What is "frequent sex"?

[Hugh G Rekshun]

http://news.nationalpost.com/health/the-key-to-a-better-love-life-is-sex-but-only-once-per-week-university-of-toronto-study-says

This article presents a Canadian research study that concludes once-a-week is "frequent", and "frequent enough", in a relationship.

Personally, this would be sexual starvation. Of course I have already found the solution :eyebrows:

So what is "frequent sex", really? Is once-a-week good enough?

 

[clu]

Define sex. The article seems to be implying traditional intercourse, but if you did that once a week and oral a different day a week, does that count as one or two?

I think the only meaningful takeaway from the article is "it's fun as long as it doesn't become a chore" which, really, you don't need a degree or a study to figure out.

You're not going to make anyone happy telling them they want it too much any more than telling them they don't want it enough.

 

[sdw]

http://news.nationalpost.com/health/the-key-to-a-better-love-life-is-sex-but-only-once-per-week-university-of-toronto-study-says

This article presents a Canadian research study that concludes once-a-week is "frequent", and "frequent enough", in a relationship.

Personally, this would be sexual starvation. Of course I have already found the solution :eyebrows:

So what is "frequent sex", really? Is once-a-week good enough?

lol, written by a woman and the study probably was of married women.

My last ex-wife thought that "frequent" was ever. Especially with me. Funnily enough, the next guy she hooked found the same thing. But he had taken the bait and was firmly hooked by then.

Me, I think that there is no such thing as "too frequent". For the past 30 years I've been looking for that lady that thinks that Daily is about right.

 

[Hugh G Rekshun]

I got the impression the article would validate women who want to hold the line at once a week, as they are usually the ones with the lesser appetite. The real issue is compatible sex drives. If one partner feels he - or sometimes she - is not getting enough studies show it often leads to divorce.

Insinuating once a week, as the article does, is frequent seems bizarre, figures it is a Toronto study. I wonder what the Brazilians and other Latinos would think of just once-a-week

 

[hornygandalf]

"... you are more likely get bored of your partner if you have too much sex.”

Or, maybe you need multiple partners to have sex with, so you don't get bored with your partner, but still have your sexual needs met.
When sex was still part of my relationship, once a week certainly wasn't enough... although my SO was quite happy with that.
And then she started saying I'm "getting too old to be wanting sex." Hell no! I want to be enjoying sex until I'm in my 90s...

 

[hornygandalf]

yes me too. i have the same problem lol

My libido vs amount of sex I'm actually getting is significantly out of balance

And yet... you suggest elsewhere that you will be looking to transition out of providing FS at some point in the future...
Hope you find a man/men who can keep up with you when that happens...

 

[UhOh]

Some people are just more fun to be with. With one of my ex's it was three times a day, when we'd wake up, when we got home from work, when we went to bed. But we were together less than a year. I suspect had we stayed together for years it would eventually have become one per week. You just can't get it enough in any new relationship

 

[Hugh G Rekshun]

Something I'm not getting

yes me too. i have the same problem lol

I always find it refreshing to hear from women with high libidos.

I have had a few MILF GFs who complained about sexual infrequency due to their exes low libidos, and maybe theses guys were pussies too. The ladies wanted their exes to initiate more and just plain do it more. I was surprised to hear of men with lower libidos than women. When I heard this I thought: "Then you are going to love me." Eventually my GFs complained it was too much!

With discordant sex drives it should be socially acceptable to "top up" outside the relationship. Once-a-week or even less may work for her, but his feelings have to be considered too.

I used to love stranger sex but it doesn't really do it for me anymore. Nowadays I have a preference for familiar...

What if you got it both ways, in an open relationship?

 

[badbadboy]

yes me too. i have the same problem lol

My libido vs amount of sex I'm actually getting is significantly out of balance

It's Inverse proportional for me too.

I could Poon virtually daily but the bank account says no

 

[hornygandalf]

Daily would probably be ideal for me. More than once a day would fall into the 'frequent' category.
And there was a time when I would enjoy it three times a day... but that didn't last for long once we were married and she was pregnant.

 

[Curiousgeorge604]

While daily is usually my thing, I find orgasms are way more powerful after 2-3 days of abstinence.

Women, especially in relationships, tend to be less frequent.

 

[luvsdaty]

We're all different. Frequent to some is starvation to others. When I was in my 20's,I wanted it and craved it constantly. Now that I'm in my 50's I an take it or leave it.

 

[Sporting]

Once a week is good maintenance here. When on holiday such as Thailand 2 out of 3 days works, although it has been known to occur more frequently

 

[Ed69]

It's never enough. I boff an sp once a week, and I still feel sexually starved. Seeing all these young girls in yoga pants is like a bullet between the eyes.

The only thing that seems to help is going on a calorie deficit. During my last cutting diet, my libido was all but gone. Couldn't get hard some days. Didn't want to be touched. Must be what being a woman feels like.

 

[Oralbrucie]

Sites like Perb & wonderful hobbies like pooning wouldn't exist if everyone was getting some "often" enough. :doh:

 

[Larry Storch]

(snip)just stick him back in the drawer when I'm done with him oundsnip)

*swoon*...