What happens when you get caught.

[Booblover123]

Thanks for all the comments,looks like I have three options,option #1 get castrated,problem solved.Option #2 come clean,have the talk divorce to follow,walk away from lots of money,and lost respect and half your friends.Option #3 keep doing what im doing,marriage is fine,everyone one is happy and I get sex with beautiful women.Tough choice but I will take #3.

 

[Samantha Jones]

whatever happened to the idea of an "open relationship"? why are girls (aka the wives) still like this.. all possessive and stuff. boggles me. even with children involved. Lets light up this thread

 

[storm rider]

Thanks for all the comments,looks like I have three options,option #1 get castrated,problem solved.Option #2 come clean,have the talk divorce to follow,walk away from lots of money,and lost respect and half your friends.Option #3 keep doing what im doing,marriage is fine,everyone one is happy and I get sex with beautiful women.Tough choice but I will take #3.

yeah but choice #3 leads to choice #2 no matter how carefull you are.....at some point you WILL fuck up or shw WILL catch on....and she WILL catch you be it via financial statements or cell phone records or something as stupid as a mutual aquaintence that links you at point A when you should have been at point B.

I know a pooner who went through this and he got busted twice and still came out smelling like a rose but the 3rd time was the charm and he lost the marital home and ended up writing out a huge check to pay for the divorce......a short while later he is in an ideal situation for his pre-existing desires that led to the demise of his marriage as he scored himself a really hot asian GF who was very sexually libereated and the guy ends up cheating on the hot asian GF with asian hookers because he likes "variety"........pretty fucking selfish to want the fucking rainbow sprinkles on the sunday you are eating that comes with the whipped cream and the cherry on top allready.....got to be selfish and have that little bit extra...pretty fucked up in my book.

All I can say is keep it up and be in denial or have the attitude that you are entitled to it and when you get caught you will get burned.If you are man you will talk to your wife and explain your needs and expectations with regards to your desires for sex and let her know in blunt terms what they are.

Slipping the wedding band on her finger or having children does not excuse her from putting out even moreso if she does not hold down a job.If she is a "stay at home mom" who would get HALF of the marital assets the very fucking least she should do it clean the house/take care of the kids/cook dinner/fuck you silly if you are busting your ass everyday to pay for housing/food/clothing and everything else.

SR

 

[sevenofnine]

sex is only part of a relationship.
at some points yeah it is the only thing that matters, at others not so much,

what kind of man would force his wife to fuck him, fuck me or im leaving, I want to stick it up your ass or I am leaving.
What kind of man would even want to have sex with a women who isn't interested.

In a perfect world you and your wife would work something out, or she would give you permission,
let me tell you it ain't a perfect world.

not even close.

sex is so unimportant in the scheme of things, but at times its everything,

some one said a healthy relationship is only a small part sex.
I tend to agree being married thirty some years,

but you know something, if one person is horny and there not satisfied, that sex that small percentage of sex that they need will fester and fester, it will be like a vital food mineral or vitamin that your body needs and doesn't get,
its so unimportant but yet so everything.

life relationships are not even close to being perfect.
most of us make do or make do alone.

 

[hornygandalf]

I'm with sevenofnine with this.
What of the marriage where the wife says she isn't interested in sex anymore (or said on one occasion "you are too old to still want sex") and to find someone else to fuck, but she doesn't want to know about it. I didn't believe her at first, but she said it more than once... and also said that an emotional affair would be much worse than just fucking someone else, so... what does one do to get ones needs met in this situation (we are on great terms otherwise except when it comes to sharing a bed together... and there are children involved who don't want any separation).