What kind of tip would you leave when you overstay your booking by 2 hours?

[mrob]

So recently I went to see an escort for an hour, brought the $300 and an extra $40 for a tip. We definitely had a great time, cause when it was done over 3 hours had passed. I thought I had stayed a little past my time, but I was floored when I saw how long I'd been there. Throughout the date the escort never once mentioned the time and I really had no intention of staying that long. At the end I didn't really know what she expected - if I owed her $600, if she was going to feel ripped off with the measly $40 tip I gave her, etc. I said I could run to the bank and get her money but she was very nice about it and just said bring a nice tip the next time you see me. Thinking back, before the date I may have just said that I wanted to see her and not specifically that it was for 1 hour, but surely the $300 in the envelope implied my intentions, no?

My question to you guys is what do you feel is a reasonable tip? Does she expect $600 from me?

 

[badbadboy]

:doh::eyebrows:


I'm speechless. How the hell do both of you go two hours past a 60 minute date "unnoticed" ?

There must be something more to the story because this is quite strange.

 

[beginner]

:doh::eyebrows:


I'm speechless. How the hell do both of you go two hours past a 60 minute date "unnoticed" ?

There must be something more to the story because this is quite strange.

I'm going to let you in on something my friend, this is the PERB lounge, everything is strange. You, north of 4000 posts, have to know this by now.

 

[steverino]

It is the ladies business and her responsibility to manage the time. You paid her upfront, as is the industry custom, and when your hour was up she should let you know and see if you would like to purchase more time. Given how generous she was with her time a healthy tip seems appropriate but she should not expect you to pay the $600.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

i'd be asking mod to check op's ip address... :nod:

 

[mrob]

Hey guys, I know it's strange! The "more to the story" bit is that we both liked each other and some light party favours were involved (Here come the preachers and moralists.....). Haha this is awesome, you guys don't even believe my story! Has this not happened to anyone else? Thing is, I wouldn't mind seeing her again and I know it's her responsibility to manage her time but I still feel like her time is worth something, plus I had a FANTASTIC time. Does anyone with a serious opinion think $300 is excessive/cheap?

 

[vancity_cowboy]

are you adding in the cost of the 'party favours' to your donation?

 

[felixthecat]

i'd be asking mod to check op's ip address... :nod:

I see that great wisdom comes after 5k posts, which may be unattainable after just 4k posts or so.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

I see that great wisdom comes after 5k posts, which may be unattainable after just 4k posts or so.

after a feed of campfire beans and the accompanying colonic explosions, the favourite quote is, 'speak again oh wise one, while thy lips are yet moist!'

 

[mrob]

Note to self - don't bother looking for advice from perb

 

[PuntMeister]

Punt looks at it this way.... Respect your enjoyment and her generosity with what you feel is right for the situation. We weren't there. We have no right to judge. If you were sincere in your contribution and she was sincere in her relaxed acceptance of your company, then all is well and you can probably repeat. Social time is YMMV for sure, as are the donations. But if it seems worthwhile for both of you then I shall happy dance in your general direction. I love it when it is more about heart math than purse math.

-Punt.

 

[badbadboy]

Hey guys, I know it's strange! The "more to the story" bit is that we both liked each other and some light party favours were involved (Here come the preachers and moralists.....). Haha this is awesome, you guys don't even believe my story! Has this not happened to anyone else? Thing is, I wouldn't mind seeing her again and I know it's her responsibility to manage her time but I still feel like her time is worth something, plus I had a FANTASTIC time. Does anyone with a serious opinion think $300 is excessive/cheap?

