What to wear...

[Alix Turner]

Out of curiosity.. (I know there is no one right answer, but I'd love to see the spread)
What do you like to see a girl you have hired for the first time wearing when you arrive at her incall? What about when she arrives at your hotel?

Does what a woman is wearing in her advertising photos have much impact on whether or not you contact her?
... and, now that I think of it, are you more likely to make requests as to what she wears if you see her multiple times, or do you find the way she dresses less important as you get familiar with each other?

I tend to dress down and wear great lingerie but I am fairly conservative in my day to day wear and I find I get a bit nervous if I am in public wearing very provocative clothing, especially arriving at a hotel alone.

Any thoughts on the matter are more than welcome.

xo
alix

 

[DinosaurBill]

I agree with the "normal" look when out in public and arriving at my hotel. Really, it is what's underneath that cool exterior that I'm interested in anyway!

 

[LJG]

I'm not a big fan of the streetwalker look. Nor am I crazy about being greeted at the door by a woman in lingerie. A simple, clean-cut dress is perfect. But maybe that's cuz I prefer to begin a "date" with conversation, something to stimulate my emotional and intellectual senses in addition to my physical ones.

On repeat visits, a more casual approach is fine -- it can suggest a growing sense of comfort and companionship.

What about you, Alix? Do you prefer your "dates" casually dressed? Can a date overdress for the occasion?

 

[AA_Train]

As echoed by others, for an outcall situation,something nice that doesn't attract too much attention. The approach I would recommend would be to wear what you would wear if you were to have dinner at a nice restaurant.

As for incalls, I don't like to tell people specifically what to wear but rather to give them a list of things I like and let them surprise me. I think that's a nice compromise.

 

[jdtipper]

Myself, I prefer you gals to be in your normal everyday clothes. Nothing fancy on top or underneath. It really completes the GFE feeling for me.

Or if you dress up.... Goth!!!

Kali, wheres Kali Kaos at? Soon my dear.... very soon

 

[Alix Turner]

I'm not a big fan of the streetwalker look. Nor am I crazy about being greeted at the door by a woman in lingerie. A simple, clean-cut dress is perfect. But maybe that's cuz I prefer to begin a "date" with conversation, something to stimulate my emotional and intellectual senses in addition to my physical ones.

On repeat visits, a more casual approach is fine -- it can suggest a growing sense of comfort and companionship.

What about you, Alix? Do you prefer your "dates" casually dressed? Can a date overdress for the occasion?

Oooh good question, I like a man with style. I very much appreciate a well tailored suit, but it doesn't have to be a suit.. any outfit that gives you the impression that he knows what he is doing when he goes shopping or goes to his closet to get dressed before he goes out. It has more to do with confidence and then a bit of taste. I'm lucky, I don't attract the kind of men that wear hoodies and really expensive shapeless jeans *knock on wood*


answering the door in my underpants always seemed like admitting that I didn't have anything to say.. or wear. I know a lot of women do go with that approach, and I know a lot of men love it but I just feel sort of bizarre being in my underpants around a person that is still taking off his coat and commenting on the weather outside.
... but I can recall more than a couple of circumstances where I was rather the opposite.. Driving much too fast down lougheed while taking off my underpants trying to get to my front door before my client (who's circumstances were as such that his calls were always last minute) because the first one to the front door got to call which sexual act we would start with.

Or a special arrangement I had with someone I had been seeing since I started as an sp.. and the night before our appointment I would go to bed in something cute, get up at around four just to brush my teeth, and then at six a.m. wake up and answer the door in my underpants and a tank top and he'd join me back in bed for a proper wake up.

I guess my conservative side has more to do with what feels unnatural or overly public. When the two people involved have their attention squarely focused on one another you don't have the same sense of self scrutiny when you get dressed you are just excited about how turned on you'll be to see eachother.

 

[Big Dog Striker]

If my favorite courtesan would ask me about outfit requests, I guess my first answer would be the unofficial dress code of the hotties of Vancouver: Lululemon. Second would be jeans. :nod:

 

[lenharper]

Obviously decorum is important but I remember one time I asked jx3 over and told her to knock me out. I watched her enter my place on the "lobby cam" and smiled as this six two (in heels) fuck machine walked by two or three folks hanging in the lobby. I had her on her knees before I got the door closed. Most timed what you wear really does matter

 

[Sydney Carton]

I always meet a women for the first time over dinner and my usual restuarant haunts and style of dress run toward suits so I prefer a women to be dressed in a similar fashion....business sexy. However, it's more important that she's comfortable in whatever she's wearing. If she's dressing for you and not comfortable then it becomes obvious fairly quickly (or maybe she's just responding to my personality). Not a fan of the streetwalker look and Lululemon definately has it's place.......the Lulu butt running in front of me has pushed me to many greater feats than I thought possible, but not as a matter of course.

Advertising photos are definately an important consideration. I like to see a variety of clothing options and body shots.

"Driving much too fast down lougheed while taking off my underpants trying to get to my front door before my client"......that's a great visual and made me laugh....

 

[Gentle-man]

I'm still fairly new, so the cross section of comparison is small. Having never made a request, thus far, I have been greeted in a little black dress (with lovely B&W polka dot and pink trim ensemble underneath), black silk robe with only lace panties underneath, sexy silver shorts and tube top with thigh high stockings, and dark blue silk chemise with stockings... While I enjoyed them all and I think it reflected the personalities of each of the ladies well... I think my favourite greeting attire was the little black dress.
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