What to do.....

[vince_chase]

this is never happend to me before, therefore, i am a bit stumped. i have been pooning for about 5 years and i have had regulars before. anyways, recently, i went to see a SP who is fairly young,about 20. anyways, the session was GFE type, lots of LFK and etc. it was overall a good experience. i left in very good terms and was thinking about repeating in a 2-3 weeks.
i get a text message 3-4 days later from her to say hi, did not think much of it and replied with some jokes and kept it light, figured it was slow for her. i then get another text today about how i am doing..., this time, i did not reply since 2 days in a row is a bit much? or is it?i never had a SP text me unless i initiate it first and this usually happens after i am a regular

i have only seen her once and was thinking about repeating, but, now, i am not so sure. any thoughts from SPs or pooners?

 

[Fractals]

We should expect nothing less from a Vincent Chase!

 

[vince_chase]

We should expect nothing less from a Vincent Chase!

LOL! yes, drama.

 

[Lurker 123]

May be she is a friendly person. Ask her out for a coffee to find out. But make sure she is not charging you for social time!

 

[Fractals]

Victory!!!

I love that show.

 

[jnewton]

Sheesh ... what is with some guys? Maybe she actually enjoyed meeting you? I agree with the guy who said to ask her out for coffee. Considering how isolating being an SP can be, it's just possible she felt comfortable and safe with you and really did have fun with you. I agree, offline interaction with an SP can be something of a head fake because it's tough to get your brain around the idea that she might actually enjoy you for more than your wallet but it's not impossible. There are some amazing women in this business and I don't think loneliness is all that uncommon. If you can, go for it and enjoy the ride, wherever it goes. Life isn't always about destinations ... the journey can be just as fun.

Read the first quote in my sig.

 

[nd1]

i have only seen her once and was thinking about repeating, but, now, i am not so sure. any thoughts from SPs or pooners?

It has happened and, although some find that endearing, generally it's been regarded as being indiscreet and improper.

Who is the lady in question? One wonders if she has initiated contact with others...

 

[Pillowtalk]

She's soliciting for business. Don't try to take it any other way. As mentioned above, it is indiscrete and really unprofessional.

 

[Dr_X_man]

this is never happend to me before, therefore, i am a bit stumped. i have been pooning for about 5 years and i have had regulars before. anyways, recently, i went to see a SP who is fairly young,about 20. anyways, the session was GFE type, lots of LFK and etc. it was overall a good experience. i left in very good terms and was thinking about repeating in a 2-3 weeks.
i get a text message 3-4 days later from her to say hi, did not think much of it and replied with some jokes and kept it light, figured it was slow for her. i then get another text today about how i am doing..., this time, i did not reply since 2 days in a row is a bit much? or is it?i never had a SP text me unless i initiate it first and this usually happens after i am a regular

i have only seen her once and was thinking about repeating, but, now, i am not so sure. any thoughts from SPs or pooners?

Yes it happens all the time. I do not see any problems. It all depends "Did you tell her do not text me?" and she still texted you!

Sheesh ... what is with some guys? Maybe she actually enjoyed meeting you? I agree with the guy who said to ask her out for coffee. Considering how isolating being an SP can be, it's just possible she felt comfortable and safe with you and really did have fun with you. I agree, offline interaction with an SP can be something of a head fake because it's tough to get your brain around the idea that she might actually enjoy you for more than your wallet but it's not impossible. There are some amazing women in this business and I don't think loneliness is all that uncommon. If you can, go for it and enjoy the ride, wherever it goes. Life isn't always about destinations ... the journey can be just as fun.

Read the first quote in my sig.

I agree nothing is wrong in having SP friends. I have had many, girls like to talk and I listen. I do not know about you but I will go with the flow. (unless it affects your privacy or so....)

 

[ihatemyskirt]

this is never happend to me before, therefore, i am a bit stumped. i have been pooning for about 5 years and i have had regulars before. anyways, recently, i went to see a SP who is fairly young,about 20. anyways, the session was GFE type, lots of LFK and etc. it was overall a good experience. i left in very good terms and was thinking about repeating in a 2-3 weeks.
i get a text message 3-4 days later from her to say hi, did not think much of it and replied with some jokes and kept it light, figured it was slow for her. i then get another text today about how i am doing..., this time, i did not reply since 2 days in a row is a bit much? or is it?i never had a SP text me unless i initiate it first and this usually happens after i am a regular

i have only seen her once and was thinking about repeating, but, now, i am not so sure. any thoughts from SPs or pooners?

Inappropriate
Unethical
Unprofessional

 

[jnewton]

I often get guys that won't give out there number and only call from block calls cause they have been put in situations like this before ... I for one would never call a number back like that for many reasons most importantly discretion.

Kisses Melina*

For what it's worth, he did say she texted, not called, and just to say hi. While I agree that could be a problem, we don't know his situation or what was discussed during the time they were together. It's just possible he said something that made her think a simple text would not be a problem. The fact that he responded to her text and, at least from what he wrote, did not tell her to leave him alone would confirm for her that it wasn't a big problem.

My point is, we don't have all the facts so a rush to judgement may be a bit premature.

 

[Dr_X_man]

For what it's worth, he did say she texted, not called, and just to say hi. While I agree that could be a problem, we don't know his situation or what was discussed during the time they were together. It's just possible he said something that made her think a simple text would not be a problem. The fact that he responded to her text and, at least from what he wrote, did not tell her to leave him alone would confirm for her that it wasn't a big problem.

