What do they really think of us pooners?

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manni

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What about that theory that women like a confident man?
I'd say out the window.
no woman would ever touch a guy w warts all over his nether region
no matter how confident he seem or how desperate her situation.
 

Man Mountain

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I did finally get around to watching the complete 46 minute doc.

It should be noted that "Fat Bob" was not the client being complained about for having warts.

On the subject of "what do they really think of us?" -- In the doc, there is another gentleman, also named Bob and while the first lady with whom he gets set up doesn't work out to his liking, he "trades her in" for another young lady whom he apparently "keeps" for much of the remainder of his stay at the locale. And she and another one of the resorts working ladies have a secret conversation over one of the meals that seems to suggest that she is quite enamored with this Bob. At first, she calls him odd or strange but as she apparently warms up to him, she mentions that he's actually quite sweet. And the other lady warns her that she needs to harden her heart towards him as she worries that her friend may be developing real feelings for him.

To badly paraphrase Alabama Worley, "That's the way it goes. But sometimes it goes the other way too..." ;)
 

Caramel

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I did finally get around to watching the complete 46 minute doc.

It should be noted that "Fat Bob" was not the client being complained about for having warts.

On the subject of "what do they really think of us?" -- In the doc, there is another gentleman, also named Bob and while the first lady with whom he gets set up doesn't work out to his liking, he "trades her in" for another young lady whom he apparently "keeps" for much of the remainder of his stay at the locale. And she and another one of the resorts working ladies have a secret conversation over one of the meals that seems to suggest that she is quite enamored with this Bob. At first, she calls him odd or strange but as she apparently warms up to him, she mentions that he's actually quite sweet. And the other lady warns her that she needs to harden her heart towards him as she worries that her friend may be developing real feelings for him.

To badly paraphrase Alabama Worley, "That's the way it goes. But sometimes it goes the other way too..." ;)
yep the sweet old man from Alaska, he was actually nice! but at the end he didn't give a great review about it, he said the girls weren't as pretty as he thought, plus in the beginning he sort of got bait & switched, prebooked but when he showed up the girl he wanted wasn't available
 

helloim

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I kind of think its mutual,
we sort of have a love hate relationship with each other.

its hard to explain,

but sps have said most of us are creeps or disgusting or simply pathetic,
maybe only ten percent are nice guys,

us guys thing the girls are broken damaged gold diggers.
my sp told me once, when she meets former clients in the mall or somewhere, and there all former clients now, she is retired more or less.
she feels their loathing eyes.

the truth is we kind of need each other.
but in some ways resent each other I think,


and the honest truth is, what do you expect perfection from a girl who will fuck any one for money,
and well us guys, what do you expect from us, money is easy, easy as throw some money down and fuck her and not give a shit, not wanting to give a shit, lying to or wife's, or too messed up to ever have a wife.

were both sort of trapped I think,,


a reformed sp told me once if you love your self you don't sell your sell.
I kind of think you don't buy someone either.
it works both ways.


at some point, for both of us, I think it comes down to self esteem,
is that all I'm a cunt for someone to fuck,

is that the only way I can get a women is to pay her,

I think some people don't care they really don't

but I think most of us at some point do care about our self esteem.
and of course its never our fault so it has to be the other person involved in all of this.
there wrong screwed up messed up, not I heavens no not I.

what I'm proud of what I have enjoyed after 11 years in this
is my continued friendship with a certain sp, not at all the sex I have had,
I like what you said. I'm happy you have this enduring friendship.
 

helloim

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I did finally get around to watching the complete 46 minute doc.

It should be noted that "Fat Bob" was not the client being complained about for having warts.

On the subject of "what do they really think of us?" -- In the doc, there is another gentleman, also named Bob and while the first lady with whom he gets set up doesn't work out to his liking, he "trades her in" for another young lady whom he apparently "keeps" for much of the remainder of his stay at the locale. And she and another one of the resorts working ladies have a secret conversation over one of the meals that seems to suggest that she is quite enamored with this Bob. At first, she calls him odd or strange but as she apparently warms up to him, she mentions that he's actually quite sweet. And the other lady warns her that she needs to harden her heart towards him as she worries that her friend may be developing real feelings for him.

To badly paraphrase Alabama Worley, "That's the way it goes. But sometimes it goes the other way too..." ;)
Yes and the interviewing lady asked him if he "likes when working girls take a liking to him". I feel like they brought that question out for a reason. I definitely enjoy having SP's take a liking towards me, in fact it's one of the only thing that really makes a session is when I feel like the SP liked me. So relating to the interviewer asking him about that, it made me feel like that was an age-old sentiment, shared by men who see escorts everywhere. The act may be buying pussy, but the intent is buying love.
 

lenny

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"What do they really think of us pooners?"

Clearly they think we are a God send.

Giggly DTES SW to lenny: "I hadn't kissed a guy in years"!
 

UhOh

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Really? You respect a woman who would continue with bbbj/fs if she notices warts on a client's dick? That would be an immediate stop for anyone who has self-respect and respect for their clients, imo. Part of being safe, as you quoted, is staying away from visible lesions.

