What if you wanted to quit being an escort but your partner wouldn't support you?
For any reason.
For any reason.
What if you wanted to quit?
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Thats an easy one,,,,He's a lowlife and you shouldn't be with him,period!!!!
What,,he won't be getting the free extra cash you bring in???(FuCker!!!!)
Sorry,,anyone that would not support their "partner"if they wanted to turn the page deserves to get thrown to the curb!!!!And if you need help, I'd be more than happy to give you a hand.
What,,he won't be getting the free extra cash you bring in???(FuCker!!!!)
Sorry,,anyone that would not support their "partner"if they wanted to turn the page deserves to get thrown to the curb!!!!And if you need help, I'd be more than happy to give you a hand.
I believe the technical term for that would be 'PIMP' but a few others come to minds as well, such as:onemanwoman said:
pig, dirtball, bottom-feeding prick, loser, scumsucking pig...
It depends
Are you financially supporting him right now? If so, he doesn't want you to quit because he's (more or less) a pimp, in which case you should leave him. You can stay, but you will be in for a hard life.
When you say your boyfriend won't support you, do you mean financially? If so, do you mean he won't support you at all, or do you mean he won't support you living an escort's lifestyle? If he won't pay for your food or for your school, etc., then he doesn't love you. If he won't pay for you to have a $400 trip to the spa because he's busting his ass working two jobs, then you may have to choose between boyfriend vs. lifestyle. Remember very few people working square jobs can afford the lifestyle of an SP, so if you quit the biz chances are there will be a financial downgrade.
Even if he does support you, I somewhat agree with EuroSabina. For better or worse, money and power go hand in hand in any relationship. If you take his money and don't support yourself, he has all the power in the relationship. He'll only support you as long as he chooses to do so, which doesn't sound like very long at all or else you would not has posed this question to us.
Obviously most people in this world need a helping hand financially from time to time, but the sooner you can support yourself, the better.
DISCLAIMER: If by "support" you meant emotional support and not financial support, then I agree with the comments of the previous posters. Cut your losses and get out.
Are you financially supporting him right now? If so, he doesn't want you to quit because he's (more or less) a pimp, in which case you should leave him. You can stay, but you will be in for a hard life.
When you say your boyfriend won't support you, do you mean financially? If so, do you mean he won't support you at all, or do you mean he won't support you living an escort's lifestyle? If he won't pay for your food or for your school, etc., then he doesn't love you. If he won't pay for you to have a $400 trip to the spa because he's busting his ass working two jobs, then you may have to choose between boyfriend vs. lifestyle. Remember very few people working square jobs can afford the lifestyle of an SP, so if you quit the biz chances are there will be a financial downgrade.
Even if he does support you, I somewhat agree with EuroSabina. For better or worse, money and power go hand in hand in any relationship. If you take his money and don't support yourself, he has all the power in the relationship. He'll only support you as long as he chooses to do so, which doesn't sound like very long at all or else you would not has posed this question to us.
Obviously most people in this world need a helping hand financially from time to time, but the sooner you can support yourself, the better.
DISCLAIMER: If by "support" you meant emotional support and not financial support, then I agree with the comments of the previous posters. Cut your losses and get out.
TMFA (dump that mf's ass!)
Punt the partner
Wouldnt support you? Then why be in a relationship with them. If a girl wants to get out she should be able to make that call anytime she wants end of storry. If her man has a problem with it then she should give him the boot to the curb, Its her life.
Like gasoline ya want to pump me, and leave me when you get your fill ya - Poison 1989
Wouldnt support you? Then why be in a relationship with them. If a girl wants to get out she should be able to make that call anytime she wants end of storry. If her man has a problem with it then she should give him the boot to the curb, Its her life.
Like gasoline ya want to pump me, and leave me when you get your fill ya - Poison 1989
I do not support him finnancially at all. He pays for everything we do together and more. He has never asked for a cent nor would he. We don't even live together. He hates my job as would any man and I was almost ready to quit when I met him. Now I want to and he says no. If I do, I lose him.
He wants you to stay working as an escort? Has he given any reasons as to why he feels that you should stay working in this field.
I believe that as a couple one person should support the other in this kind of thing. If one wants a career change then there is usually good reasons for that and the person thats wants the change will usually be happier if the change occurrs.
I don't understand why any man would want his g.f. to stay in that line of work. Dump him
I believe that as a couple one person should support the other in this kind of thing. If one wants a career change then there is usually good reasons for that and the person thats wants the change will usually be happier if the change occurrs.
I don't understand why any man would want his g.f. to stay in that line of work. Dump him
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Wtf?
This doesn't add up. My $0.02 - This guy has some wierd control over you ... if you want to quit you should quit. I'm sure there are plenty of true friends and even strangers who would give you the support you need.onemanwoman said:
Doesn't want to be the reason for me giving that up he says.
He absolutely refuses to see me if I quit! Says if I wanna quit he and I can hook up when I am through doing so!
He says its not his place to ask me to stop making easy and fast money. He says he isn't going to be the one even though I wanted him to be!!
One day he will realize.
Then he will wish he was the one.
He absolutely refuses to see me if I quit! Says if I wanna quit he and I can hook up when I am through doing so!
He says its not his place to ask me to stop making easy and fast money. He says he isn't going to be the one even though I wanted him to be!!
One day he will realize.
Then he will wish he was the one.
I should not say this about someone i do not know, but i think he's a jerk. Daisy Dream has some good points although she admits to being jaded and bitter over relationships. Me too be the way.
I can't believe he will leave you if you quit for him. What kind of BS is that? Where's a killer when you want one?
I can't believe he will leave you if you quit for him. What kind of BS is that? Where's a killer when you want one?
I think that is the problem. He probably doesn't know what it is like. I know in my first relationship with an SP, I had no idea what it was like. Most guys wouldn't, being that we are on the buying side. For the longest time I used to think that the job would be great. Hang around and get paid to fuck. Most guys would love to do that. I'll betcha that most guys on this site think you girls love your job.Tiffany said:
