What could make a woman desire sex as much as a man?

[Tugela]

Oh dear. This truly makes me cringe.

Heh....what else would she do, life goes on

 

[Tugela]

I totally agree. Sex as an escort has been a lot more fun for me than sex in a relationship, and I think a big reason for that is the LACK OF STRESS I have as an escort.

The average married woman with a 9-5 job, a dog, a house, kids and a husband has a lot on her plate, and all that stress contributes to a lower libido.

Being an escort gives me a lot of free time and disposable income. I can get a full 9 hours of sleep, prepare super-healthy meals, hit the gym everyday, meditate and do yoga, earn a second degree, stay in touch with friends, go to the spa, keep my condo clean, pursue artistic stuff, and so much more. STRESS-FREE LIFESTYLE = higher libido.

I think that is more a case of doing it because you want to versus doing it because you "have" to. I think that society imposes this sort of belief in people about their roles in marriage, a man's traditional role is to "provide" and a woman's role is to "keep house". Part of what goes into "keeping house" is to provide sex to her spouse. It becomes a sort of job as it were, but one where you don't really get to say no without causing conflict. The "breadwinner" in the family often gets the same sorts of feelings, but in a different area of the relationship.

I think a lot of stress in marriage comes from both spouses doing things because they have to (it is expected of them) and feel obligated, not because they want to. It is a subtle thing, even though you may enjoy something, being obligated to do it and having social boundaries placed on it will gradually eat away at that enjoyment untill it becomes resentment.