What to do When your Sp Girlfriend Becomes Pregnant...

[jedimaster]

Hi.I need some serious advice Here...
No stupidity please or game playing....
I posted before about Live in relationship with an Sp.
What I also wanted to know but did not want to deal with it @ the same time..Was her becoming Pregnant.
I personally love kids( being a big one myself )
We are pretty much 'swingers' live life apart and together.
But we do share a common bond...Well maybe a little more than that perhaps....
I question ( Forgive me but please understand) Am I the father..Or could it be someone she was on the Job with..
I have until Wedsday to deal 'with this..(consultion)
She feels so guilty ..while there is no need to..
i understood what our relationship was/and what I was getting into...( We met on the Job)
Is it wrong for me to want her to quit while she is Pregnant....( I feel awful for bringing Morals up here)
To bring this Child some diginity...Or should we abort. on the premesis that I may not be the father....
I really need serious replies.
I am very serious and confused.
If you have any advice please feel free to share it....
Jedi

 

[stout]

I seriously think you should be discussing this issue with her and not us.

 

[prettyboy]

I think this is all BS and Mr. Jedi is looking for some attention.

 

[envykitty]

I think if Jedimaster made this up he is a twisted individual and should be ashamed of himself. I also think if Jedimaster didn't make this up then he who thought it could be a phony attention seeking plan is the one who should be ashamed of himself.

 

[lowdeville]

With his posts on here 24\7 I doubt he'd have the time time to impregnate anything.

 

[Phoenix]

Man, you guys are cruel.
Although, this should be in the general discussion area.

 

[jedimaster]

I told you I wanted serious replies only....
I am seeking serious advice not ridicule.

 

[travel guy]

Hi.I need some serious advice Here...

No sh*t.

So......you allegedly live with a sp. After reading your posts I'll have to assume this is a high volume provider, so she's servicing countless men daily. Now, after servicing countless men, you two spend the remainder of your time together living the "swinging" lifestyle......more servicing of strangers.

You want to know if you should go ahead and give the child some dignity OR abort? The way you've spelled it out, the only dignity possible here is termination of any pregnancy that would arise from whatever festival of bodily fluids this woman has going on.

 

[jedimaster]

I have told her this and she seems to feel 'Gulity' of doing this ..
( Abortion).She seems to think after Wed that we could probably go to the Max if they could prove I am the father....
However she wants to go ahead with the Job @ any rate..
I do not agree on this and think she should Quit Now.
But I do not want to control her...
i know this is fucked up..
but I really want is to know am I wrong for wanting this child...Wrong for wanting her to stop being an Sp..
This is fucking driving me nuts...
I really do not like to tell people what to do..

 

[prettyboy]

With his posts on here 24\7 I doubt he'd have the time time to impregnate anything.

Agreed. How do you have time to 'swing' when your ALWAYS on here?

BS flag all over this one.

 

[big_pegger]

Well, I think she should have final say over whether or not anyone will be having this child.

Her primary source of income (and way of life) will be devastated by a pregnancy. It's completely her choice. You have no right at all to tell her to do anything.

That being said, you have every right to tell her what you want. There's nothing against that. Just make sure you both understand and you are both having a very clear conversation about this.

You're not wrong for wanting anything.
You're not wrong for telling her exactly what you want, truthfully.
You ARE (or will be) wrong for forcing her to change her way of life.

If you two completely disagree, you have every right to split up with her (and she with you). Just don't abandon a child if that's what the end result is.

 

[big_pegger]

Agreed. How do you have time to 'swing' when your ALWAYS on here?

BS flag all over this one.

Grow up guys.

If he's BSing, oh well. Who cares.

The guys that complain about this kind of stuff all the time are the guys that are seeking the more attention.

"Wow, look at me, I'm smart enough to know when someone's lying!"

The guy makes an average of 5.7 posts a day. Is that really alot?

Get off his back.

 

[J Waters]

Bravo Mr.5.7 Bravo Baby, General Discussion Or Moderator, please. OHH Pleaaase!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Pussy Eater]

I agree, what if some sp's came to one of her regulars and told him he was the father of her unborn baby. What would you do? I think that is the question. DNA would the first thing, painting the babies room would be the second. Give the guy a break.

 

[JustAGuy]

Jedimaster, if you've been having unprotected sex with your SP girlfriend, who in turn has been having unprotected sex with her clients, you've been playing a game of Russian Roulette that could have much more serious consequences than her becoming pregnant. What were you THINKING?

 

[jedimaster]

I,Ve come clean with every thing tognite.This board..My activities......Everything....
Tommorow is a first for both of us...
She is quitting her profession....
No matter what......We are going to have this baby...
I am retiring as well.......
Thank you all for your friendship and support......
Critisim and enlightenment........
It's been a blast......
God bless all of you.........
Forever JediMaster.............
Retired

 

[chuck]

I told you I wanted serious replies only....

Although this thread probably should be in the general discussion area. The replies that you (Jedimaster) are getting on this thread topic are about as serious as all of your previous posts on this board since you have started to post.

 

[tom25]

Jedimaster doesn't need a break, he needs to grow up.

What happened Wed Jedimaster? According to your other posts that's the day you were TOFTT with Michelle who ended up being Jennifer. this too seems pretty dubious now that you've posted that you can't have outcalls at your place and are nervous about doing incalls at an SP's place.

Look man, either your making the whole thing up in which case just fuck off ...

Or ... you're going to be a daddy. In which case put the light sabres away and get ready to shoulder some real responsibility. Even if you and your girl split up, you're still legally the dad and that means you're responsbile ... financially for child support even if you don't want to be part of their lives.

And for a while at least, maybe you should be thinking about those things, instead of wondering who is good at Broadways. You need to figure out what you're going to do with your sp girlfriend and the only way to do that is to spend some time with her, rather than off fucking around.

Frankly, I think your 15 and just jerking everyone's chain.

And by the way, IMHO, if you're not getting serious replies, maybe because its pretty hard, after the posts you've put on the board, to take anything you say very seriously.

Tom

 

[countryguy]

Here is my 2 cents. I don't buy one bit of what jedi has to say. And I think tom25 hit the nail on the head.

 

[bigben]

jedi, come clean.... is this for real?