What I Don't Like in SP Ads

[Cock Throppled]

There are many not so great ads from SP's..

What I DON'T like in ads -

Obviously, fake pictures and wildly incorrect ages..

Descriptions of how wonderful it will be, with no actual description of her or her measurements.

Pics that cover so much you wonder what's being hidden.

Ads that never specify the area she's located.

Ads that are vague in services provided. Nice, relaxing and satisfying I can get at home without a vagina.

 

[Pillowtalk]

You have to understand first that most sites control content, and an sp who isn't specific (or graphic) about the services is one who is following the ad site rules. Some sites will delete the ad, or they have filters in place. Also, with the confusion about laws etc, many sps don't post info in the ads because they are confused about what content is allowed to be advertised. They err on the side of caution. In other words, you will have to contact for more info or details.

Good about the other stuff. I don't think anything guarantees a bad time more than the ad that "Tells" you how how, how great, how whatever she is.

 

[sonoman]

Descriptions of how wonderful it will be, with no actual description of her or her measurements.

Pics that cover so much you wonder what's being hidden.

Ads that are vague in services provided. Nice, relaxing and satisfying I can get at home without a vagina.

Hmmm.... true. At the very least, some basic stats, if not services.

 

[badbadboy]

There are many not so great ads from SP's..

What I DON'T like in ads -

Obviously, fake pictures and wildly incorrect ages..

Descriptions of how wonderful it will be, with no actual description of her or her measurements.

Pics that cover so much you wonder what's being hidden.

Ads that never specify the area she's located.

Ads that are vague in services provided. Nice, relaxing and satisfying I can get at home without a vagina.

I agree with pretty much everything you say but throw this out there:

Vague vs Explicit description of services provided: In my experience with some agencies have posted a long list of GFE services provided are not actually true. Once you are in the room with the SP you find that her personal restrictions do not resemble the list on the website whatsoever. When I mentioned this to the SP, I just got a look and a comment saying it is her list that counted not theirs. I walked since it was no where near truth in advertising, very expensive vs services and I knew the time together would not go well after asking the question.

On the other hand I have found some who post ads without a checklist to be the most rewarding. Of course it is a YMMV thing but going with the flow in a GFE experience rather than trying to go through a list in 60 minutes has been more satisfying personally.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Agencies are a little different. The women probably have little input into how the ads are written.

I don't even think they have to be specific about services, but at least give your stats. Even with true accompanying pictures the body can be deceiving without some hint of ht/wt/general build.

 

[juniper]

I try to find out what a woman's limitations are when I speak to her by telephone, then the cost and other details. Women who refuse to respond, who are impatient, rude or whose responses are thoroughly abbrieviated are censored out of my possible service pool. By doing this, I eliminate about 85% of SPs. I do this because Craigslist, and now Backpage, have carried such misleading advertisements. I explain this to the ladys, about misleading photos and advertising, in general. Most seem to be aware of how deceptive these advertisements have been and many are sympathetic to my concerns.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

There are many not so great ads from SP's..

What I DON'T like in ads -

Obviously, fake pictures and wildly incorrect ages..

Descriptions of how wonderful it will be, with no actual description of her or her measurements.

Pics that cover so much you wonder what's being hidden.

Ads that never specify the area she's located.

Ads that are vague in services provided. Nice, relaxing and satisfying I can get at home without a vagina.

I try to find out what a woman's limitations are when I speak to her by telephone, then the cost and other details. Women who refuse to respond, who are impatient, rude or whose responses are thoroughly abbrieviated are censored out of my possible service pool. By doing this, I eliminate about 85% of SPs. I do this because Craigslist, and now Backpage, have carried such misleading advertisements. I explain this to the ladys, about misleading photos and advertising, in general. Most seem to be aware of how deceptive these advertisements have been and many are sympathetic to my concerns.

both posters make excellent points

i also wonder what the problem is with posting rates for 'companionship' in the ads - the lady can always ask for a lower rate if the pooner wants to negotiate, but at least her general range would be indicated right off the bat, eliminating a lot of her time wasted with lowballers like myself lol

on a side note, many of the sp 'stats' are patently false - i have helped a few women shopping for undergarments and let me tell you, despite the fact that you and i would most heartily approve of their overall looks and shape, they are a lot wider and heavier than the 'playboy' measurements they advertise. occasionally i see newby ads for true independents listing real weight and measurements, but compared to the rest of the ads she sounds pretty thick. in reality when i meet her she is close to a spinner

 

[Cock Throppled]

Yeah, I guess if they're postng fake pics its not much of a stretch to say DD instead of B.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Yeah, I guess if they're postng fake pics its not much of a stretch to say DD instead of B.

that's right. and '22 inch' waists!! do you realize how small that is? when i touch my middle fingers and my thumbs, that makes a circle that is 18 inches in circumference. a 22 inch waist would allow me almost circle their waist with the fingers of my two hands - i'd only be missing two inches at each end... if they sucked it in, i would be able to touch - in reality not very many out there like that

although i expect some of the asian spinners are pretty close

 

[juniper]

It just occurred again. When I asked a potential SP to send photos, the new photos made her look conspicuously thick in back unlike her Backpage photo. I asked for a front view and there was no doubt about how chubby she was. She also looked much much older than the 21 years she actually advertised and homely as all get-out. She advertised she would "do anything" and wrote that she liked to be ordered about which suited me fine. She showed a photo of herself, her wrist manacled to her ankle, on Backpage. She seemed unsure about price. It was less than 2 browns and I think I could have convinced her of going even lower had I tried. Now I know why she is so cheap. Another one crossed off my list. At least I didn't have to have her show up, look at her, shake my head and say "No". I saved myself that time and effort. On the other hand, I have spent a certain amount of psychic energy fantasizing about her. When you go in with a good deal of fantasy behind you, well that's when you get disappointed because you choose to refuse to be clear and logical about a woman's real looks, attributes and qualities. That's as true about romance as it is about sexual fantasizing. Our pre-conceptions and our own desires get in the way of recognizing the facts on the ground as it were.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

I agree that conversation can really give you a feel of someone's personality and what your time might be like with them. Many girls will not discuss both what sexual services they offer and cost over the phone though, that's what ads are for.
When a client calls me asking this stuff it makes me feel like he is shopping around for the best "deal" and hasn't sought me out specifically, most likely a WOT

i guess we're all shopping for the 'best deal' when we talk to a lady we haven't seen before. to a certain extent i ask familiar stuff like that as a filler while i'm trying to think of something profound to say lol. even though i'm talking to ladies who are pretty much a 'sure thing', i always feel like i have to convince them that THEY want to see me! go figure... (this has got to be a gold mine to a psychologist!)

sometimes though that little horny devil sitting on our shoulder (or maybe in our lap) whispers that we just HAVE to see THIS particular lady, and if the ad provides sufficient detail of what to expect, then i don't ask about any of it and the conversation turns to when and where and what to bring, etc. much like a regular date. i guess that's partly what gfe is. that just isn't possible if the ad doesn't provide sufficient information