or a relationship was never going to happen, but all that would change starting in October of 2018.
In October 2018, I went to Montreal for my cousins wedding. The night before I was about to go home to Vancouver, I saw a Montreal Canadiens game with my brother. After the game, my cousin (different from the one I was attending the wedding for) came to pick us up. As we walked throughout Montreal to try and find a decent place to eat, I kept joking that we should go to Amazone's before the night is done. My brother, who had traveled to Montreal more recently than I had, told me of stories regarding the Montreal strip club scene. As many know, Quebec is one of the premiere strip club scenes in the world due to the low prices, amount of songs you get, 2 for $20, and the ability to touch. I was joking but semi-serious. At around 1:30 in the morning, we arrived at Amazone's.
It was a Tuesday, so the selection of women wasn't large, but I don't consider my standards very high when it comes to women. I can see the beauty in a lot of shapes, looks, and sizes. My first private lap dance was by a non-English speaking woman with many tattoos. She had pierced nipples that were fun to touch, but I like the ability to converse with a women in that situation, so it wasn't the most fun, but $20 for 2 songs really can't make you that sad. I was then approached by two black women, who after asking for my coat to keep warm, which I did not give because I had about $100 spread throughout the pockets, offered a duo dance for $60, or a one then other for the regular rate. I went with the ladder and I was glad I did. The first girl didn't want to talk much, but the second girl, Nicole was quite wonderful. During the dance, she told me about how she was from Connecticut, and that she was up here because she loves stripping, and likes the scene in Montreal where you can touch. She also pointed out how stupid it was that Vancouver charges so much for dances that have no touching. This is something I didn't know because of course this was my first time at a strip club. Her breasts were huge and natural. I told her that her breasts were a gift from God, which she liked. My time there was the first time I had ever felt breasts in person, and it left me feeling happy.
When I got back to Vancouver, I wanted to try and find that experience again. However, I was disappointed. There were only about 5 clubs in all of Vancouver, and they were all either so expensive to get into (Brandi's, Grandville Strip), had a seedy reputation (No 5 Orange, some place in Surrey), and all just seemed to charge way too much for a dance. Many were $50 for one song and no touching, on top of a high entry fee, which didn't make sense to me, because if I want to see a woman dance topless with no touching, I can watch porn for a much cheaper price. I just wasn't satisfied going from the heaven that was the Montreal strip club scene, to the Days Inn of the Vancouver scene. This is not an attack on the women, just an attack of the outrageous cost for a lesser experience.
I searched for 3 months to try and find the experience I was looking for and found nothing. That was until I discovered the website for the Platinum Club on Homer. When I found it I thought "How is this legal?" As I searched more I found the Eros website advertising women for massages. I thought "How is THIS legal!" That led me to the escort section. My mind was blown. All these escorts advertising freely like this. I thought I had stumbled upon something very illegal. I have a researchers mind, so I went to research what the prostitution laws were in Canada, and learned about the Nordic Law. I weighed my options and I decided that the chance of me getting caught was low, and since I didn't have a girlfriend, a big fancy job, or have worries that anyone in my family would find out (if they did, who cares), I felt it was worth a try.
So after researching as best I could, I contacted a woman who I thought looked good. I didn't want to start out with the escort section, which I felt was too soon, so I went for a woman who did massage for $350 an hour (I know, I know). After trying to find a payphone, and realizing they were scant/no longer existed, I decided to call on my cellphone. She sounded nice until I mentioned that I had read reviews on her. She started panicking, and trying to convince me not to trust the reviews. I told her that I believe people can change, and we set the appointment for the next day. However, her fear and panic over the review comment really frightened me. After seeing Perb, but not signing up, because I hate to sign up for things, I decided in a fearful state, to get an account to see if anyone had reviews of this girl. This is why my name is so bad. It was a name I had on another chat site years ago. What I found was horrible reviews of bad service, and even a claim that she stole money/id's out of someone's wallet while they were on her massage table. Scared that I had made a horrible mistake, and fearful that she may send the cops after me, I decided not to go through with it. Even though I feel I did the right thing, I still feel bad that I screwed over a provider, no matter how good or bad she was.
I then decided to get more safety. I went to the nearby mall, and bought a burner phone. It cost me $110, but it was for the peace of mind. Turns out that there was no peace to be had, as I discovered that most escorts don't connect through blocked numbers, and they can tell what's a real number and what's a burner number. It was $110 burned but I still don't regret it because it was apart of the experience. I looked on Eros again, and found Sweet Janis. I wanted to talk to her over the phone first before I went, as since it was my first time, I didn't feel comfortable having a log of our booking. After getting her on the phone, I was able to book the appointment.
