I am fairly new in the hobby. Everytime i see a new girl, there is always this ackward moment cuz I dont really know how to start a conversation. I mean are there certain things/questions that clients are not suppose to ask/say?
For example, is it okay to ask her age and how long she has been working as SP. I mean, if obviously i know her age is older than advertised, wouldn't asking such a question put her on the spot? Do SPs feel okay if I discuss the health risk issue with them, ie whether she do BB with other clients...ect ? I know that every one is distinct and some ppl are comfortable with such quetions while others are not. I just want to hear what people's opinions are and whether they feel offended by some questions.
Another question would be, is there any way that I can tell whether the girl is using injected drugs. If you take a look at the HIV report from BC CDD, page 20. It shows that there is 2 sex trade worker tested positive in the year 2003 while there is 18 sex trade worker(IDU) tested positive. It is easy to see that IDU are more likely to be infected. I know this hobby is all about balancing the risk, but I would like to minimize that risk from not seeing SPs that are IDU.
For example, is it okay to ask her age and how long she has been working as SP. I mean, if obviously i know her age is older than advertised, wouldn't asking such a question put her on the spot? Do SPs feel okay if I discuss the health risk issue with them, ie whether she do BB with other clients...ect ? I know that every one is distinct and some ppl are comfortable with such quetions while others are not. I just want to hear what people's opinions are and whether they feel offended by some questions.
Another question would be, is there any way that I can tell whether the girl is using injected drugs. If you take a look at the HIV report from BC CDD, page 20. It shows that there is 2 sex trade worker tested positive in the year 2003 while there is 18 sex trade worker(IDU) tested positive. It is easy to see that IDU are more likely to be infected. I know this hobby is all about balancing the risk, but I would like to minimize that risk from not seeing SPs that are IDU.
