What influnces your final decision to see a provider?
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I agree with you. I am very happy I found PERB. I understand experience can be different for everyone. But reviews help me make inform decision.
For me the deciding factors are a stiff cock and a pocket full of cash 🤦🏻♂️
If its an independent provider:
-I examine the ad and go through all the photos because sometimes the best ones are shown first. I also check to see if they have a website or Twitter account for more details and pictures. I try to figure out if the photos have been edited or to what extent they are edited. I also check to see if they are hiding a particular part of their body, which is usually a red flag.
-I look for reviews here to make sure she's not a scammer or anything and that other people have actually met her. I'm not really into toftt or taking risks like I did when I was younger, especially if she's an independent provider.
-If everything seems good, I tend take the contents of the reviews in terms of looks with a grain of salt, especially if they are overly positive reviews because some guys on this forum have very low standards. They might fall for edited photos or a provider lying about her age etc but not admit it. Or they might not realize it because they're not very socially aware or desperate. I also assume any review that specifies what day or time the guy saw her to likely be very biased and not objective because the provider will likely know who they are.
-In the end, it all depends on whether she is attractive enough for me to spend time with. I'm fortunate that rates aren't a concern for me as I can afford any rate. However, I do value my time and prefer to spend it with someone I find attractive.
-I also have no interest in doing an appointment over 60 minutes long.
If its a provider at an agency:
-I check the pictures and stats.
-If she looks attractive, I might consider giving her a chance. But some agencies are more trustworthy than others when it comes to the accuracy of the pictures and information about the girls, so I do factor that into my decision.
-as far as reviews go, same protocol as independents.
-I will take the risk of toftt if it's a trustworthy agency or if the pictures look really good.
Most important things: do they look hot, are they real, do they seem nice/normal.
-I examine the ad and go through all the photos because sometimes the best ones are shown first. I also check to see if they have a website or Twitter account for more details and pictures. I try to figure out if the photos have been edited or to what extent they are edited. I also check to see if they are hiding a particular part of their body, which is usually a red flag.
-I look for reviews here to make sure she's not a scammer or anything and that other people have actually met her. I'm not really into toftt or taking risks like I did when I was younger, especially if she's an independent provider.
-If everything seems good, I tend take the contents of the reviews in terms of looks with a grain of salt, especially if they are overly positive reviews because some guys on this forum have very low standards. They might fall for edited photos or a provider lying about her age etc but not admit it. Or they might not realize it because they're not very socially aware or desperate. I also assume any review that specifies what day or time the guy saw her to likely be very biased and not objective because the provider will likely know who they are.
-In the end, it all depends on whether she is attractive enough for me to spend time with. I'm fortunate that rates aren't a concern for me as I can afford any rate. However, I do value my time and prefer to spend it with someone I find attractive.
-I also have no interest in doing an appointment over 60 minutes long.
If its a provider at an agency:
-I check the pictures and stats.
-If she looks attractive, I might consider giving her a chance. But some agencies are more trustworthy than others when it comes to the accuracy of the pictures and information about the girls, so I do factor that into my decision.
-as far as reviews go, same protocol as independents.
-I will take the risk of toftt if it's a trustworthy agency or if the pictures look really good.
Most important things: do they look hot, are they real, do they seem nice/normal.
I'm so paranoid about scams as well, I essentially do a months worth of research on a provider now due to my first two experiences when I was younger being shady. Plus im strange, and I need chemistry on top of the physical attraction to make it work. It took me awhile to find a provider who checks every box. 😅
And I understand that reviews can be biased, but if there's a genuine fair amount of positive reviews from multiple clients it definitely helps me feel comfortable in that decision.
.... also im someone who takes priority of a higher standard of provider. So someone who can have professional ads on these sites such as perb, or even their own made website speaks volumes for the type of service you'll get. More effort they are putting in means the more they genuinely may love what they do.
In my case positive reviews from other pooners where I have seen some of the same ladies that they liked and that I liked as well . Meaning there’s a higher chance I will resonate w their personal taste .
The vibe. Not the look, not even the attitude. I have to try to create a vibe and once I set it up, I go for it.
I have ended up in a bit of a strange place in that I no longer have a 'type'. This is a result of my compulsion to finish what I start (which is why I would never be able to watch a soap opera!
), in this case, reviewing all the girls at one establishment. So I have literally done every girl at Lily's and reported on it. Because I know I will be reporting on it, I work at making it into a good session. And 99% of the time, the lady responds and I discover something that I can really enjoy - whether it is that she does a great covered BJ, or she spirals into a shaking, heaving orgasm. It has become fun to discover the end result. Where I have concentrated too much on a look (for example in Thailand), I have had a greater chance of disappointment. So being the total slut I am, I am open to trying practically all girls.
The bigger question is what makes me keep on coming back. Attitude, warmth, and playfulness are more important than a certain look or that they provide a certain service.
I will admit though that if I don't go to a massage parlour, I will read reviewers to ensure that it isn't a scam or the SP is really bad. But I don't let the occasional bad review put me off. Same for MP girls. If a provider is still getting customers who are generally satisfied or the girl hasn't been let go from the MP, then she must be doing something right - it just becomes a challenge to find it.
I have ended up in a bit of a strange place in that I no longer have a 'type'. This is a result of my compulsion to finish what I start (which is why I would never be able to watch a soap opera!
), in this case, reviewing all the girls at one establishment. So I have literally done every girl at Lily's and reported on it. Because I know I will be reporting on it, I work at making it into a good session. And 99% of the time, the lady responds and I discover something that I can really enjoy - whether it is that she does a great covered BJ, or she spirals into a shaking, heaving orgasm. It has become fun to discover the end result. Where I have concentrated too much on a look (for example in Thailand), I have had a greater chance of disappointment. So being the total slut I am, I am open to trying practically all girls.The bigger question is what makes me keep on coming back. Attitude, warmth, and playfulness are more important than a certain look or that they provide a certain service.
I will admit though that if I don't go to a massage parlour, I will read reviewers to ensure that it isn't a scam or the SP is really bad. But I don't let the occasional bad review put me off. Same for MP girls. If a provider is still getting customers who are generally satisfied or the girl hasn't been let go from the MP, then she must be doing something right - it just becomes a challenge to find it.
Or sometimes you might see providers proudly talking about how they had a high-level executive job before deciding to quit and become an escort. It makes me think they were an assistant manager at mcdonalds something, because if they were truly that successful, they wouldn't choose to work as an escort, which is seen as a lower-paying and less respected job compared to a true high-level executive position.
It's surprising to me that many women who are escorts don't seem to understand what men usually find attractive.
My final decision is mostly determined by social media. . There have been a few well reviewed providers who I have shortlisted that turned out to be insufferable oxygen thieves on social media. I figure that exposing their character did me a huge favour because I didn't waste a lot of money booking them just to have a bad experience.
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goldeneye111
Recommendation from their friends.
Social media. I have not seen many well-reviewed SPs based on their behaviour on social media. That's not to judge them but it's best for both of us.
Social media. I have not seen many well-reviewed SPs based on their behaviour on social media. That's not to judge them but it's best for both of us.
