What Do You Get Out Of Pooning?

[Rammstein69]

...besides the obvious-sexual gratification with an attractive woman without having to 'win her over' first.

Do you guys find the experiences have actually helped in your relationships with women? Have your experiences augmented your attraction skills and confidence, or do you find real relationships to be somewhat unecessary now that you can get the prize without worry of rejection.

If you were (currently like me) somewhat frigid and long-time celibate at one point in your pre-pooning life, has pooning made you feel like a man again?

I just keep flip-flopping on this issue. $250+ for an hour of sex seems like a helluva lot of coin to get the same result my hand could provide. But, on the other hand, it could provide great incentive to try attracting women again. Sigh....so confused...

 

[87112]

Dude, us guys do it because this is real life. Our last name is not Travolta and Pitt so getting that young hottie is a chore not many can do.

 

[Markl]

I think it's the intimacy and chat... Always good to talk with someone who will listen and chat about their lives. Sex is secondary for me meeting someone in these situations. Of course it is always fun too. It is *never* just about sex, just making each other feel good.

A connection is important. If you feel connected, it makes you feel more whole I guess. This make sense?

 

[Rammstein69]

A connection is important. If you feel connected, it makes you feel more whole I guess. This make sense?

Yeah, I hear you. I think that's what I'm missing right now-that physical/emotional connection with a woman. The longer you go without it, the more you tend to pull away from it and the colder the passion and warmth of the heart become. Bad scene all around.

 

[DQ Guy]

well first off. Thats on hell of a question.

I'd have to say that its the simple escape from
the daily grind. Knowing that if you want it its there.
Yea some say that its a lot of money, but is it really..
When I look back on how much I've spent on Girlfriends I think WTF, and they always end up breaking your heart in the end.

So With an SP I get to feel cared about in some way. If only for an hour or 2
Its worth a few bucks in my mind.. I'm always looking for that One person to fill the space in my life and until that happens,
Pooning Is a very nice way to get not only great sex, but someone who can have a conversation aswell. and I'm not afraid to talk about almost anything to them without being judged.
Its also nice to have someone who is willing
to try new things in bed. Its easier to see what I like and don't like. and the practice is nice too

 

[Lurker 123]

Debt ! The more you enjoy this hobby,the more you will be in debt!

 

[Markl]

I started this only in January-February of this year.. mainly to get over a bad infatuation I had with someone. I have to say it has worked out well for me.

Life isn't so gloomy.. I look forward to the time I can spend with my regular. She is fun, different, and we know a lot about each other and enjoy our chats a lot.

Life is good.

 

[HB40]

I get my fantasies fulfilled, my ego stroked and the opportunity to experience a woman who would normally be unattainable. What I appreciate is the simple honesty of it. Sure they will tell me what I want to hear but really, they know what I want and give me what I need. I’ve only had sex with 3 women not in the business, all horrible experiences that nearly ruined my ideas of lovemaking. With the right SP’s you can practice & improve your prowess and have a great time doing it!

 

[Keithks]

It's a necessity for me. As far as I know, I'm incapable of getting sex the "normal" way, as it's never something I've been able to achieve. So relieving some of the tension that builds up in my loins is kind of nice.

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

Gave me some confidence which i didnt have before.

 

[rockymtn54]

I started this only in January-February of this year.. mainly to get over a bad infatuation I had with someone. I have to say it has worked out well for me.

As the old saying goes, "the best way to get over one woman is get under another"

 

[alt123]

Well most importantly its helped me to lose my V and gain experience. At the same time i've gained confidence in approaching girls in real life.

The hobby sure is expensive but i find the gains are higher than losses...atleast in my case....and having a board like this is awesome..you can really get ur moneys worth by making right choices...or lets say avoiding bad ones.

 

[wolverine]

I've always been a horndog and I wanna fuck. But I can't really be bothered with the dating scene and all its games and neurosises anymore. And I know that I'll get better looks, service and a safer bang from a pro than from your average club skank.

 

[realslimshady]

Variety is the spice of life. I have Chinese food all the time, and once in a while I crave a burger (or a fur burger).

 

[tarzana]

actually quite a bit

1. hot anonymous sex

2. no bothersome relationships.if i don't want to see her again i don't call her.and if she's professional she doesn't call/stalk me.

3. a great aerobic workout.my appts are usually at least 2 hours and if you've read my reviews I try to fill that time with solid fucking.

4. I participate in an area of life that allows me to be myself and talk about some of my sexual pecadillos without being judged.

5. The women I prefer to see are very smart, charming, professional and are really just fun to be around.They've taken a path that few follow for better or worse and this gives them interesting insight.

6. Most of the non-pros I've slept with were either very bad at sex or to be kind not very adventurous.Very meat and potato.With pooning you can really get done to you or do to them whatever you want without them making a huge fuss about it days later or telling all your/their friends what you enjoy.

 

[HB40]

4. I participate in an area of life that allows me to be myself and talk about of my sexual picadillos without being judged.

Excellent perspective, totally agree. Unfortunately in my situation this hobby is too taboo and i'm unable to share my experiences. Thankfully, what I get out of perbing has been liberating.

 

[sales]

For me, it started as a way to lose my virginity at 37 as I had become so self conscious of being a virgin that it became a problem with taking my friendships to the next level. From there, it became "I need a lot of practice", but I had issues with the whole randomness of walking into a MP and taking the first lady to walk out so after a fun filled birthday week, I decided to make it two regulars who I try to see one each month and I enjoy both the level of physical and emotional intimacy that they provide which in turns makes me a more confident person.

The second thing I got from this hobby is my life. During my first session, I was on the bed looking up into a mirror above the bed and seeing my fat body lying there with a beautiful women between my legs and I was disgusted with myself. I realized then that I needed to get my self in shape and have lost 40 pounds since that visit. I still have a long way to go, but I know that I am on the right path. I also know that I will owe a debt of gratitude to her that I will never be able to fully repay.

 

[slacker]

Indeed this is a pretty big question.

For me its not at all about I having to get off and the immediate satisfaction of it. It is about fulfilling fantasies and building memories I can think about fondly for a long time. I've pooned very little but the effect is long lasting way after pooning. I'm still happily not being able to believe some of the fantasies I've fulfilled. For me I'll only poon with women I find super attractive as well otherwise it seems a bit pointless (just getting rocks off).

There are also other nice side effects, having not been with many women at all even outside of pooning it definitely helps build a sense of confidence with women. And like another said, it definitely has helped me get over some infatuation I've had on other women as it takes your thoughts off of them.

 

[Bartdude]

I've always been a horndog and I wanna fuck. But I can't really be bothered with the dating scene and all its games and neurosises anymore. And I know that I'll get better looks, service and a safer bang from a pro than from your average club skank.

Well said, Wolvie.

Leave it to the vet to cut to the chase.

 

[myselftheother]

I've gotten from pooning between relationships a continuing intimate connection with women...even though it costs some $$, I see it as an investment in my not losing touch with myself.

Also, the r&t scene keeps me much less tense, stressed and I love to get a good rub.....and far safer professional fs than with some chicky at a bar who sports fucks the flavour of the week.