Since I have already posted a review of that experience here, and this is already really long, I'll just post a link to that encounter. This was a long post I know, but I would like to thank Perb for helping me out all this time. I know review boards get a bad rap from people in the industry, and clients of the industry who feel that the boards become toxic a lot of the time, but I have found this site an undisputed resource for finding good, reliable SP's. If it wasn't for this site, I likely would have never had the courage to seek out, and end up meeting such great people like Elsi Dawson, Clementine Smithereens, Jewel from Surrey, and many others I hope to meet. I hope one day this work can be decriminalized, so I can speak freely about my experiences with these women without fear of reprisal.
P.S. Sorry for the long post. I just can't help myself a lot of the time.
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?264480-Review-Sweet-Janis
I'll start by saying that my first time with an escort was my first time ever. I had never had a girlfriend due to various things including my inability to connect with people on deeper non-superficial levels, and my overall introverted, loner tendencies. I wanted to connect with someone, but every time I tried I was denied. It got to the point where I was so discouraged that I thought sex, or a relationship was never going to happen, but all that would change starting in October of 2018.
In October 2018, I went to Montreal for my cousins wedding. The night before I was about to go home to Vancouver, I saw a Montreal Canadiens game with my brother. After the game, my cousin (different from the one I was attending the wedding for) came to pick us up. As we walked throughout Montreal to try and find a decent place to eat, I kept joking that we should go to Amazone's before the night is done. My brother, who had traveled to Montreal more recently than I had, told me of stories regarding the Montreal strip club scene. As many know, Quebec is one of the premiere strip club scenes in the world due to the low prices, amount of songs you get, 2 for $20, and the ability to touch. I was joking but semi-serious. At around 1:30 in the morning, we arrived at Amazone's.
It was a Tuesday, so the selection of women wasn't large, but I don't consider my standards very high when it comes to women. I can see the beauty in a lot of shapes, looks, and sizes. My first private lap dance was by a non-English speaking woman with many tattoos. She had pierced nipples that were fun to touch, but I like the ability to converse with a women in that situation, so it wasn't the most fun, but $20 for 2 songs really can't make you that sad. I was then approached by two black women, who after asking for my coat to keep warm, which I did not give because I had about $100 spread throughout the pockets, offered a duo dance for $60, or a one then other for the regular rate. I went with the ladder and I was glad I did. The first girl didn't want to talk much, but the second girl, Nicole was quite wonderful. During the dance, she told me about how she was from Connecticut, and that she was up here because she loves stripping, and likes the scene in Montreal where you can touch. She also pointed out how stupid it was that Vancouver charges so much for dances that have no touching. This is something I didn't know because of course this was my first time at a strip club. Her breasts were huge and natural. I told her that her breasts were a gift from God, which she liked. My time there was the first time I had ever felt breasts in person, and it left me feeling happy.
When I got back to Vancouver, I wanted to try and find that experience again. However, I was disappointed. There were only about 5 clubs in all of Vancouver, and they were all either so expensive to get into (Brandi's, Grandville Strip), had a seedy reputation (No 5 Orange, some place in Surrey), and all just seemed to charge way too much for a dance. Many were $50 for one song and no touching, on top of a high entry fee, which didn't make sense to me, because if I want to see a woman dance topless with no touching, I can watch porn for a much cheaper price. I just wasn't satisfied going from the heaven that was the Montreal strip club scene, to the Days Inn of the Vancouver scene. This is not an attack on the women, just an attack of the outrageous cost for a lesser experience.
I searched for 3 months to try and find the experience I was looking for and found nothing. That was until I discovered the website for the Platinum Club on Homer. When I found it I thought "How is this legal?" As I searched more I found the Eros website advertising women for massages. I thought "How is THIS legal!" That led me to the escort section. My mind was blown. All these escorts advertising freely like this. I thought I had stumbled upon something very illegal. I have a researchers mind, so I went to research what the prostitution laws were in Canada, and learned about the Nordic Law. I weighed my options and I decided that the chance of me getting caught was low, and since I didn't have a girlfriend, a big fancy job, or have worries that anyone in my family would find out (if they did, who cares), I felt it was worth a try.
