Islander I like your thinking here about MMFsI am not into role play, per say, BUT, I do like it when the lady takes full control of the situation, tells me what she wants, tells me what to do and talks dirty. Costumes are not a thing for me just a satin/silk kimono top or just a plain bathrobe ..... only.
I occasionally like MMFs and like to arrive with the action in full progress so I can watch as I get undressed.