OK, maybe I was a little premature when I said I wasn't pissing on them. I'll rephrase that with I'm not suggesting anything punitive for them just that I'm disgusted that they made a series of VERY bad choices and they get bailed out. Lets say things were very different and this had a pooning angle and had nothing to do with careless smoking. The dad is out cruising the streets with the family's only vehicle, picks up a vice cop and has the mini-van seized. Now he can't drive himself or the other employed family members to their jobs. Would people be offering up vehicles or chauffeur services? I very much doubt it.Bartdude said:Thought you said you weren't pissing on them?
Comments from the mom....."always careful with the smoking", "everyone who smoked did it outside", "we always covered up the butts with snow".Bartdude said:Please show me direct, specific examples of them trying to blame someone else for what happened.
Obviously all that was bullshit since they're house is now a pile of ash.
I can't speak for others but I'm not mocking them so much as I'm disgusted that in a family of at least 4 people over 18 not one of them was responsible enough to make sure they had insurance and decided that smokes were more important. I'm also not shitting on those people who've decided to donate. If you re-read my comments I was "what to do with people.......". If you or anyone else want to shell out their cash or goods so be it.Bartdude said:As are those self-righteous people on the sidelines mocking people for making mistakes, and shitting on those stepping up to help.
Don't know, but so far all thats been reported was the "oh woe is us" angle.Bartdude said:Do you think the family doesn't know they were dumb and careless?
Honestly, at the end of the day my care factor (for any side of this debate) equals zero. They can burn down their next house, the residents fo Calgary can bail them out.....really don't give a shit. The intent of my original post and follow up comments were to express my visceral reaction to the situation. Give it a day or so and I'll have moved on to something else to be disgusted about.Bartdude said:What the hell do you care that other people are willing to overlook the family's carelessness to provide some help?
No joy whatsoever and you'll fail to guilt me by injecting my recent purchase into the debate.Bartdude said:Precisely what joy do you take in sitting in front of your shiny new Sony laptop, heaping scorn on these people?
I'm a legendBartdude said:I know what a legend you are on here
Again, I'm not trying to tell anyone what they should or shouldn't do. If people want to donate to them fine, that's their choice. Its just interesting that the media has decided to turn this family into the charity cause de jour. The following day there was an arson fire in Calgary which has meant 6 or so families have lost the use of their condos for the next month. To the best of my knowledge no one's stepped up to provide them with free/emergency shelter, offer to replace anything damaged by a fire that clearly wasn't their fault, offered to repair the building at no cost.expedition said:But you have no place telling others that they can't help them or feel sorry for them either.