Haven't watched the video though I can say that we as providers meet people from all walks of life and personally I pride myself in accepting people where they are in their stage of life. Warts and all? Well, figuratively speaking.
The irony of one SP disrespecting another SP's choices. You do realize the virus that causes those lesions is invisible for most of the time yet can be just as infective as when visible. I don't think many of those girls enjoy their work but options are fewer in a third world country when it comes to feeding a family.
A SP in Vancouver isn't going to starve if she decides one day she's reached her quota of BBBJ's.
 

uncleg

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.......see how far you get without it.......:pound:
 

wetnose

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The one thing I learnt about becoming an adult is to stop giving a f*ck what people think of me. They really don't care, honest. Pay them the agreed price, be well shaven/washed and look half decent. Have your fun and move on.
 

Karmen Krush

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I only watched a bit of the video but kind of felt bad for Bob. The girls were lousy and really didn't treat Bob kindly. So what if he is fat or needy?. He looked lonely and bored. He looked sad.
I have developed some very great relationships with people that I may have not otherwise met if it wasn't for this profession. Yes sometimes I have to deal with some unsavoury clients, but I also hold the right to refuse service. I had one guy so big that he was literally crushing me but preferred to be on top. I couldn't breath. Also I have refused repeat clients if they're really bad kissers (kissing is VERY important to me) or have poor hygiene. But for the most part, I absolutely enjoy the gents that I see. Everyone has needs and the desire to be wanted. To be held, kissed, "loved"...even if it is just a fantasy. But heck, I have way better dates with the men willing to pay for my time than the men that feel entitled to my time.
Yes there is a great deal of physiological fuckery that comes with this job, but I've also learned a great deal about men and was able to apply that to my everyday relations...like listening.
This is why I state on my site that my space is non-discriminatory and no hate speech of any kind is tolerated.
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Nickoftime

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I read a man's ode to a former SP in which he made overtures to her regarding a continuing relationship after her retirement. What I wonder is how many guys are paying for the fantasy of a connection with a woman who treats him well. At what point does a pooner start to believe that his regular with whom he has "chemistry" would really like to be with him intimately outside of the life?

I catch myself feeling flattered when I am made to feel that there is chemistry between me and a beautiful woman half my age. But, reading some reviews, I wonder if there aren't some guys who forget that this is a business transaction and maybe they are paying for the fantasy that a beautiful woman actually wants them.

So very tempting to slip into paying for a relationship rather than just sex.

On the other hand, who's to say there is anything wrong with that? Maybe its ok that the beautiful young woman who treats me so well because she likes me, treats 10 other guys just as well because she likes them too.

Fascinating area of the human existence!
 

Tugela

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Maybe I'm missing something, but the whole point of paying someone for sex is precisely because they (or someone like them) would not give you any consideration at all if you didn't.

Which is not to say that the experience has to be soulless as a result of that. Both of you are still human beings after all. But it is unrealistic to think the exchange to be the same as a conventional relationship. It is more the sort of relationship you might have with a business partner or client in any other sort of industry. Pleasantries, politeness, hell, you may even get along and have lunch. But they are still just acquaintances, not friends. At then end of the day you go home and live your own life as though they didn't exist.
 

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thanks feenix for the post.. very interesting. I know every girl would love a 25 year old brad pitt... but Brad doesn't need an sp so here we are hahahah
I don't know about that. Hugh Grant was pretty successful and arguably good looking when he got arrested for receiving a BJ from a SW. I am sure he had no problems with getting women to be interested at the time, and he was with Elizabeth Hurley at that time. Granted he may not be as good looking as Brad Pitt, but he would have women lined up to date him at the time if he wanted.
 

resercher

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I watched this video a few days ago, and it got me thinking about my relationships with providers, and wondering what they really think of me. After all, how many 19 - 35 year old women really want to screw a man who is several decades older than her?

The introduction of "Fat Bob" into the video, and the girls' feelings about him makes me think of another very over weight pooner who likes to project that he is a gift for the ladies, If only he knew.

Perhaps I should be looking into a mirror and say, "If only you knew!!

I submit this to start a conversation on the subject.

<iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/JWX1Kyty4b0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>

how insulting we all know that the man in the above video is not in fact as described by some of the women As being fat

But he is in fact an ssbhm super sized big handsome man . The male eqivelant of an ssbbw super sized big beautiful woman :)

term ssbbw is explained here under the heading variantes.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Beautiful_Woman
 

Caramel

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thanks feenix for the post.. very interesting. I know every girl would love a 25 year old brad pitt... but Brad doesn't need an sp so here we are hahahah. I would love to visit this place, however the girls aren't beauty queens either. I doubt any of them will get contracts with victorias secret or chanel.
oh come on, why do you think so many SP's have the age restriction on their website, "gentlemen over 35" etc. ?

In this business, its the complete opposite, the "fat" older man is easy money, they generally always pays the full rate, no complaints, thinks the SP is one of the most gorgeous creatures he's ever seen, and leaves after cumming within 10 minutes. Whereas the 25 year old brad pitt will use her body like a jungle gym and make her work for the entire 60 minutes, make a mess in the bathroom, and ask for discounts or time off the clock because since he is either good looking or close to the SP's age, he figures she will want to do it.
 
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