So after researching as best I could, I contacted a woman who I thought looked good. I didn't want to start out with the escort section, which I felt was too soon, so I went for a woman who did massage for $350 an hour (I know, I know). After trying to find a payphone, and realizing they were scant/no longer existed, I decided to call on my cellphone. She sounded nice until I mentioned that I had read reviews on her. She started panicking, and trying to convince me not to trust the reviews. I told her that I believe people can change, and we set the appointment for the next day. However, her fear and panic over the review comment really frightened me. After seeing Perb, but not signing up, because I hate to sign up for things, I decided in a fearful state, to get an account to see if anyone had reviews of this girl. This is why my name is so bad. It was a name I had on another chat site years ago. What I found was horrible reviews of bad service, and even a claim that she stole money/id's out of someone's wallet while they were on her massage table. Scared that I had made a horrible mistake, and fearful that she may send the cops after me, I decided not to go through with it. Even though I feel I did the right thing, I still feel bad that I screwed over a provider, no matter how good or bad she was.
I then decided to get more safety. I went to the nearby mall, and bought a burner phone. It cost me $110, but it was for the peace of mind. Turns out that there was no peace to be had, as I discovered that most escorts don't connect through blocked numbers, and they can tell what's a real number and what's a burner number. It was $110 burned but I still don't regret it because it was apart of the experience. I looked on Eros again, and found Sweet Janis. I wanted to talk to her over the phone first before I went, as since it was my first time, I didn't feel comfortable having a log of our booking. After getting her on the phone, I was able to book the appointment.
Since I have already posted a review of that experience here, and this is already really long, I'll just post a link to that encounter. This was a long post I know, but I would like to thank Perb for helping me out all this time. I know review boards get a bad rap from people in the industry, and clients of the industry who feel that the boards become toxic a lot of the time, but I have found this site an undisputed resource for finding good, reliable SP's. If it wasn't for this site, I likely would have never had the courage to seek out, and end up meeting such great people like Elsi Dawson, Clementine Smithereens, Jewel from Surrey, and many others I hope to meet. I hope one day this work can be decriminalized, so I can speak freely about my experiences with these women without fear of reprisal.
P.S. Sorry for the long post. I just can't help myself a lot of the time.
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?264480-Review-Sweet-Janis
After months of considering, finally a phone call to the woman in question. A sultry reassuring voice and a date was set. We would "accidentally" meet in a bar, have a drink, maybe two, then follow through. The whole evening was fun, super hot and exhausting. That was "Sexy Nina Leone". We soon followed up - I had long wanted to meet JessikaXXX and for those of you who would remember - she was one intimidating figure - sex on heels. So I figured why not both at once. Seeing those two enter the lobby of the hotel and arrive at my room was a personal highlight. Very little of what could be done with three people wasn't done that evening. Would love to meet someone as mature, sexy, interesting and full of life as those two again.
Hmmm thought about making a date for a very long time. Finally decided to commit to a well reviewed SP. I was late and pocket dialed 911. My cell rang back and I thought she was calling me to see if I was still coming to visit her. It turned out to be the police...I thought oh man...the jig is up but it was a call back to ensure there was no emergency. whew...dodged that bullet. Arrived at the incall and it was busy...a guy standing around on his cell phone looking at me...families entering and leaving the apartment...I thought everyone knew what I was doing here.
Made it to the incall a few minutes late explained what happened...the lady and I have a good laugh.
From that day on...we more than a few memorable dates ;-)
She is retired now but Thank-you for the memories.
Corym
Made it to the incall a few minutes late explained what happened...the lady and I have a good laugh.
From that day on...we more than a few memorable dates ;-)
She is retired now but Thank-you for the memories.
Corym
My first experience was terrible!
After my last relationship ended I was fed up with relationships. Had too many gals want me for security. After spending money on Lap dances my buddy said you could spend that cash better. So I went on line in Edmonton to search.
Found a gal that would come to my home. Nice round chocolate skinned ebony.
She was late, and then messaged me she would be another 45 mins. Shows up way way bigger than her pics. I almost said my roommate just left and closed the door but she had someone in the car parked backwards on the street.
She looked around, and then asked for the funds. We went into the bedroom and I asked her to get on her back on the massage table at the end so I could stand and have her legs up.
She got pissed at me saying “ No I call the shots and I do it on the bed” So when it comes time for lube she says o shit I forgot it in the car as she didn’t want my lube which is fine. Her girlfriend brings it half way up my walk way and hands it to her. She comes back in and the lube was not lube but JERGENS HAND/BODY LOTION. I said that is not healthy for you and she replied “they would not sell it if it wasn’t ok” . ….I couldn’t finish to say the least and "oh times" up and she quickly plunked it out, got dressed and not even a hug or kiss goodbye.
After that I went to agencies until perb. I don’t gamble on LL.
