I agree when I read her comments my first thoughts are this lady hates being an sp
What makes an excellent experience with an Escort?
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I agree when I read her comments my first thoughts are this lady hates being an sp
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Larry Storch
[offtopic]Same goes for the Ford Ranger and the Mazda B series. Which means women driving pick-ups are HOT![/offtopic]
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Larry Storch
I was agreeing with you and providing another example to the whole "Same parts, different price." analogy.
That and just being and smart ass.
(But women driving trucks are still HOT)
The connection thing is obviously big. If two people get along the sex usually takes care of itself.
Having said that; and many of what I'll say after this pertains to physical, but this point is really the key ingredient.
A provider does the job.
A good provider gets along with a certain type of person (or maybe a couple ie she's quite ymmv and not just with hygene/politeness)
A great companion gets along and forms that connection with a great many type of people.
The most important thing about being a great escort is being upfront about what you are (ads/webpage) and being able to read someone, nobody expects you to be a mind reader, but being observant, intuitive, and be able to react to what's in front of you appropriately will go a long way.
Random other stuff
There's a fine line between not rushing and dragging things out (speaking primarily of preliminary stuff like talking, touching, etc). Cant give you specifics as it's mostly read and react type stuff.
Be prepared to make the first move or lead (otherwise state it on your ads/webpage). This isn't just physical, but during conversation as well. Some people are shy, and need to be nudged to get going. As you may have seen from many other reviews "she made me feel at ease, comfortable, etc..." "we talked like old friends"
Some guys dont like to constantly be asked "what now" but some guys are just shy and dont really say that you might not be doing something the best (read body language, if I guys hips are trying to force themselves through the mattress you're probably being too rough during the bj - that's fairly obvious but I've had a lady ask me why and wtf was he doing?). A lady I saw varied her technics a ton with a range of activities and paid attention to my reactions, as time and sessions went on she had her technics fine tuned to what I liked. A good to great escort can do that for a repeat client, regular to good escort doesn't and just basically keeps hitting the same points.
Conversly, dont you be shy. Some guys are really into mutual pleasure, unless someone is obviously into what he wants to do, maybe he'd enjoy you pointing him in a direction that you'd like the activity to go (ie daty, lots of us really like doing it, but not everyone wants it to be done to them the same way - maybe dont let a guy fumble around till he finds out what works for you and just point him there, words work, body direction generally works better and is a little hotter.....it's actually a lot hotter). Hell some guys like to be asked to do things.
Try to be a little creative. Nearly everyone goes through the CG, Mish, Doggie routine. Break it up, toss in some other positions of your own accord, this gets remembered. This also does not just apply to the physical. Things that are different stand out, things that stand out tend to be remembered. For me personally, ladies I remember I like to see again.
Try not to have your compliments sound like "lines". Most women dont like when a guy approachs them with a line in a bar. We as hobbyists dont really want to hear the same things we've heard from the past 5 ladies.
Some guys dont like asking for services. Offer them. This is very specific to me but, I like to give a facial, but I'm never asking to do it, the very rare time that a woman just goes for it it's hot as all heck and I definitly remember. If I have to ask to do something, it does take some of the fun out of it (see the guys that mention the best times are the ones that it doesn't feel like service). Unless of course what you're offereing is an upsell (upselling can be bad for me personally not because I'm paying more - usually it's on an ad and I know beforehand - but because it makes me feel like I have to do that thing even though it may break the flow of the session ie "cim is $50" "sure I can go for that" but what if when the time comes I'd like to just keep up with fs and finish that way or "gee those are great breasts, I'd like to cum on them!" either I break what i'd like to do and cim just because I paid for it or I dont and think "fuck I wasted $50!" either way, it could impact how I remember things). So if you'd really rather not do something, it's probably best not to offer it on an upsell and just make an all inclusive rate. IMO the gfe and pse seperate packages tend to work well for that; but be prepared, to some guys gfe and pse just dont mean services it literally can mean "feel" of the date.
Lots of people treat others (conversationally and physically) as they like to be treated.
The experience should be filled with positive energy. Keep up beat. If you cant, dont work. Minor annoyances can be ok to talk to clients about. Much complaining.....is a mood killer. There's a difference between just having sex with someone, and being erotic, turning them on beyond "omg she's sexy looking". Mood/atmosphere can be just as important as chemistry. The client obviously wants you because he's there in the first place, make him want to be with you even more once he's there (this sounds purely physical, but it isn't), do that right and he'll keep wanting you once he's left.
