What is a fair way to calculate the duration of a session?

[felixb]

With a recent pooning experience where I was rushed, it made me think about how the duration of a session should be calculated and what would be fair expectation from a pooner's perspective. Here are difference ways it can be done.

1. From the moment you get buzzed in to the moment you are out the door.
   In this case a 1/2 hour can easily turn in to 15 minutes if one wants to shower before and after.
2. From the moment you see the sp to the moment you last see her
   This case is most likely for MP or agencies, no way to be short changed if time is counted that way but if you get an accompanied shower the session on the bed might be shortened
3. From the moment you engage in the activity to the moment the activity is over. This is ideal from a pooner perspective, you get a full 30 minute of personal service.
4. From the start of the first shower to the end of the second one, i.e the moment you get naked to the moment you get dressed. You get perhaps 20 minute for the session counted this way.
   

Having said that some ladies will not even attempt to count time per say and deliberately rush you out because they do it for everybody or they don't like you or because they are despised with this job and just want to get it done as fast as possible.

To me, a session should be counted as time spent with the lady engaged in the activity. Showers don't count and should be part of prep time added to a session. So this way a 1/2 session may end up be closer to 40 minutes if 2 showers are taken. I don't see that as abusing a lady's time.

 

[kodiak_bear3]

Sp have a schedule

even if they allow some time between 2 clients, they still need time to get ready. Therefore I would consider fair to calculate the duration from the time you set the appointment (you got to be on time).

Communication is also very important... nobody likes to be rushed and best SP will not do it as long as they don't have other commitments. But, if they have, rushing the late client is a professional attitude towards the client who is coming next.

On the other side, I think that Sp should allow for people who would like to spend few minutes of social time... for example, I would welcome a 10 mins. social time for a small fee for first timers. I find that it is important to "feel the vibe" even with the occasional partner. If the vibe isn't there, the client (or the SP of course) may decline the rest of the session.
This, of course, would not be necessary for repeat clients.

 

[felix29]

With a recent pooning experience where I was rushed, it made me think about how the duration of a session should be calculated and what would be fair expectation from a pooner's perspective. Here are difference ways it can be done.

1. From the moment you get buzzed in to the moment you are out the door.
   In this case a 1/2 hour can easily turn in to 15 minutes if one wants to shower before and after.
2. From the moment you see the sp to the moment you last see her
   This case is most likely for MP or agencies, no way to be short changed if time is counted that way but if you get an accompanied shower the session on the bed might be shortened
3. From the moment you engage in the activity to the moment the activity is over. This is ideal from a pooner perspective, you get a full 30 minute of personal service.
4. From the start of the first shower to the end of the second one, i.e the moment you get naked to the moment you get dressed. You get perhaps 20 minute for the session counted this way.
   

Having said that some ladies will not even attempt to count time per say and deliberately rush you out because they do it for everybody or they don't like you or because they are despised with this job and just want to get it done as fast as possible.

To me, a session should be counted as time spent with the lady engaged in the activity. Showers don't count and should be part of prep time added to a session. So this way a 1/2 session may end up be closer to 40 minutes if 2 showers are taken. I don't see that as abusing a lady's time.

It is from the time you or her enter the hotel or residence.

 

[chilli]

I put my cock in...

I get an hour

Woo hoo!

 

[kman32]

what would be fair expectation from a pooner's perspective.

My expectation is, the time starts when I enter the room and ends when I leave. I shower on my own time just before I leave for the appointment. I'm always very clean. If she insists I shower at her place (has never happened), I would leave. There is no reason for it (unless she joins me) and is just a waste of my time and money.

Every city has lots of escorts, if you travel a lot, you have access to thousands. There is never any reason to compromise your screening process. If she isn't giving me exactly what I want, I move on to the next. Luckily, almost all the escorts I've seen have been great with time.

 

[Pantsnake]

There is no right answer to this question. Just like every other aspect of this hobby it is very much a YMMV issue. I've always found that the best way to approach this, is to ask the SP. When I was a newbie there were several occasions where I felt uncomfortable or didn't know, that I should be clarifying the arrangement beforehand and had a few bad experiences. This is no different than any other business transaction. Both parties should be comfortable with the terms before proceeding. This also helps the SP because she will know exactly what the client expects. If the client is looking for services she doesn't provide, that can be dealt with, rather than her finding herself the subject of a poor review. That doesn't necessarily prevent the SP from lying and not holding up their end but in reality those occasions are rare.
While I realize that this is not alot of help to newbies or when trying out a new lady but that's where boards like this are helpful.
Another good idea is to establish a few regular ladies. You'd be amazed at how the experience improves once they get to know you.

 

[maxx50]

I keep hereing this 30 min..

What is this 30 min. stuff.. I book for 2 hrs usually.. I know it wont be 2 hrs of sex.. but it allow time to get comfortable and talk .. not feel rushed.. and still have a good time . Now yes I would love to spend thattime just haveing sex .. and playng.. and afew time that is exactly what happens.. but for the most part .. it is true GFE. and means that some time I don't get sex( take pictures).. I don't get off and I end up being there more for them then me.
Well I asked for it.

