What is LFK?

[JimDandy]

I have always assumed that LFK was closed lip kissing. But a comment in another thread made me question my belief .

So I put it out there to my fellow perbites to answer. Do you believe LFK IS:

1) kissing where the lady keeps her lips closed or
2) kissing where the tips of both people's tongues touch but tongues don't go into the other person's mouth or
3) kissing where the ladies lips are not entirely closed but she doesn't let your tongue touch her tongue.

Please let me know which one you believe is the correct definition.

Thanks,
JD

 

[vanperb]

Ads that say LFK, light french kiss, actually mean "pecks on the lips, lips sealed shut, and potentially eyes adverted".
It's standard false advertising.

 

[Newuser505]

Just kiss them, you nerd.

 

[Boogeryyc]

LFK means a waste of time

 

[Harmony-bc]

I used to say lfk in my ads or in inquiries. Because I don’t want to play tonsil hockey with anybody. I like sensual kissing done my way. Light French kissing definitely means kissing. And more than closed mouth kissing. In my opinion.

But like everything else in this business we’re all human and all the acronyms can be interpreted in different ways. But to me just the term French kissing implies tongue involved. Light French kissing to me implies please don’t stick your tongue all the way down my throat. Interesting to see that’s how you guys interpret it. I stopped saying lfk because people would say oh no thank you I’m looking for more than that. In which case I thought oh thank god he’s not seeing me. Cause ivk to tonsil hockey haha. Now I just say sure. However, great personal hygiene and a good attitude are key.

I like light tongue action and plenty of lip sucking and nibbling. Sensuous sexy kissing 😘

 

[JimDandy]

I used to say lfk in my ads or in inquiries. Because I don’t want to play tonsil hockey with anybody. I like sensual kissing done my way. Light French kissing definitely means kissing. And more than closed mouth kissing. In my opinion.

But like everything else in this business we’re all human and all the acronyms can be interpreted in different ways. But to me just the term French kissing implies tongue involved. Light French kissing to me implies please don’t stick your tongue all the way down my throat. Interesting to see that’s how you guys interpret it. I stopped saying lfk because people would say oh no thank you I’m looking for more than that. In which case I thought oh thank god he’s not seeing me. Cause ivk to tonsil hockey haha. Now I just say sure. However, great personal hygiene and a good attitude are key.

I like light tongue action and plenty of lip sucking and nibbling. Sensuous sexy kissing 😘

Hi Harmony - I interpret your answer to be #2 in my listed options.

Personally, I am happy if I receive kissing as you described it on a date with an escort.

JD

 

[Panaru]

I used to think it meant #2 but in my experience when an ad says “LFK” it usually ends up being #1 or #3.

 

[JimDandy]

I used to think it meant #2 but in my experience when an ad says “LFK” it usually ends up being #1 or #3.

I suspect that is the case most of the time in regards to an ad.

When someone is reviewing a lady, I suspect it can be any of the 3. Which is why I created this thread to confirm as much.

Though for myself, in past reviews, I would have described #2 as DFK.

JD

 

[angry anderson]

The opposite of DFK

 

[VinVan]

FWIW, here’s my 2 cents.

LFK, in my experience, is a code of sorts; part marketing, part defense mechanism, both of which are related.

I think the acronyms LFK or DFK are the honey traps that draw a certain bee. I count myself among those clients as no kissing is a deal breaker for me. So as far as marketing goes, including LFK in the ad is going to draw a lot more inquiries than not including the term. And when the client shows, the SP can make the call (on the sliding scale of kissing) on how much or little kissing she wants to engage in depending on hygiene, vibe, look etc. So if she is not digging on the client, she can do a couple of chicken pecks and the promise of LFK has been met technically, I guess.

It makes perfect sense to me from the SP perspective. I’ve had encounters where LFK was advertised and we went into full on DFK mode; and others with nary a peck despite the ad. Like everything else, it’s a crapshoot and we read the tea leaves best we can.

On matters of preferences, like the effervescent Harmony, I like it slow and sexy with sensual lip biting. The aggressive deep diving works only with certain lasses who are looking to be animals for an hour. The flickety-flick that a lot of Asian providers engage in is my least favorite. I’ve always wondered, but never asked, if this is the sexy in China….

 

[Harmony-bc]

Hi Harmony - I interpret your answer to be #2 in my listed options.

Personally, I am happy if I receive kissing as you described it on a date with an escort.

JD

Possibly a bit more than your 2. But less than deep throating a tongue and eating my face

 

[Harmony-bc]

The term deep French kissing scares me . Hahaha. So I don’t use it in my ads. 😘

 

[VanCityNewb]

It's dumb. French kissing is French kissing. I interpret it to mean no french kissing.

 

[phool]

I always think it's #2, tongue tips touching but not deep diving, as the F denotes there should be some tongue. Similar to others, I have seen providers that put up LFK but we end up DFK as the session unfolds but it's always a YMMV scenario.

 

[Harmony-bc]

It's dumb. French kissing is French kissing. I interpret it to mean no french kissing.

I just say kissable on my website. I don’t use very many acronyms at all. Deep French kissing means you want to eat my face. Light French kissing means it might be sexy and fun. Light kissing means closed mouth kissing maybe. And no kissing means no kissing.

but I just use language on my site to attract people who want to actually spend time with a person and not a bunch of acronyms

 

[VanCityNewb]

I just say kissable on my website. I don’t use very many acronyms at all. Deep French kissing means you want to eat my face. Light French kissing means it might be sexy and fun. Light kissing means closed mouth kissing maybe. And no kissing means no kissing.

but I just use language on my site to attract people who want to actually spend time with a person and not a bunch of acronyms

I like dfk, and haven't had to worry about anybody trying to eat my face since my first girlfriend in high school, and I've certainly never been into doing that myself. To me, dfk is just French kissing with some actual passion, and lfk is just brief pecks and kisses with closed mouth.

 

[Harmony-bc]

I like dfk, and haven't had to worry about anybody trying to eat my face since my first girlfriend in high school, and I've certainly never been into doing that myself. To me, dfk is just French kissing with some actual passion, and lfk is just brief pecks and kisses with closed mouth.

I completely disagree with your interpretation of the acronyms hahaha. But that’s ok 💕

 

[Harmony-bc]

I like dfk, and haven't had to worry about anybody trying to eat my face since my first girlfriend in high school, and I've certainly never been into doing that myself. To me, dfk is just French kissing with some actual passion, and lfk is just brief pecks and kisses with closed mouth.

In my life, I have met a lot of really bad kissers. (I am not talking about just work) I guess you’ve been luckier than me. My life experiences have led me to the place where I’m at now. If somebody wants to spend time with me, I don’t want to be tortured for the hour or 2. I want to have a good time. I want my clients and my lovers to learn how to kiss me properly. Which because women are all different might be different than the last person you kissed. 😘

I’m not submissive tho. I’m quite bossy 😉

 

[vicvic]

Well that all explains LFK pretty well….

I have to say I think it’s a credit to the beautiful young lady I saw recently at AF, that she seemed happy to provide the DFK experience she did for me. As it happens, I would have really liked to make the kisses deeper, but it was lovely to just to feel her beautiful lips and be so close with her while we had sex. I feel like any GFE provider who makes it so special for their adoring clients by kissing them, intimately, should be applauded.