What makes you to choose a SP?
- Thread starter Silkyman
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First and foremost do your research. Then spend time chatting electronically to make sure the comfort factor is there, then book and enjoy!
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My Name is Mud
What would be ideal to me.....there are many factors.
First, a woman that I find so beautiful that I almost blush when I look at her. The kind of woman that in real life I am far too shy to approach. I am an average looking intelligent, well employed guy - I can find a girlfriend - what I look for is one I feel that is "out of my league". I don't think little of myself - I have alot to offer - but at 35 I am a bit realistic
Once the woman meets the first criteria, she needs to meet the second.
Second is Attitude! Since this is an encounter that I may only persue two or three times in my life want it to be as memorable as possible. I want the lady to be as into and excited about our time together as I will be. Happy, alive, energetic. Not a clock watcher or a rule monger (I will respect both time and boundaries)
Third, I want to feel like we are one. Intimate, eyes on each other, caressing, kissing. A true GFE type experience. The most erotic thing to me is the slow soft closeness of our bodies caressing each other, light kisses and lots of contact. I know it is not real, but I want it to seem that way. For my part I'll treat her like I one should treat a bride on a wedding night - with energy, passion, and respect.
Since I only plan on encounters being a very rare treat for myself, cost is not really an issue - it is one of my least important factors.
I just look forward to an hour with someone that can leave a grin on my face for weeks.
Someone when work is overloaded or a server has crashed and everyone is calling me....I can sit back, take a breath, and remember that encounter...everything else will seem better
First, a woman that I find so beautiful that I almost blush when I look at her. The kind of woman that in real life I am far too shy to approach. I am an average looking intelligent, well employed guy - I can find a girlfriend - what I look for is one I feel that is "out of my league". I don't think little of myself - I have alot to offer - but at 35 I am a bit realistic
Once the woman meets the first criteria, she needs to meet the second.
Second is Attitude! Since this is an encounter that I may only persue two or three times in my life want it to be as memorable as possible. I want the lady to be as into and excited about our time together as I will be. Happy, alive, energetic. Not a clock watcher or a rule monger (I will respect both time and boundaries)
Third, I want to feel like we are one. Intimate, eyes on each other, caressing, kissing. A true GFE type experience. The most erotic thing to me is the slow soft closeness of our bodies caressing each other, light kisses and lots of contact. I know it is not real, but I want it to seem that way. For my part I'll treat her like I one should treat a bride on a wedding night - with energy, passion, and respect.
Since I only plan on encounters being a very rare treat for myself, cost is not really an issue - it is one of my least important factors.
I just look forward to an hour with someone that can leave a grin on my face for weeks.
Someone when work is overloaded or a server has crashed and everyone is calling me....I can sit back, take a breath, and remember that encounter...everything else will seem better
I couldn't possibly improve upon your post, TantheMan. You hit the nail on the head with each point. Someone who is completely out of my league in the real world, someone with a terrific attitude (which obviously includes enjoying what she does for a living) and lastly, someone who will provide a true GFE. And since this is something I treat myself to only every four or five weeks, I too want to be smiling about the encounter for days, if not weeks, afterward. Lucky me, I've been seeing someone (Kerry) here in Winnipeg who fits that description to a tee for the past several years.
