What makes a GREAT BJ

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vince_chase

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I, like BJHunter, love oral - receiving from beautiful ladies.

Thought i compile some important DOs and definite Don'ts from my point of view:

:)Happy items:

- Deep throating - long and deep
- Eye contact - eyes can be so sensual
- wet and Slurping
- Good suction - not turbo but somewhere in between
- ball licking - some ladies don't do this,but, it is what it is from my point.
- Slaping meat on the face
- COF finish - my fav.

:mad:Bad things

- TEETH biting/sucking - a real no no, watch junior shrink
- too much mechanical head bobbing - might as well jerk off
- too much talking during BJ - distraction
- not taking direction well from the cock owner.

Above are some of my thoughts - what do you gents think?
please pitch in.
 
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chilli

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Actually I'm probably one of the few men who really don't care for deep throat.

Deep throat is more of a visual thing for me rather than an "oh that feels so good thing"

Most women don't even realize that the majority of feeling in a man's penis is the head of the cock.

So although most women give "decent" blow jobs they don't really give "great" blow jobs.

A woman who focuses more on the head of the cock can give a much better blow job, it's easier on her jaw and her muscles, - and it feels much much better for me - a win win for everyone!

But I suppose everyones different, from my conversations with most women - most guys haven't a clue what their doing in the bedroom either.
 
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eye contact is a most, seductive stare plus dirty talk make it even better! Wouldn't mind some ball massaging at the same time as well:)
 
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mimi

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Deep throat has become difficult for me as I age.....but, I always liked tongue play over the frenum...and nibbling along the shaft down to the base while stroking the head between thumb and forefinger...I know men who ask for teeth..different strokes eh? Surprised me as young gals were warned back in the 70's "no teeth"...the teeth are clamped down squeezing the penis almost in half...and sometimes very lightly across the head, very lightly with lots of lube...

I am embarrassed to make eye contact with a cock in my mouth as I imagine my face all stretched out of proportion must look comical and I am horribly vain!
 
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chuckanut

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the after cim blow is personally my fav.

-chuck
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nicholasp

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It's all so individual. So personally speaking (and BJ is my favourite activity)
To be GREAT it must be BBBJ
Tongue swirl around the head a few times, then DEEP and HOLD IT!
Fingertips tickling the balls & further back
Play, play, play, tongue, lips, take it out, admire, lick, praise shape, size, length (note bigger not better. How do you swirl if your mouth is overfull?)
Close to finale, rhythm is important, degree of suction too. A good BJ provider will listen & respond.
Go deep for the initial spurt, then slow, NEVER stop, until the client begs you to (too much pleasure = pain?)
Withdraw but return to lick up the last drop & if you're REALLY good, give a few more, very gentle sucks down he whole length.

THAT is a GREAT BJ!

Any questions?
 
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Fun BBBJ Game

luv 2 lick pussy said:
I agree 100% with this but for me....I'd like to add that some fast hand strokes ....porn style ..adds to the intensity and keeps the blood flowing full force down there.

But Rythm is the key.

Here's an example....the last 4 minutes or so rock...especially when the fast handjob kicks in

So which lady here offers this style session?? :D:)....Not specifically " glory hole" ...more the service

http://www.xvideos.com/video274645/glory_savannah_stern_teaches_blowjob
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Fun game - arrive showered etc at provider's incall. Get to know each other etc but stay dressed. At certain point blindfold provider & place her in your preferred BBBJ position - mine is on knees. Then strip, quickly. When naked ask her to open her mouth & extend her tongue as far as possible. Insert cock, very slowly, as deep as she can take it. Proceed to follow whatever your "best BBBJ" format may be. I am told that the sensation of feeling/tasting a cock that your provider has never seen can be a great turn-on for her. Equally to 'introduce' your cock to someone for the first time like this, I have found to be very exciting. After a few minutes activity, allow her to feel, massage your member & explore. The moment you untie her blindfold is also fun - "Hmmm! So that's what I've been sucking looks like!"
It's a variation on the 'glory hole' but somehow more 'tasteful'!
 
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HubbaHubba

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Oh I did, Hubba, I did! The boys in SK looked after me quite well thanks!



Now don't be starting any rumors that aren't true, there HB40 (the suppository part) or I will hunt you down and show you all about taking it up the butt with my strap on!
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you won't have to hunt him down BA.....if you promise HB40 a good strap on session, he will give you his exact addy. Hell, he's probably on his way to see you as we speak;)
 
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nicholasp said:
Fun game - arrive showered etc at provider's incall. Get to know each other etc but stay dressed. At certain point blindfold provider & place her in your preferred BBBJ position - mine is on knees. Then strip, quickly. When naked ask her to open her mouth & extend her tongue as far as possible. Insert cock, very slowly, as deep as she can take it. Proceed to follow whatever your "best BBBJ" format may be. I am told that the sensation of feeling/tasting a cock that your provider has never seen can be a great turn-on for her. Equally to 'introduce' your cock to someone for the first time like this, I have found to be very exciting. After a few minutes activity, allow her to feel, massage your member & explore. The moment you untie her blindfold is also fun - "Hmmm! So that's what I've been sucking looks like!"
It's a variation on the 'glory hole' but somehow more 'tasteful'!
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luv 2 lick pussy said:
Hmmmm.....where are you located?? ;):D:D
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nicholasp said:
Not in Van or Vic.
Why do you ask?
Are you an SP?
Interested?
I've driven some distance for a regular, fun connection.
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You two guys have fun now.

You are both guys right?
 
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HB40

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Beautiful_Anna said:
Now don't be starting any rumors that aren't true, there HB40 (the suppository part) or I will hunt you down and show you all about taking it up the butt with my strap on!
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LMAO! :D

Now don't you be getting my hopes up! :p

Besides, I couldn't say you take it orally....where is the mystery in that!?! :)
 
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