Note to self - don't bother looking for advice from perb

Okay, okay, okay; I believe you only if you PM me her deets so I can investigate further :nod:

 

[Vitargo]

Okay, okay, okay; I believe you only if you PM me her deets so I can investigate further :nod:

Yes then forward them to me


This has actually happened to me before. I booked for an hour arrived popped some bubbly started chatting for a bit then she said "lets chill tonight," I replied "did you have anymore bookings tonight?" She replied "nope nothing." So prob spent an hr chatting,drinking cuddling etc before the actual deed( which was about 45min). After I was done I gave her a little more than the hr rate and she replied "why would you give me more?" Then stayed for a little while longer and layer in bed for awhile. We had a good connection and in this situation was kind of clear to me as she asked ME to stay and chill that I didn't have to paay for hrs of her time

 

[badbadboy]

Why is it so unbelievable? They likely both knew that their time was going over, I think he was just surprised how long they had actually gone over. I have had appointments like that and not even and party favours... isn't about just having sex the whole time.... nice cuddling and great conversation go a long way with some nice playtime too.... particularly if it is later in the day when she doesn't have to necessarily worry about getting other business during her day, she may be open to that, and both just relax and enjoy...

You are correct. I recollect seeing an SP about five years ago and a similar thing happen where I had booked for 90 minutes and ended up staying nearly 3 hours. We were not doing party favours but it was our first date which was going quite well. The difference being we both knew we were into OT and decided to settle up sometime in the future. IIRC we said about two sentences about the OT and just kept going.

She did take a break to call her security at the 90 minute mark.

I repeated with her numerous times and made up the difference for going into OT.

So my apologies to the OP. All I suggest is you see her again and make up the difference that she is happy with receiving.

 

[morementum]

So recently I went to see an escort for an hour, brought the $300 and an extra $40 for a tip. We definitely had a great time, cause when it was done over 3 hours had passed. I thought I had stayed a little past my time, but I was floored when I saw how long I'd been there. Throughout the date the escort never once mentioned the time and I really had no intention of staying that long. At the end I didn't really know what she expected - if I owed her $600, if she was going to feel ripped off with the measly $40 tip I gave her, etc. I said I could run to the bank and get her money but she was very nice about it and just said bring a nice tip the next time you see me. Thinking back, before the date I may have just said that I wanted to see her and not specifically that it was for 1 hour, but surely the $300 in the envelope implied my intentions, no?

My question to you guys is what do you feel is a reasonable tip? Does she expect $600 from me?

$40 is not a measly tip. $340 for three hours is just under $120 per hour which while not brilliant, is not bad. If someone averaged $340 a day for just the working days (five days a week) per year with a couple of weeks of vacation, that is still a reasonable $85,000 that may or may not come with a tax burden.

I know what you are fishing for and know that your IP is likely very much aligned with someone who has no male parts but not going to take your bait. Have fun getting bigger tips!

 

[morementum]

Now that's an interesting concept.... wouldn't have thought of that one lol.

Someone had to lighten this one up a bit - will say you seem to be one of the VERY few on these boards who gets tongue-in-cheek and isn't hitting the "report" button every second post. I swear a lot the members on this board need to get laid - ironic isn't it!

 

[summerbreeze]

how to reward an act of friendship and generosity...........

by showing your friendship with an equal sense of generosity

no doubt there will come a time when she will need a friend for help, moving something, fixing something, taken out for a celebration dinner...........

why not let her know that as a friend she can always count on you for assistance when in need..........

somehow putting commercial value on friendship belittles the value

 

[marsvolta]

i kept seeing this korean girl i liked. then one time i paid her for the hour up front and she ended up moving in with me for the few weeks left on her visa. i've just calculated that i owe her $201,600!

 

[newatit]

I will vote with those who say it was up to her to end the appointment. She obviously had no other dates after you. So did she just like you or did she play this out hoping to have scored a winner on a boring day.

 

[sevenofnine]

god some of you guys are a hard case.

its getting so people are afraid to make a post around here.


and I don't think you owe her anything but a return visit, while being more aware of the clock and a generous tip as well, what you can afford and think is reasonable.

she has a responsibility to be aware of the time as well and keep things moving, even you moving out the door if it comes to that.

it could be she had nothing pressing and was lonely and enjoyed your company,

It is not uncommon for me anyway for a lady to ask me to stay, or lets go get something to eat or she offers me more drinks one for the road as it were.

why is it such a big deal.

girls do sometimes enjoy company.