My point is, we don't have all the facts so a rush to judgement may be a bit premature.

Agree again to me the best relations with SP's the ones combined with friendship. But again that is to me and to each his own.

 

[mikeret17]

this is never happend to me before, therefore, i am a bit stumped. i have been pooning for about 5 years and i have had regulars before. anyways, recently, i went to see a SP who is fairly young,about 20. anyways, the session was GFE type, lots of LFK and etc. it was overall a good experience. i left in very good terms and was thinking about repeating in a 2-3 weeks.
i get a text message 3-4 days later from her to say hi, did not think much of it and replied with some jokes and kept it light, figured it was slow for her. i then get another text today about how i am doing..., this time, i did not reply since 2 days in a row is a bit much? or is it?i never had a SP text me unless i initiate it first and this usually happens after i am a regular

i have only seen her once and was thinking about repeating, but, now, i am not so sure. any thoughts from SPs or pooners?

Let's have a look at all this.

- You met this new girl. - Check
- You had a good session & good time time. - Check
- You had thought about a repeat session somewhere down the road. - Check
So far so good.

Now, was this new lady younger than the other "regulars" you mentioned?
You say this isn't the first texting with SPs after you have met them, so what has you troubled with this particular situation? Her age? Have you heard other intel about this lady that has you wondering?

Do you remember the discussions you had with her in your session, and did you maybe "off the cuff" tell her she could contact (text) you? If not, why did you reply to her texts in the first place? I think by you doing that, regardless of what you may/ may not have told her, you basically in not so many words told her it was ok. And now that she has continued to try to text you, you are calling a balk. Think about it and ask yourself why.

Did you consider her becoming a regular before this happened, and now you're having second thoughts?
Maybe she's just doing it to make sure she is still a consideration for a return visit. Keep her name fresh in your mind every now and then. No harm in trying, right.

I guess the answers from the members here might be forthcoming with more information;
- SP name, in case she has done the same to other members.
- Your rememberance of whether or not you may have told her she could contact you.
- What is bothering you the most about her continued contact.

And I guess if it really has you frazzled, either politely ask her not to text anymore, or just don't reply, and rethink your decision to repeat.

Just my thoughts here.
Salt shaker is over there ->
take a grain or 2.

 

[sevenofnine]

i guess for the most part its considered unprofessional,

who knows who can just pick up your phone and go through the text messages
it might be embarressing and have some explaining to do.

i have no idea if your married or not,
but for us married guys its considered a no no.

even if your not married how many people do you want to explain to your paying escorts.

that being said if your comfortable with some one your seeing and you have a secure means of communication where your not afraid of some one reading your emails for instance.
or a pm on this sight

even if i have never seen some one before, i dont mind a pm saying hi or even a direct advance, im a big enough boy to say no, or even an email if they have my email address. but something like a text on my phone, its a no no. on anything but the day of a session to confirm or make arrangements.

 

[jnewton]

Let's have a look at all this.

- You met this new girl. - Check
- You had a good session & good time time. - Check
- You had thought about a repeat session somewhere down the road. - Check
So far so good.

Now, was this new lady younger than the other "regulars" you mentioned?
You say this isn't the first texting with SPs after you have met them, so what has you troubled with this particular situation? Her age? Have you heard other intel about this lady that has you wondering?

Do you remember the discussions you had with her in your session, and did you maybe "off the cuff" tell her she could contact (text) you? If not, why did you reply to her texts in the first place? I think by you doing that, regardless of what you may/ may not have told her, you basically in not so many words told her it was ok. And now that she has continued to try to text you, you are calling a balk. Think about it and ask yourself why.

Did you consider her becoming a regular before this happened, and now you're having second thoughts?
Maybe she's just doing it to make sure she is still a consideration for a return visit. Keep her name fresh in your mind every now and then. No harm in trying, right.

I guess the answers from the members here might be forthcoming with more information;
- SP name, in case she has done the same to other members.
- Your rememberance of whether or not you may have told her she could contact you.
- What is bothering you the most about her continued contact.

And I guess if it really has you frazzled, either politely ask her not to text anymore, or just don't reply, and rethink your decision to repeat.

Just my thoughts here.
Salt shaker is over there ->
take a grain or 2.

+1

Very good summary of the useful points.

 

[vince_chase]

thanks for all the feedback, everyone.

i did not ask her to text me/email me/phone me. she saved my call number in her ph memory.
as i said before, the session was great - hence i was thinking about going back.
i do need my privacy since i do have a family.

after having sometime to reflect on this issue, i realized that the boundry line is very important for myself, although i do think the SP also enjoyed my company as far as customer goes - that is why she texted, i am going to stay away for the time being just incase.

i maybe completely wrong here, she maybe just trying to get more from a customer she actually did not mind, but, i do not need complications.

sorry, i am not going to provide her name since incase i am wrong about this, i do not want to ruined her in the biz. happy pooning!!

 

[vancity_cowboy]

if you had one of those anonymous phones from 7-11 you wouldn't have to worry about the family would you?

 

[yoshi99]

In reply to ihatemyskirt
Lucky you have such an amazing ass cuz your a bit of a hypocrite aren't ya!!!!

 

[badbadboy]

I have received texts from a few SP's I have met before and just put it down to their proactive marketing. If we hit it off it seem natural that a possible repeat happens sooner than later.

Also happens towards the month when rent is coming due too . . . Just sayin. They gotta make rent, pay bills etc just like the rest of us.

I don't see a prob with this one at all.