What is the main reason men buy escorts?

[fosho14]

How old is the average majority age of men who request these services. I am fairly young and the reason I'm thinking of doing this is because the girls I have attracted (naturally not paying) in the past have never been as attractive as I'd have liked them to be. I have seen a couple beautiful girls on the carman fox site, and feel like it would be a spectacular experience to bed one of those models, as I have never slept with a girl as hot as that. Being completely new to this scene or even concept rather (had no idea prostitution was this regulated and prevalent in Vancouver) I would have to say that I'm a bit disgusted at the amount of fat, ugly... disturbing looking women in general there are out there that actually have the nerve to charge people money!? for sexual favours???

Like I said I'm completely new to this so just bear with me, but it just strikes me as rather bizarre. Are most of the men that pay for sex and scour these boards for reviews, just genuinely unattractive unappealing men who have no chance at ever getting laid? I swear to god, I've already come across a handful of these "SP's" who if anything should be paying ME for a "service" or at least be labelled "free". If your a middle aged hag or chunky warthog, looking to actually get inside OTHER ppl's pockets, I think its time to find a new career or dust off the old resume and start looking to carve out a new life for yourself.
Pretty sad to think theres guys out there, who actually pay for that shit, how pathetic and embarrassing...not to mention the fact that your running the risk of catching a serious incurable disease.
I'm not at all saying there all like that and there are def some higher priced higher quality ladies out there, but ya, way too much low grade bullshit.

So why are the newspapers full of ads, and the internet packed with vancouver listings of escorts? I know I'm gonna hit a nerve when I say this but it's a little bit embarrassing for us guys to be paying for sex don't you think? I mean are we really just a bunch of boring losers with no social skills or enough charisma to attract women with charm and skill?
I can see 1 time splurging on a 500 dollar bombshell escort because you have the money and you feel like having a night, but doing this on a regular basis? I mean don't tell me you guys don't feel weird or guilty about that.
And btw i'm looking for edgy thought provoking responses not mindless hate. I don't care that you guys are doing it, I'm just wondering WHY? I'm sure theres a wide variety of reasons. I'd love to know what those reasons are...

 

[Umbras]

Seriously you started a new thread just after hijacking this one?

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...r-of-service-and-ejaculate-in-20-min.../page2

Fuck off troll.

 

[Aeiyah]

Ford discontinued their Escort line about 10 years ago.

 

[Miss*Bijou]

shockley, nice move deleting your comment. Too bad I saw it before you deleted it because it absolutely confirmed what i was pretty sure of already, that you're hunsperger.

don't expect to be here for much longer, you POS troll.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

fosho an undercover abolitionist

 

[jamesvancouver]

cuz northamerican girlfriends are bitchy, complicated and high-maintenance. the younger the worse......unrealistic expectations (hollywood cough cough)

 

[Umbras]

I replied with a serious post on the other thread then fuckhead started another thread here with an addition not 9 min later confirming my suspicions.

 

[shockley]

shockley, nice move deleting your comment. Too bad I saw it before you deleted it because it absolutely confirmed what i was pretty sure of already, that you're hunsperger.

don't expect to be here for much longer, you POS troll.

Remember what Einstein said, "this signifies nothing, the distinction between the past, present and future is only an illusion."

 

[Pirate Code]

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[MacKenzie Monroe]

Yay Angie!

I thinks you best lurk around some more here before you start blabbing on your views on the women that "sell sex" here. We do not sell sex we provide a service from companionship to yes sex and domination. Maybe one of the ladies in that part of the field should get a hold of you. as for the men on the boards as the ladies we come from all walks of life. We are all human, loos are just a cover my friend when you grow up you will hopefully learn that. The men here (most are beautiful people and I for one have yet to meet a nasty one nasty on the boards yes. But the men who come to me are drop dead gorgeous to your avarage guy, short, tall, skinny, overweight. What does it matter I enjoy them and they are REAL gentlemen.

Oh and a middle aged hag....I am 46....respect your elders young man....and get some manners. You picked the wrong place to start this.

