There is a term for this in psychology/psychiatry. It's called 'confabulation'. This is when you repeat a lie so often that it becomes a part of your 'personal narrative' and is no longer distinguishable in your own mind from events that actually have happened to you. This is where the 'false memory syndrome' happens.Never is, and never was...yes...
I can't stand liars, fraudsters, etc, and there are many of them around (always have been). People who can't deal with the truth and believe their own fabrications. Then they spew them on others.
Sorry to hear you got lied to J.O.. Every time it happens to me, I pick myself up and dust myself off, and give again. All I can I hope is that I'm developing better antennae and better boundaries in the process...





