What turns you on?

HB40

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Not necessarily the usual things, breasts, legs, ass etc but the subtle things that you would normally only tell to an SO. Things like ear nibbling, toe sucking, deep French kissing. The main thing that turns me on is a woman’s pussy, I’m still awestruck at the beauty and mystery of them. The sensation of penetration is always the most wonderful experience for me.

But one of my favorite girls has opened my mind to whole new turn ons, when I think of all the amazing sessions I’ve had two things stick out as fascinating new experiences that absolutely excite me.

The first one has to do with sweating. I have always been very self conscious of this, I perspire very easily and being nervous about it just makes it worse. Even something as simple as a conversation can make me so uneasy the sweat will actually drip from my brow. I read in a thread how some girls will avoid positions where a guy will be dripping sweat all over them, I usually avoid mish because of this. Normally I will wipe my brow with a free hand, but this one time during a particularly strenuous romp in a mish type position I really needed both arms for balance and support. The SP reached up with both hands, passionately caressed my whole face and ran her fingers through my hair. I had never been so turned on or felt a connection like that before. I’m not sure why she does it, maybe she senses my awkwardness about it and wants me to feel at ease. She continues to do this and even will massage right in my armpits, the arousal is incredible.

The other thing she does that thrills me is that when she is having an orgasm she likes me to suck on her fingers, OMG I just love that. She will also suck on mine and it sends me right over the edge. I have come to enjoy sucking on a woman’s fingers and toes very much, I am not really a kisser so this gives me the feeling of intimacy I desire.

So what are some of the things that set you gents and ladies off? Perhaps some of the things will give others ideas and help to enhance our experiences. Maybe I can learn some new tricks or discover some of you girl’s hidden desires. So don’t be shy, what turns you on? :)
 

rockmyworld36

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A girl that's comfortable with her body and confident enough to put on a bit on a show. Toys or no toys, watching a girl pleasure herself is SOOO hot!

A little dirty talk is awesome too.

Teasing is great. I like it when a girl can wind me up so much that I want her more than oxygen! lol:D

Attention to the less obvious sensitive areas is nice. Running her fingers through my hair, kisses on the back of the neck and behind the ears are nice.

And of course, watching 2 girls enjoying each others pleasures is as hot as it gets. :D
 

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i'm a simple man, i get turned on by a woman in shape. which means no fat around the midsection butt not saggy, chest not not saggy, and a hot looking face. above and beyond that she should be energetic and not tire easily.
 

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just a few

#1 on the list would have to be the way a women undresses herself
the slow linger with each Item and having her undress me slowly Is a big Yes in my books. as she gets on her knees and slowly removes my belt, undoes the zipper and the soft caress of my cock
#2 would be the way she sucks my cock. starting nice and slow, like eating
a really really good chocolate, letting it almost melt in her mouth, slow motions up and down the shaft. underneath, and the slight licking of the tip, and the soft
caress of my balls with a lick or 2 like there sweet candy that she can't get enough of.
#3 the look in her eyes when we fuck. I love to look into her eyes, and watch her expression change with each thrust.
#4 I love love love lip biters. when shes got her bottom lip and combine that
with a sexy look and you got it made.
#5 when she grabs my ass as we are fucking, and the running of the nails down my back.
not scratching mind you just the light tickle is killer.
#6 When she grabs the back of my head if I'm going down on her. and the soft moaning and wriggles as my tounge does its dirty work.
#7 I love it when she gets sweaty. something about her chest glowing with little beads of sex sweat is amazing

I guess its all good when I think about it. The simple art of fucking
is amazing on its own. to find each others sweet spots and explore
them until you explode in a sweaty mess.
Finding the right rythm and motions where you loose control and all that
matters is the feelings running through out your body.:cool:

wow I think I need to go get laid:p
 

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Tons of foreplay

Whether it be cudlling naked or continuos tease, I enjoy a woman who likesseeing makeing me tingle or get goose bumps from her creative advances. Even a great hug with a little sensual grab and a moan can put me over the edge.

G.A.
 

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I'm turned on by flirty women. There seem to be so many gaurded ice queens out there, that it's a nice treat to converse with a warm, passionate, sexy woman. Even if I don't find her physically attractive at first, she can become instantly attractive with a playful, confident attitude.

I won't even try with the ice queens, regardless of their beauty (and they're usually attractive).
 

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WOW, I'm getting so horny just reading all your turn ons!

Sexy Nina and Guardian Angel I am also very aroused by touch. I remember one of my first joys as a boy was simply holding a girls hand.
Even now when getting a massage I try to interlock fingers when she massages down my arms.
I love fourplay, before and after....lingering caresses, cuddling, nuzzling, even the hug at the door gets me so turned on.
I'm still very much like I was then, holding a girls hand for the first time.... mostly because I tried to get into her pants too. ;)
 

rockmyworld36

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WOW, I'm getting so horny just reading all your turn ons!

Sexy Nina and Guardian Angel I am also very aroused by touch. I remember one of my first joys as a boy was simply holding a girls hand.
Even now when getting a massage I try to interlock fingers when she massages down my arms.
I love fourplay, before and after....lingering caresses, cuddling, nuzzling, even the hug at the door gets me so turned on.
I'm still very much like I was then, holding a girls hand for the first time.... mostly because I tried to get into her pants too. ;)
I hear ya! Lol...

