what is too young to poon?
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Hey textbook, let me make this brief. I'm around the same age as you, and I've had the same dilemna with girls too when I was younger. If you don't want girls to treat you as a younger brother, you ought to change yourself. And since you have such strong sexual desires, you can channel that into being more hot blooded.
Personally, I used to be a shy, lanky 130 pound "boy"; now I am 6"0, 180 pound man who exudes sexuality and confidence. It has actually improved every facet of my life (e.g. job prospects, networking, friendships, and even grades). Consequently, knowing how to talk yourself into a woman's pants didn't work as well before as it does now. So if I were you, I'd hit the gym, get a more masculine haircut (this helps immediately), and read some PUA books/forums. Did I tell you I am Asian as well (although mixed, and don't dress/come off as either a fob or cbc).
Now, to answer you question, I think pooning would definetly helping your cause. You're probably not 100% as productive or efficient as you could be studying, while you are addictively pondering of sex. It is definetly difficult finding a good sp for your situation. PM me and I'll recommend you a few.
Personally, I used to be a shy, lanky 130 pound "boy"; now I am 6"0, 180 pound man who exudes sexuality and confidence. It has actually improved every facet of my life (e.g. job prospects, networking, friendships, and even grades). Consequently, knowing how to talk yourself into a woman's pants didn't work as well before as it does now. So if I were you, I'd hit the gym, get a more masculine haircut (this helps immediately), and read some PUA books/forums. Did I tell you I am Asian as well (although mixed, and don't dress/come off as either a fob or cbc).
Now, to answer you question, I think pooning would definetly helping your cause. You're probably not 100% as productive or efficient as you could be studying, while you are addictively pondering of sex. It is definetly difficult finding a good sp for your situation. PM me and I'll recommend you a few.
That's almost exactly like my story, except I'm not Asian.
I did, however, give up the PUA stuff when I got into a serious relationship a few months back. But I seem to have given up more than that... might go back to the free life. Also why I'm here, don't feel ready to settle down and want to see if I will break my faithfulness as a sort of test.
To the OP, check out especially Swinggcat's stuff. Also, there's an active community in Vancouver if you need wings (not as good as in the good old days of 2003, but much larger).
I did, however, give up the PUA stuff when I got into a serious relationship a few months back. But I seem to have given up more than that... might go back to the free life. Also why I'm here, don't feel ready to settle down and want to see if I will break my faithfulness as a sort of test.
To the OP, check out especially Swinggcat's stuff. Also, there's an active community in Vancouver if you need wings (not as good as in the good old days of 2003, but much larger).
Thanks for all the suggestions guys. It really helpful. Before I came to this forum. Pooners always had a negative sigma in my mind. I used to think of them as irreponsible men that downgrades themselves and sleep with prostitute. But you guys all came about as very intellgent, helpful and kind. I realized that we are all normal human beings. I think pooners are great, because we choose to deal with our desire in a safe and responsible way. Both parties are willing, There are not string attached. Its about getting the job done. I think if men knows how to go to prostitues to deal with their desires, there will a lot less rapes, molestation and all that.
i came to realize, sex isnt a choice. We are born to have this desire and its completely normal to have that. It is something that is natural and is a need that applies for everyone. Like having food, its a need. I have been hungry for a long time now. Sure, I would like to have a nice dinner with food that I really enjoy. But for now, im starving, im have no choice, if I dont eat ill die.
The question is not about saving up my viginity for someone special. There is something urgent that has to be dealt with now. I dont think i can wait any longer.
hey streetkid, i pmed you about some recommendation
thanks
i came to realize, sex isnt a choice. We are born to have this desire and its completely normal to have that. It is something that is natural and is a need that applies for everyone. Like having food, its a need. I have been hungry for a long time now. Sure, I would like to have a nice dinner with food that I really enjoy. But for now, im starving, im have no choice, if I dont eat ill die.
The question is not about saving up my viginity for someone special. There is something urgent that has to be dealt with now. I dont think i can wait any longer.
hey streetkid, i pmed you about some recommendation
thanks
i chickened out. I called, I went there. Saw the girl. She was cute. I stood there for a while looking at her. And she was like "hurry, im fully booked". I kinda feel pressured and feel a little nausea. but I said no, and ran away.
Do it like you're supposed to, develop normally. Find a girl you like, have a relationship, have sex if all is good. Buying it before you know anything about yourself through relationships will make you twisted. Save your innocence, you'll only have it once, like your youth. There's plenty of time to buy sex in the future, there will always be that available. The right way is the straight and narrow, that's why it's harder, but it's worth it. Do it the right way, or at least give it your very best.
Besides, think of all the money you'd save.
Besides, think of all the money you'd save.
Hey textbook, I just started to see SP's last week and had a bad first experience and I was nervous as hell. Sounds like you picked the wrong one as well. She should have not pressured you to rush. How much time did you book with her? If you decide to give it another try, it does get much better if you find the right girl...I know this because I've seen 3 in the last week and tomorrow will be 4 What can you say...I have an addictive personality . I'll be posting my experience and reviews in a couple of days. I remember a long time ago when I lost my V...I was drunk and it wasn't that special at all (but that's just me). If I knew about the SP's that I've met in the past week when I was a virgin...I would have paid the bucks and lost it to one of them because they are so much more fun (in my opinion). This hobby does take a toll on the wallet...just warning you
What can you say...I have an addictive personality . I'll be posting my experience and reviews in a couple of days. I remember a long time ago when I lost my V...I was drunk and it wasn't that special at all (but that's just me). If I knew about the SP's that I've met in the past week when I was a virgin...I would have paid the bucks and lost it to one of them because they are so much more fun (in my opinion). This hobby does take a toll on the wallet...just warning you Hahaha...I hope you didn't pay for this encounter.