I couldn't have said it better myself! Well put Angie...... my mom used to say to me, "pick your battles honey, and this ISN'T one of them"

 

[newatit]

Interesting thread, troll or not, hijacked or not, but still didn't see too many useful replies. Let's assume this is an honest thread for a change.

So, the writer wants to meet beautiful irrestible gals, well, SP's are not necessarily the way to do it. There are a lot of very attractive SP's out there. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as we all know, so it can be a long search to find what you want. It may mean visiting all the establishments, interviewing all the gals, going back for the next shift, keeping notes, and doing a lot of cross checking etc to boil down where you feel true beauty is present. So often the "hot" pictures you see are misleading to what reality really is. Standing in front of those hot SP's can let you see the wrinkles, body language, attitude, services available, and thus reality. When you add up all those characteristics, you may redefine beauty in you own mine, and find that personality and attitude and good service count a lot more than being bedded by a beauty queen who is maybe snarly and incompetent and spoiled.

Having just got into this business recently, I took a couple of nights and trolled around Calgary to get what you are looking for. Went into all the massage parlours, AMPS, and called a few SP's who advertised for a meeting, and finally had enough notes and new ideas, that I could sit down and study it all. So many of the gals are in their 30's, so youth is not going to be an easy criteria to meet. That rejected a lot of "applicants". Next I looked at physical attractiveness amongst those under 30, and marked up only five for follow up. One of those was a gal named Selena in a remote AMP in Calgary, well off the beaten route. I got there only to find she was off for a week, but an older gal, probably late 30's was available, attractive, and shapely, looked like an excellent service provider. Out of frustration, I took on this gal that never would have been considered otherwise. Glad I did, threw away the research notes and just kept going back there. This gal was hot, knew the moves, had me in a turmoil for the hour.

Good luck. Its all in the "draw"

 

[jdtipper]

I'll take a stab at this one.
I'm 27, usually look better with the lights off, and have zero self confidence. At the ripe age of 25 3/4 I decided I was sick of not had been with a gal, so I wandered into an MP.
So. its turns out, for a measly $$$, I could have sex with a hot girl and not have to work for it?!?!? AWESOME
And the rest is history.

As stated by someone earlier, women today are much bitches. They expect the world, and then take everything you have when they leave....
Though it would be nice to wake up next to a gal that claims she "loves you", its just why?
Sure when you start dating, its just sex all the time, but then it starts to dwindle..... and dwindle some more, hell it could even stop. How frustrating is that!!
And the work and bullshit you have to put up with to get and then keep a girlfriend. Its not worth it.
Haha my Grandma even said "I feel so sorry for men now-a-days, I think if they want sex, its just easier to get a prostitute." I love you Grandma.
(BTW, I didn't tell her I was one step ahead of her, I'll save that for future chats)

And yes there are times I do feel like a piece of shit for wasting my money on escorts. To think, with the money Ive spent so far, I could have gotten my 54 Chevy truck totally restored. Or my 60's Lincoln. Or bought and customized a Hearse like Ive wanted to since my earlier days.

Oh one bad thing about this hobby is after being with gals who are so "out of your league"....its very hard to go back to reality and not get the "cream of the crop" anymore. I tried hooking up with this gal who was...umm "average" i guess....and my head just wasnt into it (either of them). It was like junior was punishing me for trying to put it somewhere it wasn't used to going. Like "WTF man, Ive been in some really nice places, and you expect me to go in there....F U"

 

[myselftheother]

To the OP....why do I pay to see a lovely woman for sexual and sensual pleasure? Busy lifestyle, older so I really don't do the club/bar scene anymore as it's full of kids....not my scene. Dating is about jumping through emotional hoops, avoiding traps and escaping the noose....or lasso.

I pay for the services of these fabulous women that I've seen over the years, and have learned lots about my own sexual make up, how and what to ask for , the 'rules' of the game...a lot easier than dating, and I'm not a goblin in looks either. I also value how I feel after, relieved of a few bucks and certain urges that leaves me with a clearer perspective on things. And, because....it's fun!!!

