While reading another thread where a pooner recounts going through a CL SP's purse (or possibly a con artist's purse) to retrieve his payment after she didn't supply condoms and blamed him for it, I started to wonder what inspires one to TOFFT. His first risk wasn't his choice to forcibly retrieve his money, but rather his choice to call a random a woman with no reviews and no established credibility. Although I understand that TOFFTing is necessary for new girls to break into the business, it strikes me as an impulsive, high risk activity that requires a personality type, perhaps similar to that of a gambler (and not that of the calculating professional gambler type). The only circumstance under which I would TOFFT would be if a well-established SP that I really liked vouched for a new girl. I guess I sort of TOFFT'd when I accepted a date with the girls that the Carmen Fox receptionist recommended, but that's not quite the same, as that particular receptionist had previously sent me girls who I liked. Never, however, would I respond to a Craigslist or Backpage ad of a girl who I knew nothing about, much less pick up an SW, especially when Vancouver has numerous well-reviewed women to choose from. I'm wondering if one gets a certain rush of adrenaline when contacting a girl who could potentially be either a great experience or an epic disaster. Or is that not it at all? I don't have any well-developed conclusions regarding the subject, but I am curious as to what motivates one to take such a risk. Thoughts?
What inspires one to TOFFT?
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and on top of all the above questionable judgement calls, he agrees to pay 250 friggin' dollars for the services of a completely unknown provider???? WTF...
a complete unknown is worth at most $160, with the caveat that you would leave a $20 to $40 tip if she turned out good and you wanted to make sure she would book with you again. many micro girls will leave you smiling into the middle of next week for that much
I take one for the team on occasion and what takes me into the unknown is the adventure of meeting someone new. Sure there is a risk, but here is a few guidelines I tend to follow....
1). Don't go for the girls that post at 3am, looking to party like a rockstar. Trouble.
2). Don't go for the girls that have outcalls only....never have one come to your home between 11pm and 6am....scam, a dash with your cash.....a dwyc.
3). And really read those ads, look at the pic and when you give her a call, listen to your gut feeling, not your dick. Dick has no brains, and there is a huge hole in his head, so there's two reasons. And, he hangs out with a pair of nuts all day.
Pacnwus-this is why we poon---for the hunt!
calculated risk, mitigated chance....its all the hunt...so are you a hunter or farmer?
its that simple-like most things in life
be safe
calculated risk, mitigated chance....its all the hunt...so are you a hunter or farmer?
its that simple-like most things in life
be safe
Lol. Well, I do it because it's the shortest distance between two points. I wouldn't call any of it that much of a challenge, although there are varying degrees of risk. If you want a challenge, putting on a pair of goggles, a top hat and a pink feather boa to go PUA it up at the clubs sounds like more of oneSpencer57 said:
It also sounds more frustrating and obnoxious than fun, but that's just me, and that's why I take the shorter path between two points. Hobbying isn't something one does to impress the bros precisely because it's not a challenge - they aren't going to be in awe of your womanizing skills. However, if you care more about the experience of the lady and less about what others think, hobbying is great I recognize we have different motivations in doing this, but describing the hobby as a hunt or challenge is a little odd, as I don't think it requires much skill. If you have some basic street smarts and aren't too socially inept, you're getting laid.