 

[kalel]

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There is no right answer to this question. Just like every other aspect of this hobby it is very much a YMMV issue. I've always found that the best way to approach this, is to ask the SP. When I was a newbie there were several occasions where I felt uncomfortable or didn't know, that I should be clarifying the arrangement beforehand and had a few bad experiences. This is no different than any other business transaction. Both parties should be comfortable with the terms before proceeding. This also helps the SP because she will know exactly what the client expects. If the client is looking for services she doesn't provide, that can be dealt with, rather than her finding herself the subject of a poor review. That doesn't necessarily prevent the SP from lying and not holding up their end but in reality those occasions are rare.
While I realize that this is not alot of help to newbies or when trying out a new lady but that's where boards like this are helpful.
Another good idea is to establish a few regular ladies. You'd be amazed at how the experience improves once they get to know you.

agreed. YMMV applies because most sp's will be alot more inclined to spend abit more time with you if you're clean, non-smelly, and treat them with a decent level of respect. think of it as a date with a guaranteed ending (even tho' technically that's not true). what you say and do can change a session that might have gotten cut short into one that goes way beyond the time. i've had mamasan's come knocking on the door when time was up and the sp just kept going. it doesn't mean that she was getting off (because i assume very few do) but it does mean she was doing it to accomodate me.

 

[tedsweettangv]

I think it is "fair" that time starts from the time your appointment was booked for until you leave. By this I mean if you book an 11:00 appointment, you are on time, the appointment starts then. How ladies choose spend more or less time, count or not count shower time etc. I think reflects service and attitude but as a pooner I don't think your expectations should be more than what I stated as fair.

 

[john23]

Similar to Maxx50 I never go for less than 1 hour. But I've been very, very lucky with the SPs I've seen over the last year or so as they have been very considerate about the time issue. With the last person I saw (very well reviewed here) we spent an extra half hour chatting and getting our clothes on after it was all done - a very laid-back, enjoyable experience for me.

What I'd ask is "how many clients do you see in a typical week?" Most of the time most people will give an honest answer. However, you might want to look at their saturation level as far as advertising goes. If they advertise obsessively they are most likely lying. The SPs who have very limited exposure are more likely the ones you want to see.

 

[Creole Lady Marmalade]

Take your cues from the SP.

As Pantsnake said, there is no right answer.

I've had to get lingering people out the door on a few occasions because I've had to got to the bathroom or a friend was coming over only to get a phone call or a pissy email that I had rushed them out of the door. Only one person was kind enough to understand that he had no right to be upset since he had stayed an additional 20 minutes over his allotted time.

SPs have schedules and what occurs outside of the time paid for is no ones business but the SPs. Be respectful of the SPs time. Take your cues from the SP or better yet ask before booking with them when they start the clock.

 

[lars_from_mars]

felixb, if you really want a half hour session to mean "half an hour of activity plus 15 minutes of prep", then you'll probalby find that SP's change their half-hour rate to be the same as their 45-min rate. Because the bottom line is that you're paying for their time, regardless of whether you spend it showering, talking, kissing, screwing, or whatever.

 

[Guardian Angel]

If you need to calculate

your time in a session, then I suggest you find a new SP and MP. Any reputable lady will ensure you are satisfied with your time whether you are there for 45 min, one hour or go overtime some.

If you are clock watching to be sure your not getting ripped off, then move on and find another place.

G.A.

 

[sarahpassion]

Well Said!

felixb, if you really want a half hour session to mean "half an hour of activity plus 15 minutes of prep", then you'll probalby find that SP's change their half-hour rate to be the same as their 45-min rate. Because the bottom line is that you're paying for their time, regardless of whether you spend it showering, talking, kissing, screwing, or whatever.

Well said.

I think it truly matters on how well you hit it off. I have had a client book the half hour but want to spend 15 minutes in the shower, before and after. That's an extra half an hour of my time!!!

There are times when you get along great, or you do not have anything planned for after that you can spend the extra time. If you book at 2 but show up at 2:10 I would still give you til 3:10. If you show up at 2 and spend 10 minutes in the shower, that's part of our time.

My biggest problem with allowing extra time is that clients begin to expect it every time. You might be the hottest, sexiest, funniest guy, but if I have to be somewhere or have another appt, showing you to the shower is a good hint!!!

Again this is totally a ymmv situation, but please don't think that you are owed 40 minutes of time when you only book 30minutes. If you don't like to feel rushed, it's simple book a longer session.

 

[felixb]

I used the example of 1/2 hour session but could have very well used an hour or overnight even. In any lenght of session one could still feel rushed no matter what so my question was more rethorical in nature. It's a matter of getting what you paid for. I've been in the hobby for a while so I know how it goes. I've rarely felt rushed just happened to ask my self that question after a session where I TOFFT and I was rushed (turns out this lady seems to do this with all her clients)
In a case where you get there on time but somehow you are not buzzed in right away because the lady is not ready. 10 minutes later you're finally in the room she tells you to get ready and she dissapears for another 10 minutes then 10 minutes in the session you are told you have to finish thus my original question.

 

[sarahpassion]

Well personally...

I start the time after I open the door. You have at least your time booked. I would never leave you alone for 10 minutes. Once you are invited in you should definetly have the full attention of your SP.

To bring up a point of the shower question, if you only have a quick shower to freshen up it shouldn't take more than 2 minutes, same as when you are leaving. So you shouldn't feel outed of that time. If you want to spend 10 minutes in the shower before and after that is up to you how spend your time.