For me the first has been my worst experience!
After my last relationship ended I was fed up with relationships. Had too many gals want me for security. After spending money on Lap dances my buddy said you could spend that cash better. So I went on line in Edmonton to search.
Found a gal that would come to my home. Nice round chocolate skinned ebony.
She was late, and then messaged me she would be another 45 mins. Shows up way way bigger than her pics. I almost said my roommate just left and closed the door but she had someone in the car parked backwards on the street.
She looked around, and then asked for the funds. We went into the bedroom and I asked her to get on her back on the massage table at the end so I could stand and have her legs up.
She got pissed at me saying “ No I call the shots and I do it on the bed” So when it comes time for lube she says o shit I forgot it in the car as she didn’t want my lube which is fine. Her girlfriend brings it half way up my walk way and hands it to her. She comes back in and the lube was not lube but JERGENS HAND/BODY LOTION. I said that is not healthy for you and she replied “they would not sell it if it wasn’t ok” . ….I couldn’t finish to say the least and "oh times" up and she quickly plunked it out, got dressed and not even a hug or kiss goodbye.
After that I went to agencies until perb. I don’t gamble on LL.
For me the first has been my worst experience!
My mother was away so I called up an agency for an outcall to my mothers apartment. I didn't even make any requests, just said send a girl.
The girl who showed up had floppy soft boobs and not someone I was attracted to. I think the clock ran out early and she left while I was still fumbling. I was actually relieved to see her go.
The girl who showed up had floppy soft boobs and not someone I was attracted to. I think the clock ran out early and she left while I was still fumbling. I was actually relieved to see her go.
First experience
My first experience was a mixed one! A little background first - I was in my mid-20s, horny all the time and married for about 5-6 years. I loved my wife dearly but she had been raised on the puritanical "have-sex-to-have-babies-but-don't-enjoy-it" plan. So no positions but mish, no DATY, no BJ, no lights on and she never initiates. I used my fingers to make sure she had an orgasm every time but it didn't help her get into it - she was just too repressed.
So I find myself in Ottawa on business for a week and going out of my mind with imagining sex with someone who really liked it. Got a phone number from the Yellow Pages and called the lady to come to my hotel. I knew not to talk specifics on the phone and to make sure we were both naked before turning over money in case there was a LE trap. The lady also seemed a bit nervous and was just a few years older than me, but she was the body type I wanted and had a pretty, if careworn face. We chatted a bit and I learned she was a single mom, so apparently she was trying to earn enough to live on - not necessarily all from being a SP.
So we get naked on the bed and I ask if I can go down on her because I never had the opportunity before. She seemed surprised I would want to but she agreed and I went at it with vigor. I could feel her body starting to twitch and respond when she lifted up on her elbows and asked if I wanted her to start on me now. I said no, I was enjoying myself too much and she looked surprised again and then relaxed, not having to concern herself with my needs for the moment. Another few minutes of Lady Lapping (which gave me my moniker on CERB later), she came in an orgasm that doubled her over and made her shudder for several seconds and she shouted "OH, it's been so looong!". That made me feel pretty proud, and happy I could do something she enjoyed.
So she started on the BJ but I had to stop her really soon because I was on excitement hair trigger already. A short pause to cool off a bit and a short period of FS and it was over. I felt great, having had the best sex of my life to that point!
So what's the mixed part? Well, a couple of weeks later I learned I had contracted gonorrhea and had certainly given it to my wife! My marriage went on another 20 years because I did love her for everything except the sex life, but once the kids were grown up she didn't waste time dumping me. Well that started my involvement in this delightful and necessary hobby which has introduced me to a host of ladies I thoroughly enjoyed meeting both sexually and personally! Here's to them all! :kiss:
My first experience was a mixed one! A little background first - I was in my mid-20s, horny all the time and married for about 5-6 years. I loved my wife dearly but she had been raised on the puritanical "have-sex-to-have-babies-but-don't-enjoy-it" plan. So no positions but mish, no DATY, no BJ, no lights on and she never initiates. I used my fingers to make sure she had an orgasm every time but it didn't help her get into it - she was just too repressed.
So I find myself in Ottawa on business for a week and going out of my mind with imagining sex with someone who really liked it. Got a phone number from the Yellow Pages and called the lady to come to my hotel. I knew not to talk specifics on the phone and to make sure we were both naked before turning over money in case there was a LE trap. The lady also seemed a bit nervous and was just a few years older than me, but she was the body type I wanted and had a pretty, if careworn face. We chatted a bit and I learned she was a single mom, so apparently she was trying to earn enough to live on - not necessarily all from being a SP.
