What makes a PSE session worth repeating?
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I enjoy when the provider is intuitive in the sense that she can uncover things that turn you on that you didn't even know would be the case. The creativity and experimentation that she can muster after being with you and observing your reaction. I realize this is pretty abstract but that is the point.
For me it's only worth repeating when they're actually into the 'extras' that they do during PSE sessions, bc then it's like a GFE with a GF that just happens to enjoy being a little (or alot) freaky. If they just tolerate them, do them just bc there's a market segment that wants it but they don't actually like it, then it's a complete turn-off for me.
That's why during my first visit it's almost always a normal GFE session so I can see if there's a connection first and I can pick their brain on some of those things offered in PSE. If they have some things they really like then we can expand on them in future visits and it can become even hotter. So to answer the bonus question, it's GFE sesh for me, but with room to grow if there's mutual chemistry and desire for more.
That's why during my first visit it's almost always a normal GFE session so I can see if there's a connection first and I can pick their brain on some of those things offered in PSE. If they have some things they really like then we can expand on them in future visits and it can become even hotter. So to answer the bonus question, it's GFE sesh for me, but with room to grow if there's mutual chemistry and desire for more.
GFE turns into PSE in large part due to chemistry, at least for me that's what makes it hotter than hell. I want to see the passion in your eyes, feel the urgency and that heat. Repeats for me are all about chemistry and comfort level. It's hottest, when it feels easy, not forced, natural. When it's right, you can't wait to do it again. Toys and kinks can be great additions or they can be part of the problem if it's not comfortable.
I have tried a PSE provider recently with bad results, as there was chemistry and her enthusiasm felt very forced and uncomfortable, even though it was a high service level. I felt relieved when it was over, not exhilarated.
I have tried a PSE provider recently with bad results, as there was chemistry and her enthusiasm felt very forced and uncomfortable, even though it was a high service level. I felt relieved when it was over, not exhilarated.
In simple terms I keep going back because providers who I'm attracted to in terms of age, body and size and who offer PSE are very few in my area. When I find one who meets my physical desires and has low restrictions I will repeat.
I haven’t experience PSE in Canada but did back in another country. The idea is more fun + sexy rather than intimate + caring. Still prefer a GFE just because the idea of being with someone who shows affection and warmth. But I guess for GFE you could also get disappointment if the emotional side there’s mismatch. I also know someone who got a bit too attached and felt emotionally confused with GFE providers
Ya this. chemistry chemistry chemistry. The client obviously has to be good too, but the ability for a SP to let go and fall in the moment. When you dig your teeth into her neck and she makes that moan that turns your cock to granite. Those are what keeps me coming back.
That's why i scoff at people asking questions like "does she dfk" "does she do so and so". They all do when the chemistry is there.
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If I feel you authentically want it, whether it's GFE or PSE, I'm all in over and over. For me, the connection and genuine interest make all the difference. It's not just about the toys or extras; it's about the experience and how well we vibe together. When a provider understands and caters to my kinks, it creates a unique atmosphere that keeps me coming back. Ultimately, it's that authentic engagement that makes either style appealing.
Looks like the named factors are primarily chemistry, authenticity, and mutual joy in exploration 👀 I was wondering if there was much difference in PSE retention, but these same elements are involved regardless of service style.
I'll remind my friend to keep to the core of these things, and relay any other helpful notes 💫
I'm happily surprised at how thoughtful and expressive everyone has been in this thread 🥹 The concepts of these service styles are vague to begin with, but I appreciate you all trying to help out 🙏🩵
I'll remind my friend to keep to the core of these things, and relay any other helpful notes 💫
I'm happily surprised at how thoughtful and expressive everyone has been in this thread 🥹 The concepts of these service styles are vague to begin with, but I appreciate you all trying to help out 🙏🩵
Can’t say I really know the difference as going with the flow of the visit and enjoying the explorations does it for me.
The filthy connection is what gets me going with PSE. It takes away from the transactional feeling you sometimes get. Granted there's of course a price on it but in the moment it's completely overlooked. The fun just makes you completely forget all about it.
Unfortunately, I've had to ban myself from both PSE and GFE. I'll end up catching feelings if I don't.
Unfortunately, I've had to ban myself from both PSE and GFE. I'll end up catching feelings if I don't.
Update:
My friend took all the advice to heart, and has been trying to open up and be more expressive to her clients now! She's very excited because they're telling her that they want to book her again 🙌 Thanks again for your contributions.
Hopefully, this thread will also help any other SPs who may feel stuck in a rut with work sometimes.
My friend took all the advice to heart, and has been trying to open up and be more expressive to her clients now! She's very excited because they're telling her that they want to book her again 🙌 Thanks again for your contributions.
Hopefully, this thread will also help any other SPs who may feel stuck in a rut with work sometimes.
Sorry! She might come to advertise perb on the winter - we'll see 🙏
I’ll parrot other replies-it’s all chemistry. Honestly-I don’t know what you mean by PSE as there’s no universal definition I’ve found. My odeaperfect companion does everything, wants “it” in the moment, and enjoys “it” that moment. What “it” is will vary. All the normal acronyms are on the table but cannot be expected every time. Whatever we’re doing, I want my partner to want to be doing that, and enjoying it. Be a mind reader! Or convince me that’s the case. Making me believe you do enjoy our time together will get me back, regardless of the exact or number of acronyms that happen during a date.
That may very well be an unrealistic expectation but I’ll say I’ve met a couple
Women who were damn close. I’ll also say I’ve met others that were very intuitive and broadened my horizons in the bedroom exponentially. YMMV of course. You get what you give.
That may very well be an unrealistic expectation but I’ll say I’ve met a couple
Women who were damn close. I’ll also say I’ve met others that were very intuitive and broadened my horizons in the bedroom exponentially. YMMV of course. You get what you give.
The deep ass fucking… the rimming, the deep throat … slime spits gaging on cock … face fuck atm atp I could go on..,
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