What made you see your first escort?

[PlayfulAlex]

That's an extremly jaded pov (or sneaky sneaky marketing lol).

Both have their merits depending on what you're looking for.

Haha...no marketing intended...ask anyone how they're enjoying the dating world, and they'll back my comment up! Or maybe I misunderstood the post. Maybe Larry was saying that the reality of knowing it's just a game (being with an SP) is pushing up against the fantasy that she is really enjoying your time together.

 

[yazoo]

Haha...no marketing intended...ask anyone how they're enjoying the dating world, and they'll back my comment up! Or maybe I misunderstood the post. Maybe Larry was saying that the reality of knowing it's just a game (being with an SP) is pushing up against the fantasy that she is really enjoying your time together.

I have made one really good friend from the business. She's retired now but we still stay in touch. So for me the fantasy is that lightning will strike twice.

For me, I got started, and met my friend above, after researching for a trip to Hong Kong. One click on a sexy ad led me to a whole new world with sites like sex141.com and 909z.com. I spent weeks learning all the locations, new phrases like 'poison dragon drill' and such and plotting my itinerary. Before, my impression of the industry was skanky streetwalkers. Now I saw hot women, read reports online and realized that the pics weren't all fake, so took the plunge. And never looked back.

And now back in Vancouver I found that I can get out of a mundane life whenever I want. I don't so much anymore, but just the knowledge that I can is freedom.

 

[Dgodus]

Haha...no marketing intended...ask anyone how they're enjoying the dating world, and they'll back my comment up! Or maybe I misunderstood the post. Maybe Larry was saying that the reality of knowing it's just a game (being with an SP) is pushing up against the fantasy that she is really enjoying your time together.

Haha, I meant no offense by what I said. It was mostly tongue in cheek, and I'm in no way against seeing escorts (obviously I love it!). It's simply people who are dating are generally seeking something which is not offered in this industry (and you'd be a fool to look for it here). Finding what you're looking for in dating is also significantly harder than finding what you're looking for in an escort so many do become frustrated with dating. Both have their merits and one will be better suited for each individual depending on what they're looking for (or a mixture of both /shrug)

Suppose I should answer the question, since I've posted twice in the thread now.

I always said I'd have no issue against paying for an escort, but newspaper classifieds did nothing but appear tacky and make me laugh at them. Then one day, on nothing more than a passing thought of "I bet this stuff is on the net" I decided to look online and my interest was genuinly peaked. But if it wasn't for my friend needing me to drive him to the airport in Regina I might not have arranged some time with an escort for the next morning (I went to a Riders game the night before after dropping him off). It wasn't fantastic, but it wasn't bad at all, just some good sex. However I generally try everything twice and a couple months down the road the 2nd time was an absolute revelation lol!

 

[AA_Train]

So, the poll. If it wasn't for ________, I would not have seen my first escort.

Curiosity. I guess i had heard so many sob stories about streetwalkers and on the flip side, had heard of the exploits of the high-end call girls and I wanted to see what the real experience would be like. Plus, i was going through a bit of a slump at the time and had some money to burn and decided to give it a try, so I took the plunge and for the most part, my adventures have been rousing successes

 

[jesuschrist]

A broken heart. I was 30, she was 20.... she left for England permanently, after a year of dating. 2 months later my friend says that I haven't been looking after myself, that I needed a haircut from this one hairdresser. He said it was a special haircut, and it was going to cost me $100. I never had a haircut that cost me that much, he says, "trust me, just pay her the money and you're going to get the best haircut ever".

So I arrived at her place. She's this blonde lady, dressed normally except top is a bit low cut but nothing too unusual. I pay her $100. She gets out the clippers and starts cutting. When drying my hair, she gets really close, pressing her boobs on my face. Next thing she does is unzip my pants and starts playing with it. Then she sucks it. Then she takes off all her clothes and mounts me, no condom. 5 minutes later I was done.

Saw her for the next year every two to three weeks in the same way until I got over my girlfriend. I never had sex with an escort like I did with her, she was my like my temporary girlfriend, each time the sex got better and better. Then I moved to Vancouver and didn't do anything like that for 3 years since there were suddenly all these girls I met in the "big" city. Another heartbreak and then once again I saw an escort. This time I was "hooked".

 

[yazoo]

A broken heart. I was 30, she was 20.... ... I never had a haircut that cost me that much, he says, "trust me, just pay her the money and you're going to get the best haircut ever".

She gets out the clippers and starts cutting. When drying my hair, she gets really close, pressing her boobs on my face. Next thing she does is unzip my pants and starts playing with it.
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Great story. I wish I had a friend like that after breakups I had.

And getting haircuts from women is so erotic. A friend's girlfriend was going through hairdressing school and I volunteered to be a victim. Now this girl was no supermodel, very plain with a bit of a weight problem, but sitting on the chair in her kitchen, with her frequent but deniably inadvertant breast and leg touches, I was rock hard.

 

[Dickson]

I was 22 and needed to lose my V card

Me too! Although I was older than 22 at the time. Never had time for GF and never found anyone interested in me. I just worked all the time. Then discovered you did not have to work for it you could just pay for it. I was hooked. Did not need to invest in relationships. They were just too much work with terrible results. Been paying ever since.

 

[james1944]

For me, basically a broken heart as well. There were a few girls in my life that I was really interested in, I tried my best, but always failed. They were just not interested in me. I grew up in a religious family, so the thot about seeing a SP never even crossed my mind. However, one day, I was watching the movie Benjamin Button and there was a line that just stuck out for me. There's a scence where pitt's character goes to see a SP and he says something along the lines: it's amazing what a day's work can buy you, things I have never even imagined before. After that, I was like screw it. I gotta know what it's like to experience making love to a beautiful woman, I don't care if I have to pay for it. I wanna know what's it like to be human.