So we get naked on the bed and I ask if I can go down on her because I never had the opportunity before. She seemed surprised I would want to but she agreed and I went at it with vigor. I could feel her body starting to twitch and respond when she lifted up on her elbows and asked if I wanted her to start on me now. I said no, I was enjoying myself too much and she looked surprised again and then relaxed, not having to concern herself with my needs for the moment. Another few minutes of Lady Lapping (which gave me my moniker on CERB later), she came in an orgasm that doubled her over and made her shudder for several seconds and she shouted "OH, it's been so looong!". That made me feel pretty proud, and happy I could do something she enjoyed.
So she started on the BJ but I had to stop her really soon because I was on excitement hair trigger already. A short pause to cool off a bit and a short period of FS and it was over. I felt great, having had the best sex of my life to that point!
So what's the mixed part? Well, a couple of weeks later I learned I had contracted gonorrhea and had certainly given it to my wife! My marriage went on another 20 years because I did love her for everything except the sex life, but once the kids were grown up she didn't waste time dumping me. Well that started my involvement in this delightful and necessary hobby which has introduced me to a host of ladies I thoroughly enjoyed meeting both sexually and personally! Here's to them all! :kiss:
Moonlight Bunny Ranch about 15 years ago. I was in a pretty prolonged drought and was looking for something fun/different to do after taking the bar exam. Cathouse was on HBO at the time, so thought I'd give it a shot. After some initial sticker shock with one the more popular providers, I found a very nice lady and had an amazing time. She noticed I was extremely nervous and even asked if I was a virgin. I had such a good time that I made an unplanned trip back the next day. Over the course of the next couple years, I followed her to Sherri's Ranch (highly recommend) in Vegas and to Ohio when she went independent.
This makes me so happy!!!!!! :tickled_pink::tickled_pink::tickled_pink::tickled_pink:
Like a lot of people posting, my first experience wasn't with the benfit of the Perb community and without all the knowledge here there was some missteps. I was living between Main Street and Kingsway in Vancouver and going to school. Relationship with my girlfriend wasn't going great, she lived out of town, had her issues (still does really, great lady and I love her but she has confidence issues that spill over into her willingness to be sexual) and sex was almost non-existent. Realized that a massage shop on my walk home from the bus stop was open a lot later than I would have expected. Put two and two together and screwed up the courage to walk in.
First time wasn't great, I was far to nervous, practically shaking (my good catholic upbringing was hard to surpress too). Hand finish only and couldn't get there, but the seeds of the lifestyle were planted. Went back and I think the third time or so I pulled the trigger for FS. I've graduated to bigger and better things but the whole ritual of the massage is ingrained in me now. I know the AMPs have a mediocre reputation here, but I associate a relaxing massage with a visit with an SP now. At its best, the whole ritual is great and bleeds all the stress out of me. First getting your muscles relaxed with a massage, then a good sensual touch and teasing to get your riled, completing a release, and usually a bit of a cool down massage afterwards.
I don't get the very personal connection this way, but it's a ritual. It recognizes that health involves being touched and tended to sexually. I always try and be polite and friendly and I usually get a good response, even if the language barrier is there. You can be a gentleman in more ways than how you talk to a lady. If I had the money it would be part of my weekly routine to care for myself, like going to the gym. Come to think of it, visiting the other ladies is like a counselling/therapy session, which is also great to do regularly. If only I could get my health benefits to chip in!
First time wasn't great, I was far to nervous, practically shaking (my good catholic upbringing was hard to surpress too). Hand finish only and couldn't get there, but the seeds of the lifestyle were planted. Went back and I think the third time or so I pulled the trigger for FS. I've graduated to bigger and better things but the whole ritual of the massage is ingrained in me now. I know the AMPs have a mediocre reputation here, but I associate a relaxing massage with a visit with an SP now. At its best, the whole ritual is great and bleeds all the stress out of me. First getting your muscles relaxed with a massage, then a good sensual touch and teasing to get your riled, completing a release, and usually a bit of a cool down massage afterwards.
I don't get the very personal connection this way, but it's a ritual. It recognizes that health involves being touched and tended to sexually. I always try and be polite and friendly and I usually get a good response, even if the language barrier is there. You can be a gentleman in more ways than how you talk to a lady. If I had the money it would be part of my weekly routine to care for myself, like going to the gym. Come to think of it, visiting the other ladies is like a counselling/therapy session, which is also great to do regularly. If only I could get my health benefits to chip in!