 

[juniper]

newatit: I don't reside in Calgary but, if I were there, I would contact two gals, both in their twenties. One is named ""Wild Jewel", is attractive according to photographs and she is well reviewed. The other is "Aubrey Kisses." The latter used to engage in discussions here on PERB when she lived and worked in Vancouver before moving to Calgary. She was mature beyond her years and also smart. Photographs indicate that she is extremely attractive. Works for an agency. Both gals advertise on B....... If you do see either, a write-up about your experiences would be welcomed.

 

[juniper]

To the OP....why do I pay to see a lovely woman for sexual and sensual pleasure? Busy lifestyle, older so I really don't do the club/bar scene anymore as it's full of kids....not my scene. Dating is about jumping through emotional hoops, avoiding traps and escaping the noose....or lasso.

I pay for the services of these fabulous women that I've seen over the years, and have learned lots about my own sexual make up, how and what to ask for , the 'rules' of the game...a lot easier than dating, and I'm not a goblin in looks either. I also value how I feel after, relieved of a few bucks and certain urges that leaves me with a clearer perspective on things. And, because....it's fun!!!

Could one of the problems be that women are less likely to want children and start families? At least in Canada? If so, one of the biggest motivators for dating and sexual relations has been "de-enhanced".

 

[badbadboy]

How old is the average majority age of men who request these services. I am fairly young and the reason I'm thinking of doing this is because the girls I have attracted (naturally not paying) in the past have never been as attractive as I'd have liked them to be. I have seen a couple beautiful girls on the carman fox site, and feel like it would be a spectacular experience to bed one of those models, as I have never slept with a girl as hot as that. Being completely new to this scene or even concept rather (had no idea prostitution was this regulated and prevalent in Vancouver) I would have to say that I'm a bit disgusted at the amount of fat, ugly... disturbing looking women in general there are out there that actually have the nerve to charge people money!? for sexual favours???

Like I said I'm completely new to this so just bear with me, but it just strikes me as rather bizarre. Are most of the men that pay for sex and scour these boards for reviews, just genuinely unattractive unappealing men who have no chance at ever getting laid? I swear to god, I've already come across a handful of these "SP's" who if anything should be paying ME for a "service" or at least be labelled "free". If your a middle aged hag or chunky warthog, looking to actually get inside OTHER ppl's pockets, I think its time to find a new career or dust off the old resume and start looking to carve out a new life for yourself.
Pretty sad to think theres guys out there, who actually pay for that shit, how pathetic and embarrassing...not to mention the fact that your running the risk of catching a serious incurable disease.
I'm not at all saying there all like that and there are def some higher priced higher quality ladies out there, but ya, way too much low grade bullshit.

So why are the newspapers full of ads, and the internet packed with vancouver listings of escorts? I know I'm gonna hit a nerve when I say this but it's a little bit embarrassing for us guys to be paying for sex don't you think? I mean are we really just a bunch of boring losers with no social skills or enough charisma to attract women with charm and skill?
I can see 1 time splurging on a 500 dollar bombshell escort because you have the money and you feel like having a night, but doing this on a regular basis? I mean don't tell me you guys don't feel weird or guilty about that.
And btw i'm looking for edgy thought provoking responses not mindless hate. I don't care that you guys are doing it, I'm just wondering WHY? I'm sure theres a wide variety of reasons. I'd love to know what those reasons are...

Given what you have posted already I can safely say you are a troll.

 

[fosho14]

Thanks to those of you that took the time to post an intelligent reponse. Analyzing the dynamics of prostitution and the reasons behind it does not automatically make someone a troll. From the beginning I repeatedly stated that I was curious about the reasons, and was willing to hear those of the people of the community. Most everyone except for a few people were reasonable and rational with their responses and I appreciate that. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and you by no means have to like or agree with that opinion. Hopefully one day in your sad, o so sad little life, you'll realize that badbadboy. Does that make you a troll for disagreeing with me? lol

 

[Umbras]

You should have re-read your post before submitting it.

Your tone, assumptions and generalization of companions and the men who's desires they fullfil was accusitory and not a good way to make an introduction. Asking simple questions would have been the best route or even doing a forum search on similar topics may have given you more than enough info.

