What goes through your mind when you're having sex?

[yazoo]

I just had two amazingly good overseas punts - a nuru massage in a, um, 'spa', and a vietnamese freelancer overnighter. I'm still humming and reliving the experiences.

But in thinking about the punts I realized that I usually have the same thoughts running through my head while in the act. That got me wondering if we are all very similar, or different in what we think about while pumping away.

 

[yazoo]

What same thoughts run through your head?

Great thread topic!

Thx for the compliment. I guess if you are female you can't see the results without fake voting as a guy, and screwing up the results. I'd suggest just picking 'other'.

As for me, it seems that SP's don't want to appear lazy, so they're always moving, always working. Sometimes that's just overload and I start to lose it - so spend some time on self monitoring. It's hard to get things slowed down - I want to admire, squeeze, caress, inspect and not be always moving.

I guess that's why I prefer overnighters. The actual sex session is sometimes shorter than a short one hour session, but the unrushed atmosphere makes it feel longer.

But for me it is usually a mixture of self monitoring, and God, she's gorgeous. The more I can concentrate on the second, the less I spend on the first.

 

[Sleepmonger]

All of the above, minus 2 and 8, but the majority of the time it tends to be this

...But for me it is usually a mixture of self monitoring, and God, she's gorgeous. The more I can concentrate on the second, the less I spend on the first...

 

[vanperb]

A friend told me once that he was thinking of 'tower defense' strategy for a game he was playing...

 

[Man in Submission]

Usually, it's a case of "If I can keep fantasizing about being used, abused and dominated by a slutty girl in a short skirt and high boots, I can stay hard, bring this chick to orgasm, get off myself, and she goes home happy".

 

[vancity_cowboy]

i do enough screening and research that all the ladies i'm with are beautiful in one way or another so it was choice number 1 for me :thumb:

 

[InTheBum]

The following:

1. I hope this girl/woman is clean!
2. I pray I don't cum fast and this session seems like a waste of money
3. She better give good head!
4. Oh fuck this chick is hot...or...(Usually this is just after I have paid and the girl gets undressed and is walking into the bathroom) Why the fuck am I paying for this woman with an average body...???

 

[Man in Submission]

Is the poll about having sex with an SP? If that's the case, disregard my post, since I would only be with an SP to be dommed. I thought the starter of the thread meant having sex with anyone. Sorry about that! Dumb newbie that I am..:doh: And to clarify the aforementioned post, I respect and admire all women, always treat them like gold, have never even raised by voice to a girlfriend or or fiancee or wife in my life, but simply find it very hard to get aroused sexually unless I DATY for as long as she enjoys it, or whatever other way I can worship the lady! I do like to come, but the woman ALWAYS, ALWAYS comes first. Sometimes I hate to ruin the moment by coming myself, so I hold it back. I'm quite fit so I have always been able to contract the muscles and hold back. Oh, and I'm gratified to have a forum to say what I have felt for as long as I can remember. Thank you perb. It's nice to not always have to mask my true feelings. Sure could never say this to my soccer or hockey buddies, lol.

 

[VanessaofBC]

FWIW, I find there are 3 types of clients I see in my sessions.

1. Those who have it all planned out what they are gonna do with each minute of their time
2. Those who want you to take the lead and let you do all the pleasuring
3. Those who just let things unfold as they may

 

[rickoshadows]

I think of nothing. I turn complete control over to mini-me!

 

[VanessaofBC]

Interesting. The question was.... What goes through your mind while having sex?

It didn't say while in a session but that's all your mind went to. Hmmmmmmmm. Do you ever get laid outside a session? Not judgin, just askin

I was wondering the same thing, I am glad you said it!

 

[yazoo]

Interesting. The question was.... What goes through your mind while having sex?

It didn't say while in a session but that's all your mind went to. Hmmmmmmmm. Do you ever get laid outside a session? Not judgin, just askin

I kind of meant in a session. I thought it would be self-evident from the choices and the intro posting. If it were with a non-SP I would have to add choices like:

• I'm so crazy in love with this girl
• Am I big enough (as opposed to SP's where it is am I too big)
• Anger fucking (after argument)
• Did I really make her come, is my DATY good enough
• $160 restaurant bill, $100 bar bill and a $200 gold chain for "All you care about is sex. You don't love me for me". Fuck I could have had a friggin' SP threesome.