What is sex to you?
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Sex... to me sex is just sex... a physical act... pleasureable, but just physical, to get emotions and stuff involved then it becomes something different
When I was about 19, sex was In -> Out -> Repeat IF required... now I tend to have to have at least a menial connection... Which is where I failed tonight with Erika I think... we couldn't communicate... so there was no way to even try to build a little bit of a connection.
I am not saying I have to be in love with the woman, but I need to at least have a mutual liking. Almost every time I ignored the ole signs, I have had a bad session. The cool part is.. the better the connection, the more amazing the sex is for me. Again, not necessarily a "love" thing, just a mutual bond of sorts, regardless how temporary it is. I have had some of the best sex I ever had with SPs I just met... because we connected... yet very similar women with identical skills were utter duds cause we never.
I ramble... so I am gonna shut up now.
I am not saying I have to be in love with the woman, but I need to at least have a mutual liking. Almost every time I ignored the ole signs, I have had a bad session. The cool part is.. the better the connection, the more amazing the sex is for me. Again, not necessarily a "love" thing, just a mutual bond of sorts, regardless how temporary it is. I have had some of the best sex I ever had with SPs I just met... because we connected... yet very similar women with identical skills were utter duds cause we never.
I ramble... so I am gonna shut up now.
Reminds me of a joke I heard once...Does that mean you are starting to like BJ's?
Johny comes home from school one day all smiling and tells his mom, "Mom! I had my first blow-job today!"
Johny's mom is mortified and sends him to his room till his father comes home.
When his dad comes home, he goes to Johny's room all proud. He says, "Johny, Your mom says you had your first blow-job today. How did you like it? Is there anything you would like to ask me?"
Little Johnny looks at his dad a moment and says, "It was alright I guess.... but how the hell do I get that taste out of my mouth?!"
LOL, wasn't expecting that punch line.
That to me is what sex is, fun! Sometimes it's alot of fumbling and bumbling, maybe it's just me, but when two people can share and experience passion with climactic extasy and giggle afterward that is perfect for me. Sex is the punch line for this funny thing we call love.
Sex...
could be a myriad of things -
it's more of an experience for me, rather than a connection, which explains why i seldom repeat.
Is it biological? When i see a nice set of petals, coupled with the partner's attitude, my under will stand. LOL.
btw - regular is defined to be my wife, and there's no "love" with encounters.
Each encounter is unique - some are good, and some are bad.
I'm not overly concerned about a bad experience - like the law of averages, some are good and some are bad -> the important thing is that if I cum (hopefully more than once), I'm at least happy. hahahahahahahaha.
could be a myriad of things -
it's more of an experience for me, rather than a connection, which explains why i seldom repeat.
Is it biological? When i see a nice set of petals, coupled with the partner's attitude, my under will stand. LOL.
btw - regular is defined to be my wife, and there's no "love" with encounters.
Each encounter is unique - some are good, and some are bad.
I'm not overly concerned about a bad experience - like the law of averages, some are good and some are bad -> the important thing is that if I cum (hopefully more than once), I'm at least happy. hahahahahahahaha.
Its means Im about to have one hell of a time
I always know that because I only seek the lovely ladies with the sweet reviews right here on perb
The one time I didnt that was a mistake and an experience Ive tried to kill in my memory.
Back to the question for me Its pleasure, friendship, confidence, connection, social, and pure bliss rolled into one and It burns calories so why the hell not...
I also love the way I feel after the session, a job well done ladies, then I'm out truly feeling like Im on cloud nine, a high that you cant come down from and cant help but smile, which is great for everybody to experience once in awhile I would think.
I always know that because I only seek the lovely ladies with the sweet reviews right here on perb
The one time I didnt that was a mistake and an experience Ive tried to kill in my memory.
Back to the question for me Its pleasure, friendship, confidence, connection, social, and pure bliss rolled into one and It burns calories so why the hell not...
I also love the way I feel after the session, a job well done ladies, then I'm out truly feeling like Im on cloud nine, a high that you cant come down from and cant help but smile, which is great for everybody to experience once in awhile I would think.
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Gumbyman hit it right on
I am not saying I have to be in love with the woman, but I need to at least have a mutual liking
If you don't at least kind of like each other, even a first impression kind of liking, it is a pretty mechanical, not satisying project. Should be fun
I am not saying I have to be in love with the woman, but I need to at least have a mutual liking
If you don't at least kind of like each other, even a first impression kind of liking, it is a pretty mechanical, not satisying project. Should be fun