Last, he's (or she's) paying you to make the time about them. I dont think a woman should give me service for free or at a discount if she really enjoys our time together because she makes that time focused on me. It sounds obvious but sometimes ladies forget it (obviously this is assuming personal limitations and boundaries of the provider aren't being pushed)
Having said that; and many of what I'll say after this pertains to physical, but this point is really the key ingredient.
A provider does the job.
A good provider gets along with a certain type of person (or maybe a couple ie she's quite ymmv and not just with hygene/politeness)
A great companion gets along and forms that connection with a great many type of people.
The most important thing about being a great escort is being upfront about what you are (ads/webpage) and being able to read someone, nobody expects you to be a mind reader, but being observant, intuitive, and be able to react to what's in front of you appropriately will go a long way.
Random other stuff
There's a fine line between not rushing and dragging things out (speaking primarily of preliminary stuff like talking, touching, etc). Cant give you specifics as it's mostly read and react type stuff.
Be prepared to make the first move or lead (otherwise state it on your ads/webpage). This isn't just physical, but during conversation as well. Some people are shy, and need to be nudged to get going. As you may have seen from many other reviews "she made me feel at ease, comfortable, etc..." "we talked like old friends"
Some guys dont like to constantly be asked "what now" but some guys are just shy and dont really say that you might not be doing something the best (read body language, if I guys hips are trying to force themselves through the mattress you're probably being too rough during the bj - that's fairly obvious but I've had a lady ask me why and wtf was he doing?). A lady I saw varied her technics a ton with a range of activities and paid attention to my reactions, as time and sessions went on she had her technics fine tuned to what I liked. A good to great escort can do that for a repeat client, regular to good escort doesn't and just basically keeps hitting the same points.
Conversly, dont you be shy. Some guys are really into mutual pleasure, unless someone is obviously into what he wants to do, maybe he'd enjoy you pointing him in a direction that you'd like the activity to go (ie daty, lots of us really like doing it, but not everyone wants it to be done to them the same way - maybe dont let a guy fumble around till he finds out what works for you and just point him there, words work, body direction generally works better and is a little hotter.....it's actually a lot hotter). Hell some guys like to be asked to do things.
Try to be a little creative. Nearly everyone goes through the CG, Mish, Doggie routine. Break it up, toss in some other positions of your own accord, this gets remembered. This also does not just apply to the physical. Things that are different stand out, things that stand out tend to be remembered. For me personally, ladies I remember I like to see again.
Try not to have your compliments sound like "lines". Most women dont like when a guy approachs them with a line in a bar. We as hobbyists dont really want to hear the same things we've heard from the past 5 ladies.
Some guys dont like asking for services. Offer them. This is very specific to me but, I like to give a facial, but I'm never asking to do it, the very rare time that a woman just goes for it it's hot as all heck and I definitly remember. If I have to ask to do something, it does take some of the fun out of it (see the guys that mention the best times are the ones that it doesn't feel like service). Unless of course what you're offereing is an upsell (upselling can be bad for me personally not because I'm paying more - usually it's on an ad and I know beforehand - but because it makes me feel like I have to do that thing even though it may break the flow of the session ie "cim is $50" "sure I can go for that" but what if when the time comes I'd like to just keep up with fs and finish that way or "gee those are great breasts, I'd like to cum on them!" either I break what i'd like to do and cim just because I paid for it or I dont and think "fuck I wasted $50!" either way, it could impact how I remember things). So if you'd really rather not do something, it's probably best not to offer it on an upsell and just make an all inclusive rate. IMO the gfe and pse seperate packages tend to work well for that; but be prepared, to some guys gfe and pse just dont mean services it literally can mean "feel" of the date.
Lots of people treat others (conversationally and physically) as they like to be treated.
The experience should be filled with positive energy. Keep up beat. If you cant, dont work. Minor annoyances can be ok to talk to clients about. Much complaining.....is a mood killer. There's a difference between just having sex with someone, and being erotic, turning them on beyond "omg she's sexy looking". Mood/atmosphere can be just as important as chemistry. The client obviously wants you because he's there in the first place, make him want to be with you even more once he's there (this sounds purely physical, but it isn't), do that right and he'll keep wanting you once he's left.
