Hi winterman,
I think the main point is that a lot of kinksters follow SSC and are really into "consent". As a male dom you may be at a disadvantage initially because before a sub gives consent, you must develop some level of trust, only through time and communication can that be built. Therefore, it may take you a bit of time to develop that connection with any lady of what they may consent to and if it lines up with what you are curious or yearning to explore. Communication is the key, and if you are taking the male dom role, you are the person responsible for that sub during the session…also what are you into exploring? Are you experienced? These are very important questions to have sufficient answers for. As female Dommes, being professional means that we have reviews etc from male subs, and that we might have opportunities to gain more experience, although I know many male doms on the island who have so much experience and who I have been thankful to learn from as well

Good luck in finding a sub!