Anyways, I looked around CL and took the plunge. My first couple experiences were kind of so-so because I didn't know what I was doing and the women didn't blow me away Ls dept; however, they gave me great service, so I coudn't complain. I took about a year off from it, then decided to try again. I did my research this time and started reading on PERB and found a couple great SPs. Boy, the first one was a blonde and although she was no supermodel, she was still quite attractive with an amazing body. What she did to me, it blew my mind, I felt like I was in a porno. I had to go see her again a week later. After that, I have been budgeting myself to go about once/month. How long I'll stay in the hobby, I don't know. Even though I know I can live with out it, right now it gives me satisfaction and comfort that I couldn't seem to find anywhere else. I basically go just to treat myself.

 

[sevenofnine]

I wasn't having sex for a long time with my wife, and I mean along time.
I had two kids and I was just miserable a lot of tension I was looking for somthing,
I also had some personal issues from my child hood not resolved, I had looked into therapy, but it didn't feel right,

Any way I was drunk. I would find a seedy bar and just sit and get drunk,
I was coming home waiting for the train standing on the platform just really fucking drunk.
Some big big black guy comes up to me, enters into a conversation, I was to drunk to really respond but he talks.
Finally he just grabs me and kisses me.
Fuck all I could think of is Im going to die one day and the last person to kiss me is this big ugly black man.
I saw my first escort shortly after,

 

[cjac7214]

I was horny.

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

My dick....HeMadeMeDoIt! We have a relationship whereby he controls a lot of the decision making process!

 

[blazejowski]

A broken heart. I was 30, she was 20.... she left for England permanently, after a year of dating. 2 months later my friend says that I haven't been looking after myself, that I needed a haircut from this one hairdresser. He said it was a special haircut, and it was going to cost me $100. I never had a haircut that cost me that much, he says, "trust me, just pay her the money and you're going to get the best haircut ever".

So I arrived at her place. She's this blonde lady, dressed normally except top is a bit low cut but nothing too unusual. I pay her $100. She gets out the clippers and starts cutting. When drying my hair, she gets really close, pressing her boobs on my face. Next thing she does is unzip my pants and starts playing with it. Then she sucks it. Then she takes off all her clothes and mounts me, no condom. 5 minutes later I was done.

Saw her for the next year every two to three weeks in the same way until I got over my girlfriend. I never had sex with an escort like I did with her, she was my like my temporary girlfriend, each time the sex got better and better. Then I moved to Vancouver and didn't do anything like that for 3 years since there were suddenly all these girls I met in the "big" city. Another heartbreak and then once again I saw an escort. This time I was "hooked".

Great story - but you fucked her bareback??

 

[bigfred]

When menopause came into my life.....

 

[Larry Storch]

Haha...no marketing intended...ask anyone how they're enjoying the dating world, and they'll back my comment up! Or maybe I misunderstood the post. Maybe Larry was saying that the reality of knowing it's just a game (being with an SP) is pushing up against the fantasy that she is really enjoying your time together.

[offtopic] Something like that. It gets a little sad knowing that the only reason I am with the SP is because of money. Obviously I don't have a problem with the whole pooner/SP relationship, but having to pay someone just to spend time with me with or without sex is kind of depressing and really screws with my self confidence. Lately it isn't something that appeals. [/offtopic]

 

[foxontherun]

I probably have a bit of a different background than others on this forum; I'm pansexual with a long, and long-distance, open same-sex relationship. That's all well and good except for when I'm more interested in women, which happens fairly often recently; my luck with the ladies is a bit thin, especially when trying to find one within the circles I run in.

Under a different username I've been a member here for years (just changed it as I realized it might be too easy to link to me RL - only had a couple of posts anyhow, bit of a lurker - sorry) and always fantasized about breaking my long dry spell but never had the funding for it. Earlier this year I finally had the opportunity to do something about that, made my first call and had a very conflicted hour with a nice but unenthusiastic lady. I've had better times in my limited visits since then. It's certainly been good to break that dry spell and helped my confidence; wound up dating for a while but may dip back into the market again soon.

 

[joe45]

hard time getting a girl for sex and dating and girls cost money . so i just try escprts. easier and faster

 

[dchoye]

My buddy Rob
Visited him in TO and he introduced me to the world of AMP
Had a great time ever since

 

[george.caruthers]

The need for sex. That was easy.

 

[DavidMR]

Hard time getting a girl in bed and I really wanted to try GREEK :eyebrows:

Good summary. I concur.

 

[IamaGeek]

Married for over 30 years. Very satisfying relationship for 24 of those years. Illness meant that the physical side dwindled away to nothing at about 27 years. After 3 years of celibacy I was miserable and was miserable to be around. Eventually I figured out that I wasn't the one who was ill and that needing sex was not selfish. I saw my first provider while on a long business trip. She was mature but beautiful and we both knew exactly why we were there. We had fun, we had sex, we laughed and had a good time . . . and then we went our separate ways until the next time. It was a revelation. No strings, no regrets, no problems. I have seen a few more since then and I am a better person for it. Eventually I had the discussion with my wife where this all came out. She was not happy but understands that the relationship had already changed. In the end we have accepted where we are and what our different needs are. We still care for each other and will remain together. I am just discreet about meeting my needs. This has saved my life and would not be possible without SPs. Thank you to the wonderful women I have met (and to those I might yet meet).