What should I do?

[Beautiful_Rain]

A month or so ago, I had a "potential" client call me a few times to set up an appointment for him and his wife. They are from the states. He set up the appointment and called the day before to confirm and tell me the hotel and all that. Well the hour before the appointment I call him to tell him Im on my way and there is no answer. I just took it as another person just dickin' around and wanting to get some free jerk off phone time.

Yesterday I get a message from a woman on my phone. She said that she checked her phone bills and saw my number a couple of times, and was curious because she , herself, didn't know anyone in Vancouver BC. She wants me to call her back and let her know why my number is on the bill a couple of times. She has called a couple of times and left messages, sounding a little angry. Im sure she i suspiscious.....What should I do? I would never tell on the guy...even though he stood me up But what if she doesnt stop calling? I think she may think Im a mistress or something! Help me guys and gals!

 

[hitrack]

So was the appointment for him and his wife or just him.

 

[stryker]

If you havn't talked to her yet,tell here your in marketing and making cold calls from a phone list provided by your employer,then say sorry,we will take you off the list

 

[stryker]

So was the appointment for him and his wife or just him.

LOL,,Good question Hitrack,,,or might be his girlfriend,,,,or he might just like to get his jollies calling ladies

 

[hitrack]

A month or so ago, I had a "potential" client call me a few times to set up an appointment for him and his wife.

this line is throwing me?!?!?

 

[westwoody]

Maybe he had an SP or GF on the side and it fell through.

 

[Very Veronica]

I had an angry wife text me a half dozen times & she knew full well what i did. Hubby was a 'potential' client as well - we'd discussed getting together but hadn't done the deed. I ignored her messages but emailed him to let him know he'd been busted. 5 minutes later i get an email back from her (she'd figured out his password) demanding answers. Gave her a quick response - guys are pigs but it doesn't mean he doesn't luv u kinda thing and told her to stop contacting me as i would not respond. So far so good and thank god i don't give details out about my incall otherwise, she might have come knocking at my door.

Remember guys...destroy all evidence & watch those passwords!

 

[Rain Man]

Huh?

If you havn't talked to her yet,tell here your in marketing and making cold calls from a phone list provided by your employer,then say sorry,we will take you off the list

The calls are on the wife's phone bill. That means that BR was recieving the calls not making them!


BR - ignore, ignore, ignore. You don't have to answer to her. She will eventually stop calling. If you have call display (which I am sure you do) you will never have to talk to her.

If by some chance you do....tell her you are a special occassion planner and you understood her hubby was planning a special trip for her to Vancouver.

 

[Beautiful_Rain]

this line is throwing me?!?!?

Potential meaning that he made me think I was going to be seeing him.He was going to be a client. He was setting up the appointment for him and his wife.

 

[Beautiful_Rain]

LOL,,Good question Hitrack,,,or might be his girlfriend,,,,or he might just like to get his jollies calling ladies

I think that's what it is. He is one of those guys..... Even his wife said that they don't know anyone in Canada. But when I had spoken to him, he said that they were planning a trip out here for the weekend to see me. But obviously this woman knew nothjing about those make believe plans.

I like the marketing thing................Maybe I will use that!

 

[Chingada]

I had an angry wife text me a half dozen times & she knew full well what i did. Hubby was a 'potential' client as well - we'd discussed getting together but hadn't done the deed. I ignored her messages but emailed him to let him know he'd been busted. 5 minutes later i get an email back from her (she'd figured out his password) demanding answers. Gave her a quick response - guys are pigs but it doesn't mean he doesn't luv u kinda thing and told her to stop contacting me as i would not respond. So far so good and thank god i don't give details out about my incall otherwise, she might have come knocking at my door.

Remember guys...destroy all evidence & watch those passwords!

When I got caught by my ex-wife, she phoned the place that I went to and the person who owned the agency opened her big mouth and told her everything. End of marriage.

Ladies, the less you say the better. As a friend of mine said before I got caught, "If you ever get caught there are three things you can do, lie, lie and lie."

Vernoica's right. Men are pigs! At least I am.

 

[The Lizard King]

Tell her that you will check with your BF or husband as maybe they know each other through business. He's an importer/exporter, right? Then have a reliable or regular client call her back when he's at your place. In other words, you'll be doing what guys do all the time...LIE!

 

[shapeshifter]

Tell her that you will check with your BF or husband as maybe they know each other through business. He's an importer/exporter, right? Then have a reliable or regular client call her back when he's at your place. In other words, you'll be doing what guys do all the time...LIE!

And have your client say his name is Art Vandalay while you are at it

I say, just IGNORE the calls and avoid any contact or discussions with the wife, if you start lying and making up stories you could make things worse, what if the guy gives his wife a completely different story and then you have a client impersonate a importer/exporter and that totally conflicts with the story he has already given her?

SAY NOTHING! Least said the better in these situations

 

[Hollybaby]

You never saw him. You were not a 3rd party in his cheating. You have nothing to do with their relationship or how they sort out their problems, so I think you should just ignore her.

Really, she should be talking to him. You don't have to explain yourself or what you do, seeing as how you didn't even do anything!

She'll stop leaving messages and confront him eventually.

 

[Sonny]

You are not responsible for someone choosing to call you, or even choosing to see you.

That person who called you made the choice himself, and he obviously knows he has a wife who may or may not discover his activity. Curiously, he was far less than careful since he used a telephone which has a track his SO can follow. Who knows? maybe he wants to be discovered.

In any case, no matter what, you have absolutely nothing to answer for. His wife has no business trying to involve you in her husband's choices. You are guilty of nothing, even if this guy had actually become a customer of yours... let's lose the 19th century morality which pushes guilt on the SP.

This matter is solely between the guy who called you and his wife.

Ignore her calls.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

Ladies, the less you say the better. As a friend of mine said before I got caught, "If you ever get caught there are three things you can do, lie, lie and lie."

Or as Bill Clinton used to say - DENY, DENY, DENY....

 

[funnguy694u]

Why worry ???? Just tell her and it will go away !!!! She has prob. had this problem with the pig in the past,that is why she checks out everything....
Do the poor lady a favor and just tell her.....Why should she waste any more of her time with the pig...

 

[Beautiful_Rain]

Thanks you Guys!and Gals!

I think I will just ignore her and hopefully she will just give up. If she does get ahold of me, I will just say it's a wrong #........
Thanks for your advice everyone!

 

[Ilovethemall]

google

It would take the wife about 2 seconds to figure this out - all she has to do is google your phone number. If it is advertised, it will bring up all the listings - so, saying you are a telemarketer would not work. Nor would a wrong number - imagine that your calls were more than a few seconds long....when someone calls with a wrong number, how long does it take to say "sorry wrong number"? Wrong numbers are not known for long conversations.

Just call display her and don't answer the phone.

 

[namara]

I think I will just ignore her and hopefully she will just give up. If she does get ahold of me, I will just say it's a wrong #........
Thanks for your advice everyone!

if she doesn't give up, it becomes criminal harrassment...