I did put a reply up to your origional post in the other thread you hijacked in what looked like an attempt at causing drama. You then started a NEW thread with pretty much the origional post and some further insulting comments. So right off the bat you offended the majority of the community in the span of 10 min as a new poster. It came acrross as pretty arrogant voicing opinions about people you know nothing of, not to mention the audacity of saying someone should have paid you to have sex, might be your not so good at it yourself.

If you had taken the time to actually read many posts you would see that many members here are everyday people from various backgrounds, professions and beliefs. You insinuated that the majority of people who had to pay for it, were unatractive and had no chance to sleep with a regular woman. How would you expect people to respond?

Do yourself a favor go through the archives from the lounge and other places and you will find many rational people having discussions in a respectfull way, many of the men and women who frequent here are intelligent, respectfull and beautifull people, who the fuck would not want to spend time with someone like that? This way you avoid the drama and bullshit that CAN come with dating.

I would rather spend money on having an amazing time than walk away feeling like I wasted time, money and self esteem, I am past and over the dating scene.

BTW a Troll is somone who posts comments to incite negative reactions from people on a forum, they offer nothing constructive and hijack threads for thier own amusement, if it posts like a Troll and acts like a Troll, it most likely is a Troll.

 

[badbadboy]

How old is the average majority age of men who request these services. I am fairly young and the reason I'm thinking of doing this is because the girls I have attracted (naturally not paying) in the past have never been as attractive as I'd have liked them to be. I have seen a couple beautiful girls on the carman fox site, and feel like it would be a spectacular experience to bed one of those models, as I have never slept with a girl as hot as that. Being completely new to this scene or even concept rather (had no idea prostitution was this regulated and prevalent in Vancouver) I would have to say that I'm a bit disgusted at the amount of fat, ugly... disturbing looking women in general there are out there that actually have the nerve to charge people money!? for sexual favours???

Like I said I'm completely new to this so just bear with me, but it just strikes me as rather bizarre. Are most of the men that pay for sex and scour these boards for reviews, just genuinely unattractive unappealing men who have no chance at ever getting laid? I swear to god, I've already come across a handful of these "SP's" who if anything should be paying ME for a "service" or at least be labelled "free". If your a middle aged hag or chunky warthog, looking to actually get inside OTHER ppl's pockets, I think its time to find a new career or dust off the old resume and start looking to carve out a new life for yourself.
Pretty sad to think theres guys out there, who actually pay for that shit, how pathetic and embarrassing...not to mention the fact that your running the risk of catching a serious incurable disease.
I'm not at all saying there all like that and there are def some higher priced higher quality ladies out there, but ya, way too much low grade bullshit.

So why are the newspapers full of ads, and the internet packed with vancouver listings of escorts? I know I'm gonna hit a nerve when I say this but it's a little bit embarrassing for us guys to be paying for sex don't you think? I mean are we really just a bunch of boring losers with no social skills or enough charisma to attract women with charm and skill?
I can see 1 time splurging on a 500 dollar bombshell escort because you have the money and you feel like having a night, but doing this on a regular basis? I mean don't tell me you guys don't feel weird or guilty about that.
And btw i'm looking for edgy thought provoking responses not mindless hate. I don't care that you guys are doing it, I'm just wondering WHY? I'm sure theres a wide variety of reasons. I'd love to know what those reasons are...

You are a troll because you state that you are too good looking to actually have to pay for a SP's services. You automatically think that any client is not good enough in your eyes to meet women on their own with having to pay for the service.

You then go on to comment that some of the female SP's are not good enough looking in your eyes and they would have to pay you to have sex with them.

You registered on this site which has SP's as advertisers and their clients as members. Yet you being too good for this activity thumb your nose at both the advertisers and their clients.

You are here only to provoke dissension between the members and the advertisers.

That makes you a troll in my eyes.

Don't like the game, don't play it. This is obviously the wrong place for you by insulting the member and the advertisers who pay for the forum.

Now off to your mom's basement and keep playing X Box and think about what you are going to do in grade nine.