I thought I was satisfied for a while, but my imagination is getting the best of me :D

I might have to poon again before the new year :)
 

HB40

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HB40:

This is off topic, but careful of that sweating man. I had high blood pressure at one time & I'd start sweating just by walking on a warm day.

Back to the topic:

What turns me on? I'm not sure why, but eating out a female. Works great with her lying down, but works best with her with hands on the wall at the head of the bed & having her position herself over me. Best if she can see herself in the mirror. Not sure why, but that's my kink.
Thanks dood, but I get a complete check up every year. My doctor says I'm the picture of health, always when she is cupping my balls....I think she knows it turns me on. :cool:

mmmm DATY, yeah I love that position too. The mirror is nice but when they look down at you approvingly, pure bliss. :)
 

Rammstein69

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Damn!! You guys are just tormenting me with these stories!! I SOOOOOO need to get laid! :p
 

Miss*Bijou

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- A good kisser (to me that means passionate, not invasive -lol- not sloppy & just the right amount of tongue -no tongue twirling/wrestling, please-), who as we're kissing puts his hand on the back of my head or neck (sometimes on each side of my face). That gives me goose bumps, I swear my temperature must rise. It just does it for me and always has.

Same thing for me - I also love putting my hand on the back of a guy's neck too, while we're kissing but also while we're fucking.


- A guy's reaction when I'm giving head. I think that's the biggest reason I enjoy it because even if a guy's hard, if he's not giving any other kind of response.... such a let down. Ego thing, I guess. That, and it also means mostly guess work (and that's annoying).. a guy who gives you some kind of reaction, be it body language or some other subtle way, is giving feedback and without having to say anything, is telling me what does it for him and what doesn't. Knowing what does do it for him and giving him just that, is a huge turn on for me.


- I have a client who really gently strokes my hair and talks to me while I'm giving him a BJ. He tells me how much he's enjoying it and compliments me.. I dunno, maybe I'm kinda cheesy, but the first time he did it I thought it was so sweet.. now it totally gives me goosebumps and is definitely a turn on.


- Sometimes it is just a look. But there is no way I can describe it, sorry.
 
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nothing too crazy or detailed for me, but i like high heals and french manicured nails. Ugly nails are a major turn off for me. I also hate lipstick
 

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Hmm, Ok...

It is funny how one woman can do something that will be a major turn on for me, and that another woman will try, and it will be a turn off.....Chemistry/attitude/personality are huge turn on's for that reason.

As funny as it may be, I enjoy different women differently, I will notice some from they way they dress, some from the way they wear make-up, some from the way they walk, some from the way they talk... I love brunettes, I love redheads (even when the color goes orangey LOL), and do I need say anything about ditry blondes, even silver or pink hair can do it form me, it all comes back to the attitude, and sexyness.

Sometimes, it could be as simple as when a sexy woman undresses in front of me (with my help..) or the way she undresses me....(with-out my help!!!) (Business suit or skimpy little dress)

Sometimes, it's dirty talk, (some ladies do this better than others!!!!)

But for me, it's always aggressive women! Love them.. For some reason, I really enjoy it, alot!!!! Don't ask for my permission, when I am with you, I am yours!

But the biggest turn on for me, is when the lady I am with is so excited, and it show's, when she says... OOO Yea... right there baby...... Don't stop..... OOOOO Yes.... That is a major turn on, and then there are some ladies that just can not keep still, some go speechless when they have the shakes, o boy that tells me keep it up!!! That is a turn on!


When's it's over, I still get turned on by the attitude, it's like there is a cool down period.
 

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Hmmmm lets see


1) tight blue jeans hipster cut (low), no pockets in rear.

White or black tight Tshirt.

Commando nothing on underneath, shaved clean or a thin landing strip.

2.5-3 inch heel knee height boots (under the jeans - calfhuggers).

Mid to long hair (doesn't really matter the colour, just the cut, length and the smell - fresh washed hair.. whoohoo)

2) Other thing that I like is a hot woman in a dark business suit, including shirt/ jacket (knee height skirt) with garters and stockings.

commando underneath no bra, no g string.


Or 3) wearing only a hockey jersey nothing on underneath... ( thats hot...)
 

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1. a guy's reaction when I'm going down on him, it's a power trip, like someone else said on here

2. me looking at his insertion into me is a huge turn-on

3. cupping my ass and/or slapping it lightly,kissing,sucking (ass worshipping?)

4. a little bit of roughness is always fun

5. a bit of dirty talk

6. just before the final finish, they pound real hard. mmmm
 

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1. a guy's reaction when I'm going down on him, it's a power trip, like someone else said on here

2. me looking at his insertion into me is a huge turn-on

3. cupping my ass and/or slapping it lightly,kissing,sucking (ass worshipping?)

4. a little bit of roughness is always fun

5. a bit of dirty talk

6. just before the final finish, they pound real hard. mmmm
ummm, you just described me;) but you forgot passion and intensity.....
 
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