BTW, textbook...I forgot the mention I met this smoking hot SP last week that really likes asians (like me). I think it's because we don't have that much hair and she kept petting my arms and legs...lol She's also really nice to talk to...PM me and I could give you the info if you like to get back on the horse.
i lost it guys. I lost it.. I went to a massage place, just wanna get a massage or a hj. And she was like do you want to fuk me. I was like okay..
and its gone.
The experience was okay. She was very nice. In her late 20s I would i guess. Well. After I feel nothing. Nothing really happen. It wasnt good or anything. I felt nothing.
and its gone.
The experience was okay. She was very nice. In her late 20s I would i guess. Well. After I feel nothing. Nothing really happen. It wasnt good or anything. I felt nothing.
heres my experience.
This place was located in one of BUSIEST mall in vancouver. Im kinda surprised they had a place there and does illegal stuff. I always have a hard time trying to find a parking spot there. And its also where I go for all my tutoring academically. She said they have both female and male customers, but they mostly have male, she told me that there are a lot of single males and just want to pay for a happy time. So in my head, i was think "this is where I should be".
Fast forward the main story. I walked in and saw this girlgirl-san. She was young. Not very fuckable though. I told her I just wanted a massage and nothing else. and it is 40$ per 30 minutes with a 20$ tip. The total comes to 60$ She told me to go into the room and strip myself.
I was inside there. This older lady came in. She was decent, fukable lady, in her late 20s. I said I just wanted a massage. She kept asking me if I masterbate at home. I was like "of course, im a guy". She kept going and going about sexual stuff and ask if i ever gotten a hj or bj before. Then she said, "Ill give you full service, we dont allow it here but for you ill do it" I was thinking in my head, "i bet you ask this for all your customers". So i was like, "whatever, ill do it"
She showed me her atonomy. It was shaved. And She let me digit her pussy. It was super wet already. It feel like my fingers are between two raw meat. I like to feel her pussy. It feels funny.
She guided my hands and I touched her boobs. It felt very weird. It really awkward. It like a weird lump of meat.
She taught me how if im going to fuk my girlfriend in the future. I must make her wet first, or it going to hurt for her. She also taught me a whole bunch of things. I was too nervous to remember.
Anyways to the CBJ. Which I did not enjoy. It feel nothing. But i like how she is playing it safe here by using a condom +++. I dont want any STD or HIV. For the whole time, i was feeling her boobs and touch her pussy. Her boobs feels nice and nice, firm, perky for her age, me thinks. Feeling her pussy was a funny feeling. But I wouldnt call it sexually arousing. I smell the juice on my fingers. And it smell nothing. I was expecting to have some kind of odour, but it didnt not. Hopefully its a sign that she is somewhat clean.
Next she mounted me from the top. We kissed. She start going. I felt her up and we continued kissing. I then went on top and start pounding. The massage bed is a little too small/narrow and I had a lot of trouble finding place to place my knees while im in my missionary position. It was really tough physically to fuk her in this position. I hugged her tightly kissing her in the neck and her lips. It felt more like hugging my mom. It felt warm and safe.
I kissed her some more. She doesnt have bad breathe which is great. After about 15 minutes or so. I was so tired And I wasnt able to cum. My dick is still really hard though, but It felt really numb from all the fuking.
She finished it off by jacking me off. She removed the condom and start hacking away. I dont know if she is experience or not. But the HJ doesnt feel that good either. She kept on stimulating the top and its too sensitive and it kinda hurt. At the same time, i was feeling her up and everything. And her pussy is still really really wet. Around 5 minutes or so. I had a huge load and shot everywhere, including the floor and on the wall.
The whole session lasted for liek an hour minutes. The damage was $60. My conclusion is I wont go pooning ever again. It doesnt feel much arousing. It is a great experience to do all that and see whats it's like. I think im lacking the emotional connection which makes this all great.
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Dude...it sounds like a really cold experience. I totally have to connect to a woman...that's why I book at least an hour and tell them it may go for two. My last two SP's I really connected with them. There was lots of talking which costed me $$$$$, but hell the passion afterwards was so worth the cash. I do a lot of research before booking someone.
Also, 60 bucks...you get what you pay for...
Also, 60 bucks...you get what you pay for...
I would suggest an independent lady. Maybe make a connection through the board here. Explain your situation and experience. Book at least an hour. Time to communicate and take it slow.
A good provider will "show you the ropes" and you should come away very satisfied.
A massage parlor is a "wham bam" place. Not the best place to get orientented to the task at hand.
A good provider will "show you the ropes" and you should come away very satisfied.
A massage parlor is a "wham bam" place. Not the best place to get orientented to the task at hand.
$60 for an hour of FS is extremely cheap. What a way to lose your virginity.
I guess when you were asking for advice someone should have mentioned, not to get the cheapest possible girl in town.
i only asked for a massage in the beginining and it was 60$. Then she asked if I wanted to fuk. And she didnt ask for more.
Good post above from Uncle C ^^^^ I think most if not all of us can relate to this at some point. I'm still fairly young, but I do question my own involvement in this hobby a lot. Not only in terms of money spent, but how it will affect my future self...I've already started to notice I'm not all that interested in dating anymore cause why go to the hassle when I can pay and get what I want from a pro.
Damn dude, 60 bones is a pretty good price, no matter how mechanical it was.
BTW, good show lasting 15 minutes...I can only dream of 15 minutes.
Damn dude, 60 bones is a pretty good price, no matter how mechanical it was.
BTW, good show lasting 15 minutes...I can only dream of 15 minutes.
