What to do for a fourth date.....help !

[Yackityyak]

So, I've seen this very nice lady three times...no intimacy yet but definitely working towards something happening. Have done two dinners, one at the top of Grouse Mountain plus a bottle of wine at Spanish Banks. I need help. It's been a while since I've dated but what fun/casual yet romantic things are there to do in Vancouver that could continue to move things along ?

Any suggestions will be appreciated. In return, I'll let you know how the date goes....it's this Saturday night....to all my sisters and brothers....help !! (I'm not very good at this planning stuff..gulp).

 

[stryker]

Have ya kissed her yet??
Just curious

 

[wannaliquorbox]

what nationality is she? age? interests? after three dates, you must know quite abit about her. perhaps you can can tease something out of the conversations you two had over the previous dates. the evening is much more special when it is planned with the other person's interests in mind.

 

[curvy_nympho]

I would suggest Bard on the Beach, Theatre Under the Stars or a play at the Stanley Theatre (or any other theatre in Vancouver).

Take a tandem bike ride through Stanley Park.

Go out to a winery and do a wine tasting. (There are several in Langley)

Do a progressive dinner evening. Have appetizers at one restaurant, have drinks at a another, have your entree at another, have dessert at another, etc.

Check out the Georgia Strait to see if there are any festivals or concerts happening.

Hope that helps!

Bella

 

[aznboi9]

Didn't Bill Maher say that if you haven't had sex by the third date, then it's time to move on?

 

[stryker]

Didn't Bill Maher say that if you haven't had sex by the third date, then it's time to move on?

Ya Ya aznboi,,Some of us know that

What I want to know is,after three dates,,has he even kissed her yet?

 

[JustAGuy]

Didn't Bill Maher say that if you haven't had sex by the third date, then it's time to move on?

Bill Maher has always been my reference point when it comes to dating. I have no idea how I ever got along without him.

 

[stryker]

What I want to know is,after three dates,,has he even kissed her yet?

Aside from what you've done,,,you can either play it up ,,or play it down

I'd sudgest the later,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,but is ya want,,hows about a heli ride to the island,lunch etc ,,yada yada yada The only shitty thing is,,it's the money talking then,,and expectations

 

[aznboi9]

Ya Ya aznboi,,Some of us know that

What I want to know is,after three dates,,has he even kissed her yet?

Kissing, shmissing. If they haven't played "hide the monkey" already, then it's over. So says Bill.

 

[NewbieSugaBaby]

Devil's in the details bebe. What do you remember about her from the last dates? Integrate what you know into the plan. Look for her patterns. If you remember her rocking certain colors in clothes and make-up, get flowers within the theme. What are her tastes in food? Music? How much wine does she drink before she starts to PoP! and get bubbly and kinda silly.

floor her by making reference to something you discussed last time. Ask crazy questions based on hypothetical scenarios and let her do all the talkin'

THEN MAKE YOUR FRAKIN' MOVE BEFORE THE CYLONS INVADE!

G.L.!

 

[georgebushmoron]

Go watch strippers.

 

[ex-lurker]

Yeah, three dates with no intimacy* means you are doing "fake dates," so I wouldn't put too much thought into it. Pick something that you would enjoy if you weren't on a date. Bard is a good choice...

*I am taking intimacy to mean anything from sex to just holding hands or touching each other while out, though I personally feel that no heavy petting/kissing by date three means things are toast.

 

[necko]

The fourth date should be at your/ her place or away for the weekend Harrisons Hots Springs, Whistler etc depending on your budget All should quaretee itmatecy (sorry for the spelling folks)very drunk

 

[athaire]

Take a walk in a nice wooded area and then back to yours/her place and have a nice simple meal in for the eve with a couple of dvd's and make a move already............Good luck........

 

[SInCity67]

Im curious , about how many hours have you been with this women, is it close to 7 ???

 

[Yackityyak]

Thanks for the advice .... so far

To answer a few of the questions raised so far:

1) Yes, we've kissed.
2) No, we haven't played hide the monkey...yet.
3) She's in her mid thirties and is caucasian (although a person's ethnicity makes no difference in my small world as differences often end of being a strength in a relationship).
4) Total time that we've spent together over three dates is approximately 12 hours.
5) We've made tentative plans to take off for a weekend sometime in September.

I'm just looking for something casual and relaxed for a fourth date and to keep moving things along. Thanks for some of the great advice so far. Would appreciate any feedback from the ladies.

 

[Creole Lady Marmalade]

Do something fun like go to an amusement park. Win her a stuffed animal, lose your faces in cotton candy, go on a few rides. Throw up after the rides holding her hair back.

 

[uncleg]

Can she..

swim?? if not go to Sewell's Marina in HSB.rent a boat and head out into the Sound. There, it's put out or get out. Seriously, though there some nice locations on some of the islands within easy reach of HSB. Take along a picnic, and enjoy some quiet time out there. Nobody around to bother you and all the privacy you want/need. If the weather is good and the mood is right you can have your own private Wreck Beach.

 

[blondeluver]

4th date :

Take her to White Rock, have dinner at the tapas... and then go for a walk on the pier and watch the sunset... With the cool evening breeze blowing, it sure gives you a perfect opportunity to be closer.

To answer a few of the questions raised so far:

1) Yes, we've kissed.
2) No, we haven't played hide the monkey...yet.
3) She's in her mid thirties and is caucasian (although a person's ethnicity makes no difference in my small world as differences often end of being a strength in a relationship).
4) Total time that we've spent together over three dates is approximately 12 hours.
5) We've made tentative plans to take off for a weekend sometime in September.

I'm just looking for something casual and relaxed for a fourth date and to keep moving things along. Thanks for some of the great advice so far. Would appreciate any feedback from the ladies.

 

[seannachie]

...go on a few rides. Throw up after the rides holding her hair back.

Yikes! Marry her if she sticks around/comes back again.