I'm looking to see how you decide on which SP you are going to see and whether you will see them again.
I'm sure everybody has different preferences and requirements and such, so what do you guys look for usually? Attitude isn't a valid answer here, assume it's the first time you are seeing a SP so you don't really know what her attitude is like except what people have posted in reviews.
For me, I look for the following mostly, in no particular order:
Location: Prefer within a 15-20 min drive of my location, which is usually my house in Coquitlam since I work from home most days. So that's the tricities and burnaby, new west, maple ridge, and sometimes surrey if I think it's worth the toll bridge. Pay parking is a pain as I usually hit the bank machine on the way to my appointment and I never carry change.
Ethnicity: I tend to prefer caucasian, but I've had a few asian and middle eastern lately. I keep meaning to push myself to stop favoring caucasian but I find them more appealing when I'm on the hunt.
Looks: I don't really care about looks at all. But I won't call up an SP if they don't have pictures posted in their ads. No pics, no call. I like to know what I'm getting before I go.
Price: I won't see an SP that charges less than $80 HH. I've tried a few that are cheaper and I find there is a reason they are that cheap. So min $80HH, but I usually go for an hour if I can and expect to spend $180+. I generally avoid SP's that charge > $250/hour. The few at this price range I've seen really haven't been as spectacular as I had hoped for and could get the same quality of service for less from another SP.
Services Offered: I would never bareback a SP even if they were willing and advertising it (I think I would actually avoid any advertising this). I'm a big oral fan, DFK/LFK, and touching. I usually look for those in the ads I'm reading, but if I find a SP who looks promising and doesn't offer those I'll probably give her a go.
Reviews on PERB: I look for negative reviews on PERB or see if she even has any reviews at all. I tend to disagree with positive reviews once I've seen an SP, maybe my tastes are different so I tend to ignore the positive reviews.
Independant/Agency/Micro: I prefer independents. I haven't been to many agencies or micros which is something I'm trying to change up now to get more experience with them (only been to two so far).
Duos: I have to admit I've never had one, or a 3way or anything like that. I'm very curious to try but I'm not sure I'm ready for it.
What brings me back to a SP is almost always attitude and personality. There is only 1 SP I routinely go back and see because she is really easy to talk to and makes me feel really comfortable the entire time I'm at her place (and that would be Jewel in Surrey, she is my overall favorite SP and I see her every 2-3 months).
I'm sure everybody has different preferences and requirements and such, so what do you guys look for usually? Attitude isn't a valid answer here, assume it's the first time you are seeing a SP so you don't really know what her attitude is like except what people have posted in reviews.
For me, I look for the following mostly, in no particular order:
Location: Prefer within a 15-20 min drive of my location, which is usually my house in Coquitlam since I work from home most days. So that's the tricities and burnaby, new west, maple ridge, and sometimes surrey if I think it's worth the toll bridge. Pay parking is a pain as I usually hit the bank machine on the way to my appointment and I never carry change.
Ethnicity: I tend to prefer caucasian, but I've had a few asian and middle eastern lately. I keep meaning to push myself to stop favoring caucasian but I find them more appealing when I'm on the hunt.
Looks: I don't really care about looks at all. But I won't call up an SP if they don't have pictures posted in their ads. No pics, no call. I like to know what I'm getting before I go.
Price: I won't see an SP that charges less than $80 HH. I've tried a few that are cheaper and I find there is a reason they are that cheap. So min $80HH, but I usually go for an hour if I can and expect to spend $180+. I generally avoid SP's that charge > $250/hour. The few at this price range I've seen really haven't been as spectacular as I had hoped for and could get the same quality of service for less from another SP.
Services Offered: I would never bareback a SP even if they were willing and advertising it (I think I would actually avoid any advertising this). I'm a big oral fan, DFK/LFK, and touching. I usually look for those in the ads I'm reading, but if I find a SP who looks promising and doesn't offer those I'll probably give her a go.
Reviews on PERB: I look for negative reviews on PERB or see if she even has any reviews at all. I tend to disagree with positive reviews once I've seen an SP, maybe my tastes are different so I tend to ignore the positive reviews.
Independant/Agency/Micro: I prefer independents. I haven't been to many agencies or micros which is something I'm trying to change up now to get more experience with them (only been to two so far).
Duos: I have to admit I've never had one, or a 3way or anything like that. I'm very curious to try but I'm not sure I'm ready for it.
What brings me back to a SP is almost always attitude and personality. There is only 1 SP I routinely go back and see because she is really easy to talk to and makes me feel really comfortable the entire time I'm at her place (and that would be Jewel in Surrey, she is my overall favorite SP and I see her every 2-3 months).