Last, he's (or she's) paying you to make the time about them. I dont think a woman should give me service for free or at a discount if she really enjoys our time together because she makes that time focused on me. It sounds obvious but sometimes ladies forget it (obviously this is assuming personal limitations and boundaries of the provider aren't being pushed)
I'm sure many of us can identify with you. In our various careers we are all confronted with the same thing - pesky customers who actually expect something in return for the money that they give us. The nerve! They should be happy that we turn our attention to them long enough to provide the minimum of service, shouldn't they. And we have to maintain offices and stores and vehicles and staff - so much overhead. Definitely we all sympathize with you. Suck it up, buttercup!
i would say being prepared would be important. Make sure all money issues are dealt with before hand and dont pop "xtras" after session ahs started. be clear before meeting what is offered, the cost and how the session will proceed. Breaking up the flow of things can be a downer, music should be on, lighting /ambiance ready, no rushing about. AND definetely dont see too many clients in a day. Seeing them back to back also no good. Not enough time for cleanup and preparation. Clients should feel special not part of a lineup
My most memorable sessions have been with girls who have done something I haven't expected - role play, DATO, BLS, stuff like that. For example, when I saw Yoko Anna, she rode me cowgirl, then every few minutes would turn 90 degrees until she had done a 360 on me. Fucking incredible.
Worst ones have been where the sex and attraction have been badly faked. One SP kept calling me "daddy", as in "Fuck me, Daddy, fuck me!" and it was a massive turnoff...
Worst ones have been where the sex and attraction have been badly faked. One SP kept calling me "daddy", as in "Fuck me, Daddy, fuck me!" and it was a massive turnoff...
Thanks Larry.. was a little surprised to see the conversation spin off in a somewhat hostile direction myself. I also think it is fair to say 'high end' and 'low end' are fairly subjective and will vary depending on who you talk to.. or where your personal judgements lie.. and would be mindful of throwing stones from glass houses if I were someone thinking about getting pissed off and posting off topic comments on someone elses thread :crazy: .. just sayin
xoGREAT STUFF!!! Thanks for being so articulate and thorough.. you've affirmed much of what I intuitively understood as well as what I've come to know are the attributing variables to the majority of great experiences thus far working as an SP ..
and you've offered some great tips for me to be able to show up for my clients in the best way possible .. fantastic.:cheer2::clap2::cheer2: xoxoxo ~Mariah xoxoxo
I remember seeing an SP where I was treated exactly like the animals in this picture:
This is when she was a well reviewed lady and lined up her customers like Cattle. You can tell that she was clock watching and rushing the session for her next client. I think over time her sessions became so mechanical and she also became burnt out. I know some girls are ambitious in making profit in a short period of time. But this reflects on your service over time, needless to say I lost interest in her as she was my regular.
Remember that all pooners want to be treated as kings,
Treat me like a king and I will treat you like my Queen.
This is when she was a well reviewed lady and lined up her customers like Cattle. You can tell that she was clock watching and rushing the session for her next client. I think over time her sessions became so mechanical and she also became burnt out. I know some girls are ambitious in making profit in a short period of time. But this reflects on your service over time, needless to say I lost interest in her as she was my regular.
Remember that all pooners want to be treated as kings,
Treat me like a king and I will treat you like my Queen.
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That sums it up for me as well. That is why I do dinner dates and over nights. Not sure you can get it in an hour.
The best session I ever had or one of them any way. Is where the women just took me and basiclly f€ucked me or started to molest me right in her entrance hallway. It was my first time my first time with her as well it didn't matter, we just went at it as soon as the door was closed and it was all her doing it not me.
I like it when a women prepares for me, its a nice touch when you know she prepares dresses etc, as opposed to opening a door on some one in a ratty old house coat.
It should be sensual and sexy as opposed to like I said a ratty old house coat, leave no doubt as to why were getting together.
Doesn't have to be much, just the women I see knows me, knows what I like and prepares for me.
I think sex is why were togother right, but my worst sessions were with women who were not sensual or sexy at all. Maybe they were having a bad day or just bored or like I was the fifth guy that day,
It is just there was nothing sensual or sexual about there appearance or attittude.
In my opinion its the worst thing an sp can do. Not even try.
Just lay there with her legs spread and go here this is what you paid for knock yourself out.
Or complain, One women I was with I couldn't even touch them they were just sore down there. Wouldn't let me any where near it.
The best women are just easy there sensual they laugh they tease they joke with a willingness to please you. They know this is about sex and well me not them.
And when you repeat they remember what you like and don't like and do there best to give it to you.
I think that is what makes the best sp's some one who tries to please you. Give you what you want and make you go away with a smile on your face.
As opposed to some one who takes your money and doesn't give a dam if you left happy or not.
I like it when a women prepares for me, its a nice touch when you know she prepares dresses etc, as opposed to opening a door on some one in a ratty old house coat.
It should be sensual and sexy as opposed to like I said a ratty old house coat, leave no doubt as to why were getting together.
Doesn't have to be much, just the women I see knows me, knows what I like and prepares for me.
I think sex is why were togother right, but my worst sessions were with women who were not sensual or sexy at all. Maybe they were having a bad day or just bored or like I was the fifth guy that day,
It is just there was nothing sensual or sexual about there appearance or attittude.
In my opinion its the worst thing an sp can do. Not even try.
Just lay there with her legs spread and go here this is what you paid for knock yourself out.
Or complain, One women I was with I couldn't even touch them they were just sore down there. Wouldn't let me any where near it.
The best women are just easy there sensual they laugh they tease they joke with a willingness to please you. They know this is about sex and well me not them.
And when you repeat they remember what you like and don't like and do there best to give it to you.
I think that is what makes the best sp's some one who tries to please you. Give you what you want and make you go away with a smile on your face.
As opposed to some one who takes your money and doesn't give a dam if you left happy or not.
Got it Give more of what I want and less of what I don't want.
The best SPs for me, the ones I remember, are the ones beyond just the sex. Like going to the movies with one and we paid the guy to show the film we wanted to see for the two of us, how she held my hand I will always remember. Or taking SP to Central Park for a horse drawn carriage at midnight in New York in Sept. and how she put her head on my shoulder. Or going shopping with her in LA and watching her smile and laugh, or going for dinner in that nice little Austrian restaurant in Berlin having give the best come fuck me eyes, Or going to the theater to see Les Misérables in London watching her tear up, Or the sushi place in Istanbul feeling the excitment in her voice as we talked , Or the limo ride to see the Christmas lights in Toronto, her tellng me she loved me and wanted me. Or the looking at houses in Las Vegas having act like my wife. Or having the choir come into the restaurant in Vancouver and sing to her here in Vancouver. Or the many Elimidates and weddings with my favorite SPs dressed in her wedding dress just for me. Each moment is very special.
So many special moments with so many special SPs. Giving me more of what I want is key to each of the SPs success. I want more than just dropping your panties to make it a success. However as 7of9 pointed out I do remember a young lady I saw a few times in Vancouver who was crazy like what he described. I opened the door and she was all over me and we went at it for the full hour. Or the one who love a milk shake after sex. She spent the night and I must have gone to McDonalds 4 or 5 times that night. Last trip I just picked up 4 milk shakes. Memories. Got to love them.
I've only seen a couple escorts, and they were both great experiences. What made it great for me was the connection, the chemistry I developed with them. I was able to converse with them no problem, and we were able to joke around. Obviously that wasn't all we did, but it does the enhance the experience a lot more. For me I'm not just paying for the sex. So if I had to sum it up, a great escort (to me) is someone who can hold a conversation on any kind of topic, and has a great sense of humour.Hey Guys,
So.. call me curious.. I can only operate from my personal experience and feedback from clients so far.. considering I've only been in the biz for a short couple of month's this doesn't go so far... or rather, as far as I'd like when it comes to showing up for an appointment and giving you men what you are most seeking ... and then some
Please do indulge my curiosity.. what matters most? what makes your experience with an escort the most exceptional and memorable ever? .. an inquiring mind wants to know. ~Mariah xo
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Larry Storch
You're welcome and welcome to PERB.
Try to ignore the negative/hostile stuff, it crops up occasionally.
If that's all there is to it then I'm gonna be the most popular SP in town, lol
~Mariah xoI guess she could have put on Justin Bieber instead. It just seemed so weird, she would have no idea suitable music. Most SPs actual can, or play more neutral music.LMAO! I guess Sting was out of the question...?
Didn't you hear? Out of that $250 she has to pay for the condom, mouthwash, and wipes. So its really only $248 profit. To have sex with gross icky smelly men. That don't really deserve the wonderful opportunity she provides.
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